Hey guys, looks like we finally got this thread a-jumping!! So I have lots to comment on!!
Xenon, thanks for the reply! I am really chuffed with not being 230lbs any more but now that I've hovered around the same weight for a year, its time for PHASE 2!! I've proven to myself that I can lose that much once, now I want to drop the next 20-30lbs and really feel great. With the running, I started off on the Couch to 5k program (which is excellent but I got frustrated with it only being every other day and taking more time than I sometimes had at the gym - my schedule is all over the place) so I adapted it to something that suited me more. I started walking 5 mins warm up, then running for 90 seconds, walking for 3 mins, running for 90 seconds etc x 4 then a 5 mins warm down... the next time, I ran for 2 mins and walked for 2 mins, the next time 3 mins and I slowly found that I could drop some of the walking in between so I worked up to walking 5 mins, running 5 mins, walking 5 mins and from there just tried to run an extra minute each time I did it. I find it vital though to trick myself into not clock watching - I'll watch the tv news until the segment has finished or turn the machine to monitor calories and just focus on until 30 more cals have gone, then turn it to distance and focus on the next .3 of a km and THEN go back to time and its like "wow" another 3 mins have gone by. Music also makes a huge difference - I have club floor fillers from the 80s on my ipod shuffle with songs like "Ride on Time by Blackbox" which I haven't heard since I was like...17!!
Running outside is SO much more difficult though but 20 secs intervals is a good start - just build up to 30 sec...40 sec... then merge two intervals together...its all about progression.
As for the meeting...well I've met him aroudn 4 times over the last 2 years and there's been a spark (!) but over the last 3 months we've been talking on the phone 2/3 times a month as we're negotiating a deal and its turned very friendly and chatty and a little bit flirty (but not enough to be considered unprofessional) but this is our final deal meeting so I will probably not get to see him again...so I want it to be "wow, I don;t rememebr her looking THAT good" hehehe worth killing myself at the gym for!
Derbydoll - I have had knee ligament problems too and found the gym treadmill or like a proper running track far easier to run on than normal road/pavement/park. I bought some Asic running shoes that really really helped and didn't run any inclines. As for big chest - 38FF here - I put on a sports bra AND an athletics tank top/sports bra on top just to prevent any self-inflicted black eyes!!
Imaninjadangit - 19th July is...3 1/2 months so 50lbs is around 3.5lbs so ambitious!! but if you put your mind to it! Good luck and we'll be cheering for you! I always find it the best to have an incentive in the future to work towards.