Tips on how to be an original or your true self:
Know who you are.
Before you can be yourself, you must know who that is, and then be true to that self. Centuries ago Socrates wisely observed that self-knowledge is the pillar of all virtue. Without it nothing else is genuine.
Trust your intuition and instincts.
Part of knowing who you are is trusting your intuition and instincts. We all have an inner gauge that guides us along our most fulfilling path. Look deep within to find the answers to your life. No one is better at knowing what you need and want from life than you. Of course, it is prudent to listen to the advice of family, friends and professionals, but you are the ultimate authority on you. You are unique and original and no one but you can make your decisions for you. To go against that intuition is to go against your fundamental nature and source of satisfaction.
Express yourself by cultivating your own style, tastes and personality.
Many people try to be like those who seem to be popular. Rather than work on developing themselves they try to copy others and lose themselves in the process. Much time is wasted in such pursuits and the results are disillusionment and feelings of failure. When you work on cultivating your own style, tastes and personality, not only are you genuine and authentic, you're more interesting and attractive to others. Let go of fear and embrace your uniqueness. Make your life an expression of who you are.
Believe in yourself and don't worry about what others think.
When you choose the right path for yourself do not allow the opinions of others to distract you. People are good at offering well-intentioned, unsolicited opinions, however only you know what's best for you. Don't let a lack of self-confidence or self-doubt prevent you from pursuing what you know is best for you. Let go of your personal insecurities. If you strive to be someone you're not, you will never be happy. Be yourself. Be proud of who you are. People who have a more positive view of themselves live better, healthier lives.
When you dare to be an original, you dare to be courageous, strong, and vibrant and are willing to realize the full potential of your unique skills and talents.
Benefits of being an original:
You are true to yourself, therefore derive greater personal satisfaction and fulfillment.
You are more noticed, interesting, and attractive to others.
You are willing to take risks, think originally and be creative, therefore are open to greater career opportunities and advancement.
Due to a willingness to let go of convention, you live life to the fullest and on your terms.
Whether in your career, the arts, or in your community, you offer a fresh, new, diverse perspective.
You are usually a trailblazer, set new trends and discover new ways of doing things.