Attracting Shy, Athletic, Driven girls

Not really.

Like let's say if I were to compliment someone on how they look. Automatically, it's like something perverted.

Like get this. One time at a show, I noticed a cheerleader who happens to look very unique from the rest. We had a chance for like a QA and I mentioned how unique and great she stood out. She rolled her eyes and walked away. I mean what the heck? Can I complement someone?
 
Dallen said:
Not really.

Like let's say if I were to compliment someone on how they look. Automatically, it's like something perverted.

Like get this. One time at a show, I noticed a cheerleader who happens to look very unique from the rest. We had a chance for like a QA and I mentioned how unique and great she stood out. She rolled her eyes and walked away. I mean what the heck? Can I complement someone?
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I just call them stuck up bitches, id love to stamp those sort of people into the kerb.
 
evolution said:
Because the thread was about attracting another person into a possible relationship. Sex is often part of a relationship.
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So what you're saying is that in order to attract another person, you must show your sexual status?

I mean this world's relationship turned into crazy stuff: cheating, sexual, and showing off your stuff (body, muscles, etc).

If you look at music videos and other stuff, you see the above. I was watching a music video one day, here's what they had in it: a girl singing about a man coming home cheating and how he's not fooling anyone, how she found "someone else" who can protect her from the evils, and finally, they end up touching each other.

I mean what the heck? Why can't this world be straight with stuff? I mean a one-on-one, no bull crap?

Just walk up to someone and tell them straight out that you like them. If you want something, say it. If you want to hang out with them, just say, "Hey, I'm not going to lie to you, I want to hang out with you. What do you think about that?" If you don't like them, just say, "Hey, I think you suck, I'm going with plan B, see you later."
 
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because you can't let them know you like them, then they can own you and you won't get any.

Sex will, for most people, be an important part of a relationship, and it is a pretty big part of life aswell to be honest. That's why sex appears in so many topics.. It touches onto almost everything!
 
SEX is a beautiful part of every relationship which should be held as the highest level of giving oneself to your partner. Sex shouldn't be taken lightly as its letting yourself become vulnerable to the other person.
 
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BigTomW said:
SEX is a beautiful part of every relationship which should be held as the highest level of giving oneself to your partner. Sex shouldn't be taken lightly as its letting yourself become vulnerable to the other person.
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Wow. That's beautiful, Tom. I didn't realize you were so sensitive.
 
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Wow Spicy some deeeeeep sh1t there.

Obviously my personal view on sex isnt the same as yours. I dont see the spiritual side as you see.

I just see it as.... stick it in, pump away, squirt, nice feeling, job done.

But thats me ;)
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Your definition of sex is basically just using a woman's body to masturbate. You could use your hand and get the same result. Of course, the woman probably arouses you as well, but it's really no different. If there's no real personal/emotional/spiritual interaction, then it's not really partner-sex. It's two people using eachother for physical satisfaction. It doesn't sound all that fun to me, but it probably does it for you because you haven't learned about the emotional and spiritual parts of it.

As for spirituality, sexuality cannot be separated from it no matter how hard you try. You can try to ignore the spiritual aspects, but there will always be some form of energy exchange during sex. The goal is to maximize the flow of good energy and minimize the negatives. It can be spiritually empowering to share yourself with someone, but you are making yourself vulnerable. This is why people who indulge themselves in many one night stands end up spiritually drained. Instead of the partners mutually giving to one another, they are taking from one another. I would suggest looking into some tantric or taoist practices in sexuality. The spirituality or "energy" is there, even if you don't know it yet. By ignoring it, you miss out on something that can be more than just physically fulfilling. It can empower and enlighten you if you let it, but it does require you to love yourself and your partner.
 
Energy exchange huh? Maximize the flow of good energy? This is grade A stuff, you've seriously got me lol'ing..
 
spicypumpkin said:
Your definition of sex is basically just using a woman's body to masturbate. You could use your hand and get the same result. Of course, the woman probably arouses you as well, but it's really no different. If there's no real personal/emotional/spiritual interaction, then it's not really partner-sex. It's two people using eachother for physical satisfaction. It doesn't sound all that fun to me, but it probably does it for you because you haven't learned about the emotional and spiritual parts of it.

As for spirituality, sexuality cannot be separated from it no matter how hard you try. You can try to ignore the spiritual aspects, but there will always be some form of energy exchange during sex. The goal is to maximize the flow of good energy and minimize the negatives. It can be spiritually empowering to share yourself with someone, but you are making yourself vulnerable. This is why people who indulge themselves in many one night stands end up spiritually drained. Instead of the partners mutually giving to one another, they are taking from one another. I would suggest looking into some tantric or taoist practices in sexuality. The spirituality or "energy" is there, even if you don't know it yet. By ignoring it, you miss out on something that can be more than just physically fulfilling. It can empower and enlighten you if you let it, but it does require you to love yourself and your partner.
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Ok sabrina the teenage witch, lets take this one step at a time.

I dont understand what extra benefit you can get out of sex. Spiritually? I just dont get it. Im going to actually look up that you mentioned above.

Then ill come back with my own conclusion :D

I bet spiritually cant beat, dropping a few E's then having a 3some? Beat that one ;)
 
I agree with SP...theres a difference between just sticking it in a hole and being intimiate with someone you have a connection to.
 
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