Hi, April, I have not seen you around the forum for a while, glad you're back!
On veggies... I also don't like how veggies taste, but I've come up with a way to make them yummy... Here's what I do:
Buy a frozen veggie bad from grocery store, and put them in a non-stick frying pan. You can add a tiny bit of water so they don't burn. Cover and let them defrost on high heat. When they defrost but not cooked yet, sprinkle bunch of spices all over (I use red and black pepper, dry onions, garlic, oregano and parcley), but don't use any salt. Then mix it all up. Then add soy souce to taste (I usually add about 1/4 cup), stir, add water if veggies get dry or stick, and keep them in frying pan until they are soft and ready.
Soy souce does add some calories, but its still low calorie part of the meal.
Hope this helps.
As far as your husband is concerned - encauraging even small efforts is a good way to start. When he sees the results, he may step it up on his own. Its importand to start out slowly to build up tolerance to exercise!
Good luck!