I keep getting stood up by chicks.. wtf am I doing wrong?!

how old are the kids again? I went through a period in my young life where my father was dating new women after my mother passed away. This was between the ages of 4-8 for me and 1-4 for my brother. My father and my kindergarten teacher actually started seeing each other after I moved to the 1st grade and eventually got married when I was going into the 3rd grade. I didn't feel hurt in those situations when a certain woman was no longer seeing my father. In fact I only really have 2 memories of any of the women he dated during that time.

Don't worry too much about the kids just yet...concentrate on getting to know her and see what she's all about. If you sense she's trying to rush you into a relationship then do what you need to do.

Just my $0.02.
 
BikeSwimLaugh said:
I say it's way too early to be discussing all this stuff. Give it 4-6 months and then touch on it. If she tries to crunch you for an answer sooner, I'd be inclined to concur with ILM and put your running shoes on. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you only get ONE life to live.
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I'm going to have to amend something I wrote. Ya know, we're talking about a woman who has kids and she's interested in picking-up the pieces of her life and getting things back on track. I'm not suggesting a woman needs a man to do that, but some do. In any case, I think she just doesn't want to waste her time....if this isn't a relationship that doesn't have the potential to go somewhere, she wants to know.

We had a nanny like that...she wasn't divorced, but she wanted to get married and have kids and being in her 40's, she knew time was running-out. She found a lot of guys who wanted to get it on with her....and so she ended-up pretty quickly telling guys "look, I'm interested in marriage and I'm definitely interested in having kids once married....if that's not what you are looking for, don't waste my time".....she almost negotiated it like a business transaction. She's still single to this day, but it's her personality (or appalling lack thereof) to blame.

So in the grand scheme of things, I suppose I don't blame this single-mom for wanting to know what's up....cause there are many men who will play these woman.
 
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yeeeeeeea, I keep going back and forth in my mind about this chick. I always want to be with her when I am not... and then when I am with her I always feel like I am getting in the way and that she has too much baggage..

Ehhh, this is requiring too much effort, I think I will just give up soon.
 
.....OR

You could stick it out another year and then sell your story to the writers who put together script for soap opera's? :action8::action8:
 
That was a nice little adventure. Just broke up with the chick a week ago. She was a really cool girl, it's a shame she didn't care about me too much tho, or didn't have time to.

Had a lot of fun listening to Pink Floyd together, talking, etc.

I ended up breaking up with her tho, just didn't feel like we were on the same page.
 
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