Cate
Long term member
Hi Quercus, You did not need to explain away how you feel towards family, & I don't see it as a pity party. It sounds like both you & your wife have done well, despite your families. There comes a time when the 2 of you need to put yourselves first and not worry about the others. You seem like a person who deserves the best in life. They are the ones missing out by not seeking your company. Families can be WEIRD! I love your expression "cabal of compadres". My younger sister & I have a great love of words & I'll use that one very soon. Cheers, Cate