artmonster
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But also, selfishly, because I want to be a cute pregnant woman. .)
actually almost all pregnant women are cute.
why do you think they call it "Glowing"
But also, selfishly, because I want to be a cute pregnant woman. .)
actually almost all pregnant women are cute.
why do you think they call it "Glowing"
So, here's to getting healthy and then getting pregnant!!!
actually almost all pregnant women are cute.
why do you think they call it "Glowing"
Kristi, your inches are just MELTING right off of you. Those are some GREAT results. I guess I understand why it is you want those videos to make you cry now... LOL. I'm glad that we both share Sunday dinners at the in law's cuz we can help eachother during the rest of the day to eat healthy breakfast & lunch. I have decided that I am definitely going to enjoy whatever they make, I'll just be more conscious of what I eat the rest of the day, and then watch my portions.
I think about what I USED to eat on Sunday's and this is crazy. I usually work 9am-5pm on Sunday, so before work I would stop at Starbucks and get a grande carmel macchiato (full fat milk- 272 cal, 10.4g fat) and a muffin or danish (cheese danish- 370 cal, 18g fat). For lunch I would often get a hot dog (377 cal, 16g fat) w/mustard & mayo (45 cal, 5g fat) and I would eat this with my beloved hot fries (there's supposedly 4 servings but I would eat the whole bag- 600 cal, 32g fat). THEN, I would go eat dinner plus have a huge dessert.
That's 1664 cal, 81.4g fat all before lunch!!!
Oh my... I think I'm gonna throw up now.
Ok, well, my point was not to freak myself out (which I did) but to encourage us to help eachother eat healthier throughout the day on Sunday.
Another eye opener. What could be more encouraging than realizing that we cannot allow ourselves to be unaware of what we were once eating?
Ahhhhhh.........
It's awesome to be able to see yourself shrinking. You are doing a wonderful job.
Thank you!!! Have you taken any measurements since you've started? If you haven't then you should start so that you can see where you're losing it. It's so much more motivating than the scale!
You had a yummy food day. You and artmonster have me thinking about getting some of those Kashi pizza's (especially for days when Paul's not here and I don't feel like cooking for just me...)
I know I already commented on this, but I am just so excited about your measurement results. That is definitely something to celbrate. I'll have to read back over your journal, but do you have any mini goals set? I remember you saying you want to get below that 200 mark. What rewards do you have planned if you do have those mini goal stops along the way?
Have a great night! Hang in there without Chris. You gotta keep busy & healthy, especially this first week. K...
You're kicking so much butt. That's awesome. The measurements are a great idea. It's so cool to see all this working so well for you.
You RAWK.
Oh yeah! I started taking measurements the day I started 07/10/08 and I've gone from a 46 inch waist to 41. I've lost an inch on my neck, biceps, thighs and 3 in on my hips. You are right it is more motivating. When the scale disappoints me, I just measure myself and usually that makes me feel alot better. I even have pics of myself on my computer. I have been taking them month by month so right now I only have two sets of pics but I can really see the difference.
I actually had the thought cross my mind that I wanted to give up. It's been 57 days and this is the first time I've felt this way. I think the thought of how easy it would be to gain it all back scared the out of me. It's so hard to get it off and so easy to put it on. I'm scared of myself, if that makes any sense.
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You WILL NOT give up. That is not a request, a question, or a statement to be negotiated.
This is an article that Maleficent orginally posted and I copied bits and pieces of it. (The whole article is in the "Weight Loss in the Media" section. Some of it is kind of out there, but I copied the parts that seem useful to me.
"By Dr. Matthew Anderson
Exclusive for eDiets
Here are some examples of why it may want to keep you fat.
You may fear your sexual energy.
You may have been raped and fat protects you from men.
Your self-esteem may be very low and you might actually feel undeserving of weight loss.
Your fat may be a way of resisting the growing-up process (baby fat) because adulthood seems frightening.
You may believe that losing weight might require you to make other scary or painful choices and changes (divorce, change jobs, lose friends).
Weight loss may require you to accept more challenges or responsibilities and staying fat then becomes a form of safety.
You may fear being seen and therefore judged.
The point is that each of us who has significant weight we have not been able to lose is invested in staying fat and until we discover these hidden wants, needs and fears we will be stuck in fat.
OK, let’s assume you agree with me so far. Now what? How do you learn to deal with an out of control unconscious mind? I thought you would never ask. Here are some suggestions. They really work so make sure you do at least some of them.
Finish this sentence as honestly and openly as you can (25 times) even though your responses may seem strange at first.
The reason I want to be fat is…
If you stop before you reach 25 you will probably not find useful answers. The key here is to discover two or three meaningful root causes behind your weight gain. Trust me. They are there. Every significantly weight-challenged person has them. (Write down your 25 sentences and responses in full as you do them.)
When you have done the unfinished sentence exercise, pick the two or three most powerful answers and write them down on a separate page. This information could be the real key to your long-term healthy weight loss. Take it seriously.
Make a decision to do some serious inner work on these three most significant issues. What does that mean? You can start by writing a two-page description of each issue. Take your time and be as descriptive as you can. If you have trouble writing it then find a good friend and talk about each one with that person. The task here is to begin to "flesh out" the issue and explore how it affects you."
That's pretty interesting. Thanks for sharing.