All this passive consumption is really boring to me, too, if it doesn't lead to actively enriching one's life and the lives of the people around us. It's like people forget that life is to be actively lived.
- Love this Marsia!
- Thanks Liza. MANIFEST!
- Me too Cate.
I'm a bit down this evening after a pretty good day overall. I've tried to passively consume to drown out the sad thoughts but I just can't be bothered. Nothing's working anymore! I'm sick of music, I'm sick of films, I'm sick of everything.
I went for a swim last night and I really enjoyed it again, so at least that's one thing I'm not sick of. I'm pretty sure the courts will be frozen tomorrow. I'm meant to be playing tennis for a few hours, which would have been nice, but I can't see it happening.
Weight has gone up a little bit but body fat is down a bit. I really have to watch it. I had a good eating day today, but I've ruined it with a bag of crisps and a 100 g protein bar this evening. It was a binge really, I was just shovelling the food in, not even tasting it. I hate when I do this. Even though my diet is still a disaster, bingeing isn't really a thing for me anymore in the way it used to be. It used to be a daily thing. Now it's more overeating from time to time, or just eating a takeaway or something, which is overeating to me as I always eat too much of it and feel too full afterwards.
I feel sad about Tom tonight, and then I feel sad about me feeling sad about that. Lol. I still think about him too much. I can't seem to shake it off.
What has been good over the last couple of weeks though is that I've started to think more about me again. 'What do you mean?' you say, scratching your head. 'How could you possibly think about yourself any more than you already do?!'
What I mean is that I've started to examine how to get to the next stepping stone of personal development. I kind of know what is keeping me chained to the current stepping stone. The next leap seems impossible.
I've been thinking that I really am afraid. Smoking and all of those things keep you closed off from the world and from people. They're all insular things. Food addiction or obsession is an insular thing. Drinking is an insular thing, particularly the way I drink anyway. I'm keeping myself cocooned. Nice and safe (if unhealthy) in here.
So yeah. There's stuff coming up that I need to be open for. I need my energy levels to be high. The swimming is helping because it knocks me out. I had an excellent sleep last night. I'm wired again tonight unfortunately and just really bothered about things. But I will try to sleep soon and hopefully tomorrow will be a good day.