My Secret Strength Garden

I found this helpful article I'll need to keep in my diary to read whenever I stress.

To understand how it works you have to understand a hormone called cortisol. Cortisol is needed and used by every single cell in the body. It's made by the adrenal glands, two little nut-shaped fellows that sit on top of your kidneys. Among other things, cortisol is an anti-inflammatory (the widely prescribed 'cortisone' is a derivative). But cortisol's most famous role is that of a stress hormone.

The fight or flight hormone
When your cavemen and cavewomen ancestors saw a wild boar in the woods, their adrenals would shoot a load of cortisol into their bodies, telling them in no uncertain terms that the time had come to pick up a weapon or run like the devil. Cortisol helps the body release sugar into the bloodstream, sugar that can be used for the immediate energy needed for either of the above actions - running or fighting. In fact, during any stressful time - including exercise, by the way - the body releases more cortisol, hence its nickname as a 'fight or flight' hormone.

Why do we stress eat?
Cortisol is not a 'bad' hormone. As with most things, the problem is when it's out of balance. According to Dr. Pamela Peeke, a leading expert in the field, chronic unrelenting stress (of the kind most of us live with every day) can have a dangerous effect on the body. It makes you more vulnerable to colds, flu, fatigue, and infection, and, if that weren't enough, it gives you a raging appetite in the bargain. Why? Because one of its 'purposes' is to help your body 'refuel' for the next emergency. Hence, when your body's on constant cortisone overload, you eat. She calls this typical reaction 'stress eating', and it has a solid physiological reason: The foods you crave when stressed out (almost always carbohydrates and fat) 'replenish the calories used up during the stress response - which, in simplest terms, is one of the main ways that activating the stress response on a constant basis can make you fat.'

Now if stress is a factor in weight gain - and it almost certainly is a big one - what's the logical conclusion? Reduce it! And with it, your waistline.

Today's stress levels
Most people are living lives that put an inordinate amount of stress on their systems. We're working too hard. We're managing too many projects (including other people's lives). We're worrying too much. We're sleeping too little. We have too little time for ourselves. Our poor adrenal glands, which were meant to simply be an emergency system for occasional use, have been pressed into overdrive - their owners are running on empty and refueling with junk to keep from noticing. Is it any wonder so many of us are overtired, sleep-deprived, immune-suppressed, depressed, frequently sick, and typically overweight?

Take care of yourself
So what's the secret weapon? Simple. Stress reduction. (By the way, one of the biggest stressors is continual dieting and worrying about weight!)

Do some deep breathing exercises at least a few times a day. Find something that gives you spiritual solace. Take care of yourself, not just in the obvious ways, but in the ways that only you would understand.

Change your sleeping habits
Sleep experts estimate that more than half of the population is walking around in some degree of sleep deprivation. The problem is compounded by our refusal to take time for ourselves - if it's not related to work or family, we just don't do it.

So do it now. Begin by going to bed earlier (staying in bed later is much more difficult for most people). Try banning television from the bedroom. Take a warm bath. Put on soothing music. Eventually, you'll get the hang of it. Reducing stress is not only good for your health, your immune system, and your psychological well-being; it's good for your waistline as well.


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Sday~
 
I was just in the neighborhood and thought I'd stop by. banning the television from the bedroom. I think thats against the law in Texas lol...
 
MOST welcome Hillbillylee! :)

Jesus!! Where did you find all that will power?? :eek: :D That's one of my long term achievements to happen..

Banning the television that virtually adds pounds to all the wrong places..! You may consider this as an addition to your exercise schedule! :p


Sday~

PS: The scales won't budge damn them electronic smart-ass ..things! Grrrr...
 
I couldn't agree more about stress. I'm pretty well educated about cortisol and I don't think it's a coincidence that my sister, other brother-in-law and myself have lost 135 pounds combined during periods of non-work.
 
Funny what we do to ourselves with this modern lifestyle isn't it? I wish we weren't required to be leading such a stressful life.

I always wanted to live in the country with my ducks, ewes and goats making cheese for a living, which I really plan to do in the future, but by the time you can afford to save something for a deposit on a mortgage for a house in Ireland you turn 50-60.
Unfortunately I'm not exaggerating. So this is really on my mind and I stress so much. This (and my scales that have stuck since a week and a half ago.) :p

I'm honestly trying to relax and take it a step at a time but I feel like I run in a big dish of Jelly sometimes if you know what I mean. The more I run, the deeper I sink.

Someone asked the other day if we knew what would make us happy. I know what would make me ecstatic if that counts. My wee spot of a cottage, where I would be cooking for friends every Sunday; fill my house with laughter and food.

:) That's all I want to write in my diet diary tonight. Goodnight you all lovely ones.

xxx

Sday~
 
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PS: The scales won't budge damn them electronic smart-ass ..things! Grrrr...

LMAO! We really need the ones with the needle in them so we can tip to the side and jiggle around until we can get it to a nice lower number! :p

I'd really like to live a nice stress free life myself. We'd be so skinny! ;)
 
I'm sure I read somewhere recently that an injection might not be as far off as we think. :eek: I think I'll need to pop over to this wee cottage you plan to get and bring a big tub of cream crackers, cheese is one of my biggest downfalls.:eek:
 
Ah, it's a blessed downfall to go by...:p More than welcome! I always have far too much cheese even for me!:D

Have been feeling both extremely energised and exhausted today. Odd combinations of several things..

Going to the doctor on Thursday, for my IBS; still hoping for better discoveries. I am always on a yeast free - vegetarian diet but dear oh dear. If you get caught in IBS everything from eating to moving gets harder.
He's Canadian this one and meant to be brilliant in his department so wish me luck ;)

No veggies in the house today other than cucumbers. Yesterday I had a shocking 4 and a half litters of water! So many reasons to run to the ladies more than often… :p

And that’s all the incoherent news of tonight...:rolleyes:

Be Good Courageous People!

Sday~ :)
 
I am tired in a zombified way.. :eek: :rolleyes: Have been awake for a 2 days and 1 night. Trying to reverse my hours. Living in Ireland on Australian time... Not terribly wise..

Question peeps.. Can veggies like artichoke hearts stop you from losing weight when over-had? I had a kilo of them things today. And a plate of oyster mushrooms. Is that too much you think? :confused:

See you later! I'm off for a facial :D (I need to get SOMETHING pampered after almost 2 weeks of frustrating plateau while on a strict diet. :eek: :p Grrr...)

Sday~
 
My wee spot of a cottage, where I would be cooking for friends every Sunday; fill my house with laughter and food.

That sounds like heaven. When you get this cottage may I come live with you? Please?

Sorry to hear you're feeling tired....in a zombified way sounds like about the worst kind of tired to be. But on a positive note I hope that your doctor's appt goes well.

As far as the veggies...I'm no expert but I'm sure anything if not eaten in moderation could add up calorie wise. If you're truly ate a kilo, that's about 32 ounces. My food calculator says there are 49 calories in one ounce of artichoke hearts. That's 1500 calories. So I would say, yes we even have to watch our portions on some veggies.
 
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hey lass you may be pleased to know I did not eat the catfish eggs hehehe. I think they're unfertile though as they've gone a funny colour!:rolleyes:

Have a good week and I hope the weather is asnice where you are as it is here (though I think I've lost 2 stones worth of sweat in the past few days).:D
 
Frozen artichoke hearts microwaved with no added anything?? :eek: No wonder I'm not losing a g.! Might as well have pizza with brownie topping! :confused:
I'll be living on cucumbers from today.. Oh darn! And I who though I was dieting for almost a month now.. :( Thanks Scarlett.. At least now I know what the problem might have been... :eek:

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We have a bit of a vomit cloud here.. Sun is kinda sneaking sleepy behind a big grey one back there.. At least we got to gaze at the semi naked boys down at 40 ft :p

Be good darlings! I'll talk to you tonight. (And yes most definitely I want you staying over! Nobody gets what kind of heaven is having good long dinners amongst people that will later jest and kick each others arse to lose it ;) :rolleyes: )

xxxxx

Sday~
 
Feeling lousy today.. My hormones are going zany! - I laugh out loud one second and the next I'm in black tears and misery. All I want is a rainy winter night, a gigantic tub of chocolate ice cream a hot bottle and a romantic comedy!

Instead, I watched a film all about rape and people getting shot and arrested ate cucumbers and started an IBS treatment which means 8 stinky yucky pills a day! :eek:

Argh! The scales are still stubborn as H. I'll start calling them Mule me thinks..


Hope you lot are having a great weekend, and staying away from evil glorious food ;)

Moody Sday~
 
Awwww, sweetie. Sorry you are having a bad day. What can I do to lift your spirits? Sing a song, do a dance. Whatever it takes!!!!!

You just keep eating those cucumbers and the scale will move, I promise!!!! Hope you are having a better Friday and wishing you a great weekend!!
 
Hey Sday. I am sorry it has taken me so long to subscribe to your diary, but I'm here now ;) . I went on my calorie website about the artichoke hearts. They didn't have frozen, but canned and drained was 30 cals per 100g, so a kilo would only be 300 cals. By the way, do you eat them because of your IBS ... I have heard that they are meant to be beneficial.

Reeeaally interesting about the fight or flight. I just thought it was a matter of eating being enjoyable, and thats why it was comforting, but I suppose often when I would comfort eat, I wasn't really registering taste or enjoying it, I was just binging :rolleyes: .

I'm sorry yesterday was a bit lousy for you, I hope today was better.

This might cheer you up. My maiden name was Melville (aye Crunchie, I'm a wee scot lassie aswell, well part scottish anyway ;) ), and hubby started calling me Muleville, then Mulehell, and now he just calls me mule :rolleyes: nice nickname for the wife isn't it :D
 
Here's an article I found for us loopy chocoholic women...:rolleyes:

Soothe Your Inner Cookie Monster

Can something healthy and diet-friendly possibly come in flavours like "Rich Coffee with White Chocolate Drizzle," "Cookie Dough with Milk Chocolate Drizzle" or "Pretzel Crunch with Milk Chocolate Drizzle?" Um, yes. World Gourmet Soy Crisp minis, which come in 100-calorie packs for the will-power deficient, are rather delicious and crunchy cookie alternatives. And don't let their diminutive nature fool you: All that soy packs a serving with 2 g of protein and 2 g of fibre, making them surprisingly filling! Visit Soycrisps.com.


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I just woke up.. It's fairly early for a Sunday.. My TOM should be done and over with by Tuesday.. Good riddance I say..

The pills make me feel awful.. I wake us swollen and achy all over but I am finishing the treatment.. Only IBS people know how much you suffer from it.. The doctor said that that is why I don't lose any weight, lacking vitamins and minerals.. He said that a build-up of toxins stops your body using stored fat.. I need to take laxatives amongst other things... but so far they don't work so he upped my dose to 4 a day..
Taking laxatives is against everything I ever wanted to do but I suppose it makes sense if you suffer from chronic constipation..
Ok, enough grossness from your truly.. :p

I am weighing myself next Sunday. I'm hoping to be down to 65 kilos but I sincerely doubt it. Still hoping.. I've been dieting for 4 weeks with no slip whatsoever. *Sigh* :eek:

I'll just take Mules and Scarlett's advice and keep that chin up!

My love and wishes to be weekend munchin' saints,

Sday~

PS: Thanks for the calorific relief.. Yes I did start eating artichoke hearts because they are meant to help but continued because if you microwave them till crisp it feels as if you’re having chips! :p
 
Hey Sday, I'm so sorry you are having a bad time with your IBS at the moment :( Mine has been getting a bit worse than usual because I just haven't been sleeping enough. And fibre just has the opposite effect to what it should do. So I have fruit, because the acid normally works, but lately it has just left me with a burning tummy, feeling sick and hasn't really helped. I will say one thing, I feel sorry for people like you (and my friend at work) who go for a long time without opening your bowels (sorry for the graphic talk :eek: ). I am lucky, although I am uncomfortable and it is laboured, I do go most days. I hate taking laxatives too, mostly because I find I get gassy and uncomfortable, and thats what I want to avoid. I hope your medication helps, and maybe its time both of us bit the bullet and had a colonic :rolleyes:

I am sure by next Sunday you will have lost a chunk, you have been so good, but I think Avi2Kat didn't lose her retained water until a whole week after her TOTM finished, so don't worry if it takes a couple more days ;)

Hope you are having a good weekend :)
 
:) Heya Mrs Bear,

It's so good having someone else understanding IBS..

I have a hyperacidity in my tummy so the doctor recommended I eat something like pasta or brown rice rather than fruit to absorb the acidity and give the sort of fibre that doesn't stay in your stomach for long..

Tesco's will have wheat free pasta I'm sure.. Go here:

Also, have you ever tried IB-ZYME? That's what I started taking and so far so good..

I know.. I feel sorry too of my constipated self.. It gave me ghastly varicose veins and woo-hoo! It also contributes to cellulite! :rolleyes: :p

I feel much better after having this wee email chat with you and a good warm shower.. Time to munch and pill it..

I wonder how many pills I'll be taking by the age of 70 :p :p ;)

Xxxxxx Have a superb weekend! :D

Sday~

PS: Also...Yes!!!Yes!!Yes!!!!! I shall never see 70 kilos anything again!!! 2 kilos lost!! Yeppi!!!! :D
 
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So just to make sure I'm clear, you have a very acidic stomach, but constipation as well? Because that sounds just like me. I used to have over active bowels, and fruit would just go straight through me. Now I get blocked up, but I still get very acidic. I didn't realise that the two could go hand in hand. I think that I am going to have to eat more grains. I thought that eating lots of fruit would help my constipation, but it has just made me feel ill.

I have had tesco free from pasta, and it is just like the normal stuff, I must eat this more often. I have never heard of IB-ZYME. What does it do exactly and is it prescription or over the counter?

PS - I'm really glad that you are feeling better now ;)
 
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