The ChillOut Log

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Just because you made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake.

Little do you know that I'm a result of a drunken night between my mom and dad..... no just kidding... thats terrible. Anyway, thanks chillen, my self esteem isn't low right now, but if it is I will definitely be referring back to that post! On a side note, that weirded me out that you knew i was online:eek:
 
AMP, let me set you free.......

In the Quick Links on the above bar, click it.

In the drop down menu, at the bottom its states: "Who's Online"


This is how I know

Now you know my secret..........hehehheehe........:)
 
Because I want to: For you BETH

This is for YOU BETH:

Recognize Your Self Worth, Improve Your Self Image

by allinspiration.com

It is no coincidence that, when we begin to feel better about ourselves, we begin to feel better about the world and people around us as well.

Our image of what is around us very much mirrors our image of ourselves. When we have poor self esteem, everything else seems rotten.

Recognize and appreciate your worth as a person. You are special, you are valuable, you are worthy.

If you need help improving your self image and self esteem, then seek it. It is an important prerequisite to a happy and fulfilling life.

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"The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom."

Henry Ward Beecher

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Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible.”

Marion C. Garretty

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Daddy's Footsteps

~Author Unknown~

“Walk a little slower, Daddy”,
Said a little child so small.
“I’m following in your footsteps,
And I don’t want to fall.

Sometimes your steps are very fast,
Sometimes they’re hard to see;
So walk a little slower, Daddy,
For you are leading me.

Someday when I’m all grown up,
You’re what I want to be;
Then I will have a little child
Who’ll want to follow me.

And I would want to lead just right,
And know that I was true;
So, walk a little slower, Daddy,
For I must follow you.”
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First Day Of Kindergarten School Poem

~Author Unknown~

She started school this morning,
And she seemed so very small.
As I walked there beside her
In the Kindergarten hall.

And as she took her place beside
the others in the class,
I realized how all too soon
Those first few years can pass.

Remembering, I saw her as
She first learned how to walk.
The words that we alone made out
When she began to talk.

This little girl so much absorbed
In learning how to write.
It seems as though she must have grown
To girlhood overnight.

My eyes were blurred by hastily
I brushed the tears away
Lest by some word or sign of mine
I mar her first big day.

Oh how I longed to stay with her
And keep her by the hand
To lead her through the places
That she couldn't understand.

And something closely kin to fear
Was mingled with my pride.
I knew she would no longer be
A baby by my side.

But she must have her chance to live,
To work her problems out,
The privilege to grow and learn
What life is all about.

And I must share my little girl
With friends and work and play;
She's not a baby anymore --
She's in Kindergarten today.
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As I Grow

~Author Unknown~

Please understand I am growing up and changing very fast.
It must be difficult to keep pace with me, but please try.

Please reward me for telling the truth.
Then I am not frightened into lying.

Please tell me when you make mistakes and what you learned from them.
Then I can accept that I am okay, even when I blunder.

Please pay attention to me and spend time with me.
Then I can believe that I am important and worthwhile.

Please help me explore my unique interests, talents and potential.
In order for me to be happy, I need to be me.

Please do the things you want me to do.
Then I have a good, positive model.

Please tell me by your words and actions that you love me.
Then I will feel loveable and will be able to love myself and others

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I thought this applicable today for you Beth: A GOOD MOTHER.


ROCK ON! Being a good Mother and role model!



Best wishes,




Chillen
 
Hey Chillen, Just checkin in as this is the first time I've peered into your Chillout log, can you believe that?! Saving it for when I had about 5 hours to read! Actually, I only had time to go back a few pages. You like 38 special?!? I haven't heard that name mentioned in about 20 years!! Styx?! it's kind of a coincidence because me and my friend were just talking about Styx and I downloaded Paradise Theater and listened to it for the first time since Jr. high school (I used to love them then). It's kind of a poor attempt at a 'concept' album and I get tired of their heavy handed 'working man' themes, but there are a couple good tunes on there. Brought me back a few years!! Anyway, I digress... Awesome log you've got here Chillen!
 
Hey Chillen, Just checkin in as this is the first time I've peered into your Chillout log, can you believe that?! Saving it for when I had about 5 hours to read! Actually, I only had time to go back a few pages. You like 38 special?!? I haven't heard that name mentioned in about 20 years!! Styx?! it's kind of a coincidence because me and my friend were just talking about Styx and I downloaded Paradise Theater and listened to it for the first time since Jr. high school (I used to love them then). It's kind of a poor attempt at a 'concept' album and I get tired of their heavy handed 'working man' themes, but there are a couple good tunes on there. Brought me back a few years!! Anyway, I digress... Awesome log you've got here Chillen!

Thank you, Phil, for your kind words. I genuinely care about the members on this forum.

Yea, I showed my age in specifying some of the bands I like. 38 special (actually was the little river band at one time) brings some youth memories, lol.

And, yes..........you should CHILLOUT more often.......stop in say hi, and impart your wisdom in the log once in a while.......Glad you stopped by!

Phil: ROCK THE HECK ON! :)
 
Chillen, this is a great thread. And thank you for the quotes. I also read the article you put up for Jackie. I don't want to workout today, either. I'm wiped. Haven't slept well lately....not sure why. Hubby's insomnia doesn't help. LOL
 
We are talking songs here.......Not Whores..........Young man, I have to get you some SOAP.........

Police

50 cent: quite a few songs

Old albums (early 2000) Nelly

Madonna :eek:

WU-Tang

Gravel Pit.........A true Working dat but...........rap track......

Heya just thought i would add my input, i like all these listed above- some more than others, yeah n gravel pit - what a song

What else do you like?? what about .......beat it - mj.........sisqo - dance for me.......ll cool j - i need love........houston - i like that.......chris brown - run it....mark morrison - return of the mack

Jackie xx
 
you dont need to do anymore, what you told me yestarday really struck me

come look in my journel Jackie xxx

I looked your journal.

What is it that you do for work?

How is your progress for toward your goals?

Has the current diet you have been consuming doing it for you?

How is your training progressing? (I know your equipment is limited)
 
Heya just thought i would add my input, i like all these listed above- some more than others, yeah n gravel pit - what a song

What else do you like?? what about .......beat it - mj.........sisqo - dance for me.......ll cool j - i need love........houston - i like that.......chris brown - run it....mark morrison - return of the mack

Jackie xx

I like those TOO! I have the heart of a 18 year old......(but I act 46...heheheheh........eh,eh)
 
I see your off now, Jackie :(

I will be on for a while.......

I have a post to make in the log today........Unless PB wants to indulge his master and very wise and ultra intelligent skills of mind?
 
Thoughts 9/18
Well, today i was thinking a lot about gratefulness again...i gotta think about it more because every time i forget about it, i dont realize how good i have it. im really fortunant...i think we all are...

I talked to my friend yesterday. He was depressed because he was disgusted by his nose. he thinks it was "too big and it sticks out". He made a big deal about it and he even said hes saving up the get surgery.
It may seem like a small deal to us and that he is just a baby, but in his life, he was really sad because he was not content with
how God made him.
Though he didnt realize this...he was just uncontent with how he looked.

This is a very basic lesson:
We were all created perfectly in the eyes of God*
it is only through our own perceptions and eyes in which we might say
"Everyone has imperfections, and faults...nobody is perfect"

Yet, this statement still stands:
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

In man's eyes, nobody is perfect.
Yet, the Lord created every man and woman in His very own image!
Looking through the Lord's eyes, everyone is his/her own perfect individual creation, molded in his hands.

In the Lord's eyes, we are our own perfect entity*
"The Lord is in heaven, and He does as he wishes"
Whatever we are born with, was His descision.

Regardless if you are spiritual or not(i pray you are), you have your own identity in this world.
Every feature about you makes who you really are; there is nothing to hide or be ashamed of.

For if we look upon ourselves with disgust, and focus on our negative traits, we will of course percieve repulsion and perhaps self loathing.

Remeber...it is in the eye of the beholder...dont think of yourself as anything less than acceptable...if we mentally spotlight our faults, we will truly cripple our well being.

"Nothing is more attractive than happiness in the smile and well being in the heart"
PB

*The only fault we are born with, is the fact that we are born sinners(descendant of adam and eve)
Be proud of who you are, my friends.
There are far too many people i know who have this problem(i used to), and it is very painful if you, cannot accept yourself.

We all have so much to be grateful for. We all have our blessings, and if they are overlooked, it can be a true tragedy waiting to occur.
I praise everyday, and celebrate for what i am given and how I am blessed. Focusing on the good is an easy way to improve one's life. Especially when giving thanks to the Lord.

What matters, in the end, is the inside(mind, and soul).
I pray that more and more people open their eyes and open their minds to this cleche' statement.
Sadly, it is written
"Man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart"
Which is all the better reason to get a relationship with God.
 
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Every feature about you makes who you really are; there is nothing to hide or be ashamed of.

Remeber...it is in the eye of the beholder...dont think of yourself as anything less than acceptable...if we mentally spotlight our faults, we will truly cripple our well being.

We all have so much to be grateful for. We all have our blessings, and if they are overlooked, it can be a true tragedy waiting to occur.

I very grateful and thankful of your post in the log today PB. I was suprised when I went to view the log that you had already posted!

You are so correct: how we feel about ourselves on the inside and outside can determine who we are, and we dont have anthing to be ashamed of.

Yes, we have much to be grateful for. I am gratefull for many things in my life (my family--wife, and kids, etc, my health, job, being spiritual, and many other things).

I am also grateful for you, and the other members of this forum. You guys have helped me in so many ways I cannot count them, and one was today: It really moves me when I see a young man like you growing in mental strength and spiritual elasticity; keep your mental and inner root strong PB.

I dont think we should overly spot light our faults, but put the correct light reflection on them in order to deal with and overcome them and if applicable correct them as we go on in life.

Your post today was truely special, and I thank you very much.

Best regards,


Chillen
 
:] thanks chillen; i thought it was pretty basic...i think it is aimed more towards teens and adolesance. it took me a while to figure that out too.

served my detention today; only had to wake 3o minutes in advance and it was quite time for reading...who cares?

well anyway, life is good. had a good day today, God willing there are more to come :]

i read a couple of very uplifting verses today, thought i should share

"The hopes of the Godly result in happiness, but the expectations of the wicked come to nothing."
Proverbs 10:28

"The fears of the wicked will be fulfilled; the hopes of the Godly will be granted."
Proverbs 10:24

makes me gratefully happy to be on the right side lol amen
 
:] thanks chillen; i thought it was pretty basic...i think it is aimed more towards teens and adolesance. it took me a while to figure that out too.

served my detention today; only had to wake 3o minutes in advance and it was quite time for reading...who cares?

well anyway, life is good. had a good day today, God willing there are more to come :]

i read a couple of very uplifting verses today, thought i should share

"The hopes of the Godly result in happiness, but the expectations of the wicked come to nothing."
Proverbs 10:28

"The fears of the wicked will be fulfilled; the hopes of the Godly will be granted."
Proverbs 10:24

makes me gratefully happy to be on the right side lol amen

Sometimes adults lose sight until its to late: Some adults dont know what they have, until they lose it. So it fits adults too, PB, at any age bracket--it was in deed a good post.


Well you spent your dentention doing a good thing. What did you read?


Let me give you a train of thought that just popped in my head (lol):


Believing in God is not enough to be saved, let me explain: Satan knows there's a God, he has seen God, talked with God; God at one time had him the most beautiful angels of all angels, but we KNOW his fate in the end.

PB: What is the difference between Satan believing in God and you believing in God----but in the end of things, satans destination will be different than yours?........(one complete sentence should answer this)
 
The differance is simple:
i praise, worship, trust, fear and embrace God as he lives through me every day in my soul, fulfilling his will he put me on earth for, as i reject the devil; for satan lives against every moral, and law God has created.

Satan simply does not accept God as his Lord and Savior, and I do.

i very much do appreciate this thought you provided me.

i read my history homework book during the detention. :D
 
I see you.....peaking here.......

I can answer this one for you if you want? :) I can do it in: ONE WORD
 
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