LOL....it's the thread that won't die
We'll be playing this thread for years.....
Most running gear has some padding in the crotch so the guy isn't revealing that much. But I will agree that some men look horrifyingly disgusting in them. However, some guys look smokin' hot.
Exactly!
It's not as popular as it once was, but a few years back woman in L.A. literally replaced pants & skirts with Spandex. Everywhere you looked you'd see black legs and various degrees of lower torso with different tops (sweaters, shirts, whatever). Women with a good figure looked HOT and then there were plenty of fatties walking around exposing us to their thunderous hips, wide-displacement asses and even layers of cellulite revealed as rolling bulges under the material....it was wrong, just so wrong....but of course they'd say "it's so comfortable"....yeah, tell that to my burned retina's!
Should it come as any surprise that, when it comes to wearing skin-tight or revealing garments, that men are held to the same accountibility as woman? Not really.
Some people just need to take a good look in the mirror and realize what they're presenting. One guy at my gym wears a swimming jammer to spin-class; what an idiot...no padding and you can see too much detail. He's overweight and looks terrible. His shirt isn't even long enough to cover it up. Not only do my cycling shorts or bibs have padding, but I wear shirts that pretty much dismiss the matter anyways.....
At the same time, I've seen woman out in public where you can totally see the camel-toe. Hey, I know a lot of guys who think it's sexy when you can see some G-string action rising out from atop the pants....but seeing material sucked & tucked up into a woman's vagigi...I'm sorry, it's just a herendous fashion violation, not arousing! And how about when woman squeeze themselves into spandex that is too small or worn and you can see the fabric fighting to maintain structural integrity? Done right, it's a very sexy and sporty look...and it is comfortable/fucntional...but done wrong, it's visually oppressive and that goes for both men AND woman alike!
But for men, it goes back to the saying: balls are not boobs, nobody wants to see 'em. There's no cartlidge, bone or anything other then soft-tissue down there...nothing that can't be compressed or confined to an acceptible level. Is it a testiment of your manhood? Not really...it's more a function of the temperature of your body and the temperature around you....your body moves thing in & out to regulate temperature! Beyond that, it's about how thick & tight the material is and how much padding or lining it has.
Wear black because it hides definition and make sure you have some semblance of padding to remove details...and unless you're swimming in a pool or about to jump on a bike, wear a shirt long enough to mostly cover things up.
There really truly are woman out there who dig men in lycra....but, just as the rule applies to woman, you need to have the body & shape to pull it off. I'm under the impression it's better to show too little and let them crave & want to see more...then to just let it all hang out and be vulgar.
Beyond that....it's just clothing.