alligatorob
Respected Member
LaMa is right, weight loss is not a competition with anyone except maybe yourself. So crossing the finish line is a win, no matter how soon or how far into the future. Of course it is hard in this thing to really know what the finish line is or looks like.As long as you enjoy the run your placing doesn't matter.
I know its hard sometimes but the opinions of many others with respect to your weight and weight loss are not to be taken too seriously. If I think people are well-meaning and have some insight I always listen, like y'all on the forum. But in the end I make my own decisions, and it seems to me you have been kind of like that over the time I have been here. If I don't think the person is well-meaning or knowledgeable I do my best to ignore them. I know that can be hard sometimes. Remember you are a wise woman who has done very well, and gotten yourself into a good place, don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
Sorry I am woefully behind on your diary and others, catching up is hard to do.