Thats the thing. Its rare that you get a man who can have a great love life without putting in any effort to get girls. Its almost always the males job to do all the trying.
Girls can just sit back, take the piss.....do whatever they wanna
I keep getting stood up by chicks.. wtf am I doing wrong?!
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Thats the thing. Its rare that you get a man who can have a great love life without putting in any effort to get girls. Its almost always the males job to do all the trying.
Girls can just sit back, take the piss.....do whatever they wanna
Thats the thing. Its rare that you get a man who can have a great love life without putting in any effort to get girls. Its almost always the males job to do all the trying.
Girls can just sit back, take the piss.....do whatever they wanna
that's weird, in my experience it's the guys who don't try who gets action. Now of course, if you sit at home every night you won't get much, you need to be where other people are, but if you are just out to have fun and don't give a damn about girls, they will be attracted to you, simply because you're the only guy in the room not leaning into them trying to talk them up. So sit back with a pint and talk smack with your mates and the girls will come to you.
Yea thats what i meant, like sat at home, not being interested.
I always go out ''for the night'' as i say, rather than ''on the pull'' even though thats my aim
Because when you go out just for the good ngiht you seem to pull much easier than where your looking around trying..lolz. Tell her you're in a band as well.
Here's the thing Karks and Tom. When I say "effort" I'm referring to the effort I require to keep my wits about me and make sure I do/say the right things, so I can impress her and make her attracted to me. Some guys are naturals, and some guys think it's important to keep it up. That just isn't me. When I go party or whatever I don't go on a mission to play it cool and attract girls. I go to be my impulsive and let loose, get drunk, get crazy, etc. Which I think is a lot easier/immediately gratifying than trying to keep two steps ahead of a woman so I could get her naked. It's just too much work sometimes.
Here's the thing Karks and Tom. When I say "effort" I'm referring to the effort I require to keep my wits about me and make sure I do/say the right things, so I can impress her and make her attracted to me. Some guys are naturals, and some guys think it's important to keep it up. That just isn't me. When I go party or whatever I don't go on a mission to play it cool and attract girls. I go to be my impulsive and let loose, get drunk, get crazy, etc. Which I think is a lot easier/immediately gratifying than trying to keep two steps ahead of a woman so I could get her naked. It's just too much work sometimes.
yeah, I know what you mean, but the thing is, you don't have to impress the woman, etc, if you just show that you are independent, that you don't care if you impress her or not, then she will probably be attracted to you. I ne ver try to say the right things to a woman, I say my opinion. If you disagree with a woman, chanses are she'll get attracted to you. I'm not saying this is you, but a lot of people think they need to say what the woman wants them to say, I don't think that's a good idea.
You go on dates with the under 6’s? Is your real name Jacko by any chance?
Anyway; I think all you guys think about this too much, give up trying to impress by acting interested/not acting interested (delete as appropriate) and just out with your mates and have a good time. You’ll always come into contact with lots of women in the course of a night and by focusing on having fun and forget about what signals you’re putting out then you’ll allow chemistry and attraction to run its course.
Failing that; learn how to put on a decent English accent (well spoken Scottish & Irish also work well) and just wait for the American women to flock to you, haha
Oh, or move to the UK, British women find US accents just as attractive as Yanky women find British ones
You go on dates with the under 6’s? Is your real name Jacko by any chance?
Anyway; I think all you guys think about this too much, give up trying to impress by acting interested/not acting interested (delete as appropriate) and just out with your mates and have a good time. You’ll always come into contact with lots of women in the course of a night and by focusing on having fun and forget about what signals you’re putting out then you’ll allow chemistry and attraction to run its course.
Failing that; learn how to put on a decent English accent (well spoken Scottish & Irish also work well) and just wait for the American women to flock to you, haha
Oh, or move to the UK, British women find US accents just as attractive as Yanky women find British ones
Exactly what I'm trying to say. If you chill, women will be more attracted
English accent goes for the women aswell.. **** it, I LOVE the English accent on women, it's hawt.
Apart from your c0ckney accent
I can turn that off like a switch, I can sound like James Bond the second an American chick is in the room as I always had to speak properly around my parents
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RWS.....dude, we've all seen Jerry McQuire. You're shoplifting the 'tang...you're dealing with a woman who has 2 kids; it's a WHOLE different world. When you first mentioned how she didn't call, I was figuring something was up with the kids being sick or something.
Remind yourself of something: most the time when you get all caught-up with trying to figure-out what she's thinking and where things are at....it's generally a waste of time. You can presume she's blowing you off, and she's not...don't waste the mental time & mental anguish trying to assess the situation based on speculation & what-not. A young, recently divorced w/kids woman is a very complex situation.
If you wanna play the field and exchange fluids, then keep reading your book and pay homage to Big Tom....but if you're trying to find yourself in a solid relationship, then it's somethign that'll fit right and work from the outset, it's not something you want to force or manipulate through insincere behavior.
Otherwise, just get out there, let your friends girlfriends know you want to be set-up and soon enough you'll be posting about how you wanna break-up with your girlfriend and don't know how.
Featuring TomWRWS.....dude, we've all seen Jerry McQuire. You're shoplifting the 'tang...you're dealing with a woman who has 2 kids; it's a WHOLE different world. When you first mentioned how she didn't call, I was figuring something was up with the kids being sick or something.
Remind yourself of something: most the time when you get all caught-up with trying to figure-out what she's thinking and where things are at....it's generally a waste of time. You can presume she's blowing you off, and she's not...don't waste the mental time & mental anguish trying to assess the situation based on speculation & what-not. A young, recently divorced w/kids woman is a very complex situation.
If you wanna play the field and exchange fluids, then keep reading your book and pay homage to Big Tom....but if you're trying to find yourself in a solid relationship, then it's somethign that'll fit right and work from the outset, it's not something you want to force or manipulate through insincere behavior.
Otherwise, just get out there, let your friends girlfriends know you want to be set-up and soon enough you'll be posting about how you wanna break-up with your girlfriend and don't know how.
Otherwise, just get out there, let your friends girlfriends know you want to be set-up and soon enough you'll be posting about how you wanna break-up with your girlfriend and don't know how.
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True; if it's not one problem it's another with women
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RWS.....dude, we've all seen Jerry McQuire. You're shoplifting the 'tang...you're dealing with a woman who has 2 kids; it's a WHOLE different world. When you first mentioned how she didn't call, I was figuring something was up with the kids being sick or something.
Remind yourself of something: most the time when you get all caught-up with trying to figure-out what she's thinking and where things are at....it's generally a waste of time. You can presume she's blowing you off, and she's not...don't waste the mental time & mental anguish trying to assess the situation based on speculation & what-not. A young, recently divorced w/kids woman is a very complex situation.
If you wanna play the field and exchange fluids, then keep reading your book and pay homage to Big Tom....but if you're trying to find yourself in a solid relationship, then it's somethign that'll fit right and work from the outset, it's not something you want to force or manipulate through insincere behavior.
Otherwise, just get out there, let your friends girlfriends know you want to be set-up and soon enough you'll be posting about how you wanna break-up with your girlfriend and don't know how.
Yeah, your right. heh, i've just been out of the game for so long.. and now that a chick is attracted to me I am making a big deal out of it I guess.
Things went well with her a couple nights ago..
Good right? I am getting the Mystery Method next. Thats Style's mentor in the book and the host of the Pick Up Artist on VH1.
Hey... aren't you taken Tony?
ANYWAY..
Details eh?
Well, We've gotten together twice at her house now and we both want more.
We are also getting to know eachother a lot as well, which is good... but right now there is a huge physical connection going on. The physical connection is what it's all about... if that's good, then things can usually stay pppppretty good.
She wants to take it slow, I do too, at least emotionally...
When it comes to the physical part, I don't wanna take it slow.. ha. She drives me crazy.
it applies to all social situations rws.