UPDATE on the divorce: Let me vent a short while. I've been trying to salvage this thing ever since the subject came up. I've worked hard and conquered many of the issues that arose and never got any input/help/willingness to change from her. I mean I got shut down every attempt I made. Today I'm talking to my wife and she says "so, are we doing Christmas shopping together?". What! OMG, I couldn't believe it. Has she lost her mind? The kicker is, each year around this time my folks usually give each of us 3 kids a Christmas Bonus. Hmm, what could be her motive?
Needless to say, I very politely told her I was having a really hard time with it because of all the effort I have made to salvage this marriage and got shut down everytime. Now she wants to do shopping/spending together. I never told her NO but kept reiterating how tough of a time I was having with it after all that has transpired. She didn't say a word. Finally she said, we'll just each do our own shopping. Guess that's settled. OK, off my soapbox. Hope everyone is doing well. Talk to you later, Greg