Do you ever feel like you are put in a box by the people who know you? They expect you to act, dress, and respond a certain way based on their past experience of you. Have you allowed yourself to become defined by your past & are afraid to venture out?
There is nothing wrong with being fairly predictable (reliable?), but if the expectations of others make you hesitant to experiment with yourself and your lifestyle, it can really hold you back. Have you ever seen an outfit that you just loved, but then held back from buying it or wearing it just because it wasn't your usual style? Did you fear judgement, ridicule, or questioning stares? Have you ever wanted to try a new activity or take up a hobby from your younger years, and then held back or put it off indefinitely? Did you wonder if you were too old? Would your friends laugh because you "definitely aren't the athletic type" or "the artistic type" or whatever?
I say embrace each new day as a gift and an opportunity to be whoever you want to be, even if it's just for one day. Take a risk. Wear a new style. Respond differently, unexpectedly and honestly. Be known for your fearlessness and confidence. Dare to be interesting. After the initial shock, people are more likely to admire you than ridicule you. In fact, you may be surprised how little others take notice at all, because people (other than your immediate family) really aren't all that interested in your doings. Most people are preoccupied with their own universe.
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