Target Daily Cal intake - 1200-1450 (I usually am at the higher end, if not going over - yeah, I know I need to watch that).
Beth, you need to do more than watch it......YOU NEED TO ROCK WITH IT and be tough with watching and knowing what calories your are consuming. You want to rid yourself of feeling bad......this is the place to start.
By meticulously following our calories, you WILL know exactly with good approximation how far you are, and FOR SURE whether your on course, and if you fall off......where to correct and get back on track......
And, your MT line is what?
How much of a deficit? Per day. And, if you cheat, are you paying attention to how much over? If you go over too much in one day, it can, and it will erase the prior day and/or days of deficits attributed--dependent how much you had went over.
However, if you cheated and fell within your limits--then your fine in the caloric sense up to that point.
If at you eat and/or cheat within eating at your MT line, then the deficits before up to the point of eating at your MT Line are fine....your still on course.
Thus the POWER----in knowing our calories per day is OBVIOUS.
Been doing NROL for what,.....um....I don' know. I'm starting Fat Loss I for real today (I did weights this week, but couldn't do NROL as I didn't have a stability ball...I got one today, so I can start the FL).
Beth you need to KNOW how long your doing your training---always analyze the length of your fruits and the fruits of your labor!
I know you havent been doing NROL very long; however, it has been
more than a week,
and with everything considered equal, and if you deficits were kept..and dependent upon dietary mistakes.....RESULTS are the THEME.......
therefore.....something is wrong.
I have a feeling that, besides the poor diet, is my lack of serious cardio. The ML is all well and good, but after you reach age 30 things don't come as easily and so therefore I have to work harder.
One does NOT need cardio to lose fat tissue. If the deficit diet gets messed up (say you are over), the cardio CAN BE a waste of time--dependent upon the surplus.
In order for Cardio to be effective in fat loss--the diet needs to be in order, and this is the bottom line.
You can use cardio to an advantage: If you ate a cheat meal, and this meal brought you over for example 200c of your deficit, and you get upset for cheating when you really didnt want to........then jump on the cardio for 30 minutes, and bring the caloric surplus down, and maybe even into a deficit. And, if the intensity level was great enough for your particulars, you may even burn fat for fuel.------Learn to combat some weaknesses with "appropriate exercise"---sometimes.
Thus another POWER reason to know your caloric intake.
I can't seem to get away from this nasty cycle. I feel ****ty about how I eat, so I get something not so good (emotionally eat) and then I feel even worse. Ugh. My fingers are still puffy. They felt so bad the other day, I actually had a night mare that my face and every inch of my body just puffed right out. It was gross and scary. And yet, I continue.
All the RAH, RAH, in the world isnt gonna help you....unless you get just as tough on yourself.......as you are in the oppostive direction, young lady. You are gonna have to KICK IN......a positive attack on the negatives that draw you down.......
You know how I feel about you and the other members, so dont take this the wrong way: You are gonna HAVE TO control your mind and your mouth---or you WILL be in the same position......several weeks from now. (Dr. Phil attitude)
Believe me when I tell you.....this is a COMMON problem.....Controlling the mouth and what goes in.....you are not alone------but cry, whine, get mad.....this isnt gonna change, and is the way it is.........you dont have a choice BUT TO ACCEPT IT......you go against.......it....then your future is the same as it is right at the moment.
I know the difficulties of dieting......
I have never told you you DIDNT want it.
But, the truth is one of the KEYS of you feeling better toward your self is losing the weight you desire: Everytime you stay within your limits feeds the part of the self that desires the thinner human being, and everytime you "inappropriately" cheat feeds the insecurities you want to get rid of. So you are on a roller-coaster ride........you have to FEED the one you want most.......for in the end you can give yourself a toast.
Best wishes to you, young lady
Chillen
and........