New Year New Life for April

Hi Ladies. Yep, I've been pretty busy. Of course, I decided to take more work because John hasn't had any work in the past month. Now, he's accusing again. I just can't take this anymore. I think i'm getting ready to lose over 400 pounds really fast!!!
 
Hey April! Glad you checked in! You have been through so much here lately, you do not deserve to listen to him an be put under even more stress then you all ready are... I think I'd get rid of the "extra baggage" too!!
 
Hey Girl We Are Here For You And We Love Ya And We Are Behind Ya 100 Percent Always And We Are Here So Dont Let Him Get To Ya And I Agree With Christina You Have Been Through Enough!
 
Thanks girls. Well, I told him that from now on I'm going to be myself and do things my way instead of always worrying about what he thinks. Such as, if I feel like wearing makeup or curling my hair I will. I will talk to who I want when I want. I told him that if he wants to be with me, he will have to accept me as I am. I tried to change to make him happy and it still was never good enough. So, I'm through trying. He said go ahead and do what you want if that's what makes you happy. He also said that I obviously want to talk to other people and do other people so don't expect him to be here when I come home. I told him that was his choice. If he can't live with me trying to be happy with myself, then I don't need him. I actually feel pretty good about this. I don't think he'll actually leave on his own, though. He's got it too easy here. No rent to worry about. He said I don't do anything for him, so he's getting ready to see what it's like. He can cook his own food, wash his own clothes and so on! Well, I'm off to drive a bus again. I'll check back in on Sunday!!!
 
Hey April! Just stopping by to say hello! Good for you! Do things that you want to do.. dont worry about him! Alot of times men are hard to please anyway.. :rolleyes: Take Care!
 
Hi girls! I'm back. It was a pretty easy trip. Of course I got to come home to the same old crap. Oh well, somethings never change. My diet still sucks. Mainly because I don't have any money so I'm just making do with whatever is here. Anyway, right now he is in the other room screaming out accusations that I'm online with some "MFer"! I think I'll go take my shower and go to bed. Maybe he'll leave me alone to go to sleep. Probably not though!!! Wish me luck.
 
Hey April its good to see you hun, I have been away for a little while myself. It’s good to be back here with the girl’s ay.
 
We Miss Ya I Thought You Was Coming Back I Really Wish You Would I Know Your Busy But I Miss Ya !
 
Hi everbody!!! It feels so good to know that I haven't been forgotten. Ok, I'm really back this time. School is over and I've already told them there is no way I will ever go back to work for them so now I'm job hunting again. John started a new job last month. He's now a correctional officer at our county jail. He's much happier because he's working and didn't have to go back out on the road. I'm hoping to get hired there too as a dispatcher. Anyway, I stepped on the scale yesterday. First time I've done that in a while. Damn, I'm back up to 250!! So, I've gained back 1/2 of what I lost. Well, at least I didn't gain it all plus more like I've done in the past. I have restocked my water bottles and I've got my grocery list ready. Now all I need is the money!!! Bad thing about his job is they only get paid once a month!!! So, now I need y'all to start kicking my butt again!
 
HI!!!!

I missed you!! so glad your back!!!

Sorry you gained some weight, but thats ok. I gained 1/2 my loss back too!! All you can do is move on, you know?

Good luck w/ the job hunting!! You sure sound happy :D
 
Life is much better here, thanks for noticing! Daughter is now living with her dad in Oklahoma and that relieved alot of the stress. Now that John is back to work things are close to normal around here. Ok, we have some work to do don't we?!
 
Ok Girlfriend I Know You Can Do This And I Know Your Ready To Rock!!!!!!!!! I Am So Glad Your Back Home With Us And We Are Here To Kick Kick Kick And Get Ya Back On Track!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Allright Tina, let's not leave bruises with all that kicking!!! Well, I was planning on going out walking this morning but it looks like we actually have rain!!! I was beginnning to believe it would never happen!!! Hey, anybody have suggestions for veggies I can add to my salads that don't have to strong a flavor? I know I need more than just lettuce and bell peppers, but I just can't find any veggies I can stand. Tomatoes make me sick to even think about eating, cucumbers:yuck! celery:must be stuffed with p.b. or cream cheese! We are going to SouperSalad this weekend and I'm going to try out different stuff. That way it's someone elses' groceries wasted!!! Can't stand broccolli. I say I don't like cauliflower but to be honest, I don't remember ever eating it. I think it's just the look of it. I will try it! My daughter swears by snow peas but they taste too bitter to me. HELP!!:confused:
 
lol - what other veggies are there?!

I was totally going to suggest cucumbers, but you aren't a fan... (have you tried them with a bit of white vinegar on them and a dash of salt n pepper?)

how about mushrooms, carrots, peas, edamame (soy beans... you can get them in the freezer section - tons of protein)... speaking of protein... maybe you don't need more veggies besides what you already have but you could add some raisins, chickpeas (aka garbanzo beans), other beans, cottage cheese,

for a mexican salad you could add corn and salsa and black beans...

just experiment... find a few things that you do like, and try them on salad - you might be surprised!!!
 
Glad to see ya back swingin! Good for you for putting the breaks on. You'll lose that weight in no time.

Good luck with the job hunting. Interviewing is so stressful and energy zapping, at least for me it is.
 
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