That's a really nice compliment, especially coming from you who I look up to for how supportive you are on the forum. Thank you!You are already a very supportive person and I'm sure you'll mine this whole mess for precious nuggets of experience that will further improve your ability to help others.
Also: I'm so glad you're getting your teeth fixed without falling for J's sob stories about almost not being able to pay things. Dental health is so important and you wouldn't have ground your teeth to bits if it hadn't been for the stress his antics caused.
Thanks Liza, it feels really good getting all our health things looked after.Good for you getting that dental work started!
I agree with Llama about the coordinating therapist. I think she is involved in so many legal battles that she keeps all the parents at arm's length and tries to just advocate for the child, but I think she could do that way less blatantly. I think it's ironic, too, that my teeth are worn almost all the way to the gum-line in the back and how symbolic that is. It's awful what happened to J that he is how he is now. I do feel very sorry for him while also making sure I watch my back every second around him.I think it's a good idea to ask if the therapist would use your name & not "Mom". It's mind-boggling that she doesn't.
I'm glad that you are having that dental work done-your poor teeth. I'm not too fond of sarcasm but sometimes it comes to mind. Usually, I leave it there. Poor J. My heart bleeds for him
Do you have anything nice planned for this week, M?
I have plans for the coming week that I am really hoping we get to. I really want to take the stand up paddle boards for a spin on the marsh by where we walk in the evenings. It has a nice boating channel through it where a lot of paddle boarders go. I also picked up 2 bike tire inserts that are thorn-proof and will install one and keep the other for a spare so we can finally go bike riding again. If we are wildly successful on catching up on school, I'd love to grab some oil pastels and go out sketching. If not, maybe we can just go to a cafe and I can bring the oil pastels and teach K how to blend them and show her some tricks of doing still lives or something like that. I'd love to get us sketching again!
Yesterday we went through some of the colleges on the list and eliminated some and highlighted others. It's slow going as this is an interdisciplinary program and often has a bunch of different options at each college, none of which quite look the same from school to school. Also K got her test grade back for the college entrance exam (SAT) and it was on the low side of her practice tests. Still, the entire auditorium of kids were coughing and sneezing, and the loudest cougher sat right behind her, and she does not do well in tests with distractions and noise, so she did well given the circumstances. I will leave it to her if she wants to retake the test, which she isn't wanting to do at the moment. The school where she most wants to go has a higher test score range listed than what she got, so we'll talk about that and see how it goes. I also found a really good community college (2 year program) where she could go to get prerequisites out of the way and also show what a good student she is despite her test scores.
I texted back and forth to the admissions person at the art therapy program, and they will look at my college transcripts and show me what would transfer. I don't know when I would apply yet, but I am sure I'd get in. I have a good GPA in my master's program and good resume for showing that I am an artist and have experience working with kids from all different backgrounds. Anyway, that's really getting me excited, and I am reading up on all the advances in my field in the last 20 years - it's mind boggling how much has changed - I'll never catch up to all the good stuff happening now! It's all so much more evidence based and creative and innovative now.