Did she even ask you whether/how much you exercise? No wonder you were annoyed but I'm glad you're feeling more centered now. Best of luck dealing with tomorrowEspecially as she then said that with hormones "it might be easier to lose weight if you work out a little bit"
PS: I can't even make coffee with my mom's coffee machine. I make coffee once or twice a year and have been doing so for over 30 years (more often when I was living with my parents, of course) but it doesn't stick. Not because I'm incapable of adapting to things but because coffee doesn't interest me in the slightest. I assume they're using it as a marker of ritualistic thinking vs flexibility but it's a very limited example.