Thanks for actually considering the question FF.
This thread has actually taken an interesting turn.
Do you think it's unhealthy...
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Thanks for actually considering the question FF.
This thread has actually taken an interesting turn.
Ok, It was beginning to sound like you do that every time
LMAOI actually do that occasionally but not purposely. Sometimes I become "marathon man" for some reason
Ok, It was beginning to sound like you do that every time
I actually do that occasionally but not purposely. Sometimes I become "marathon man" for some reason
Is it enjoyable to hold back like that?
yes, it makes the climax way better
What about right before the climax?
the point is being missed here. The "PURPOSE" of denial is the other persons pleasure. The benefit to self is not the point. Personal benefit will cum (hehe) in direct proportion to the depth of comitment to the "OTHER."
Until SELF is eliminated (ar at least minimized), these concepts can not be comprehended in essence.
It is a paradox.
so- to answer your question Calcium- when it is your turn to serve, the personal experience does not apply.
so- the answer is "what does it matter? I am all about her." and as a result "she will be all about me"
That is "a giving up of oneself for the other" whether we are taking turns, or simultaneous.
It is true "marriage" with or without the certificate.
Like the essence of Christian marriage vows- with this total abandonment, why not throw in the rest of your living days, in sickness or in health, etc.
OKee dokee then..... I have successfully applied a 6,000 year old practice, to a 2000 year old christian truth!
:yelrotflmao:
or maybe it is just a cover for having a short fuse like Phateboy! hgehehgeg
bye
Sweat Daily!
FF
Until SELF is eliminated (ar at least minimized), these concepts can not be comprehended in essence.
It is a paradox.
so- to answer your question Calcium- when it is your turn to serve, the personal experience does not apply.
so- the answer is "what does it matter? I am all about her." and as a result "she will be all about me"
That is "a giving up of oneself for the other" whether we are taking turns, or simultaneous.
It is true "marriage" with or without the certificate.
Like the essence of Christian marriage vows- with this total abandonment, why not throw in the rest of your living days, in sickness or in health, etc.
OKee dokee then..... I have successfully applied a 6,000 year old practice, to a 2000 year old christian truth!
:yelrotflmao:
or maybe it is just a cover for having a short fuse like Phateboy! hgehehgeg
bye
Sweat Daily!
FF
I was just gonna say...calcium is big hornball. Haha
I just wana know why Calcium has such a strong drive?? Can I get some of what your having??
Meh, don't be too jealous. This happens to me every once in a while. I also get spells where the last thing in the world I want is sex. During both times it's very extreme and I'm either thinking "All I want to do is have sex all day" or "I don't think I'll ever need to have sex again"
Meh, don't be too jealous. This happens to me every once in a while. I also get spells where the last thing in the world I want is sex. During both times it's very extreme and I'm either thinking "All I want to do is have sex all day" or "I don't think I'll ever need to have sex again"
Ok, I feel better now! LOL
I just wana know why Calcium has such a strong drive?? Can I get some of what your having??
If you had a Y chromosome, you'd know what Calcium is going through...
spicypumpkin, i am assuming you agree that each person has a spirit since you are talking about spiritual cleansing and that masturbation is beautiful and good for the spirit.
each person does have a spirit.
however, masturbation is very often assosiated with sexual fantasies and lust for another man/woman(or several).
Calcium, your sexual hunger should not be fullfilled by lust.
lust: 1. intense sexual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
If your mind wanders during masturbation and lust starts to come( you start fantisizing about other people you wish you had), it is unhealthy.
Indulging physical lust is not healthy for a spirit...
It is in a way like envy. 1. a feeling of covetousness with regard to another's advantages, success, possessions, etc.
I think many would agree envy is not healthy.
Well, the same way envy is not healthy for a spirit, lust is also not healthy.
It is not healthy to be very jelous of other's accomplishments, ranks, possessions and it is even more unhealthy to indulge the envy and allow it to occupy a room in your mind. It will corrupt your motives and desires, which will in turn affect your actions.
Same thing with lust. To indulge the lust is to give place to perverted thinking, fantasies that will never happen, and allow your mind to imagine adulterous thoughts.
It is very detrimental. It is a sin that will only give power to evil(satan).
I am not sure if you think that adultery is wrong, but i know that it is definetly wrong.
Jesus said that if a person operates in hate towards another person in their heart, then that person is as guilty as a murderer.
He also said that it is the same thing with lusting. If a person will lust in his heart with another, then it is just as bad as committing adultery.
If you give in to perverted, adulterous, sick thoughts, and ACT on those lusts by fulfilling the desires of your flesh, it is feeding your spirit garbage.
"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
I have personally had a struggle accepting this myself because i was decieved by the lie that kept on saying "its not wrong...it feels so good. How can it be wrong?"
However, since i have found the truth and have acted upon it, there are huge benefits from controlling your thoughts and body, instead of them controlling you.
i hope you take this to heart
each person does have a spirit.
however, masturbation is very often assosiated with sexual fantasies and lust for another man/woman(or several).
Calcium, your sexual hunger should not be fullfilled by lust.
lust: 1. intense sexual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
If your mind wanders during masturbation and lust starts to come( you start fantisizing about other people you wish you had), it is unhealthy.
Indulging physical lust is not healthy for a spirit...
It is in a way like envy. 1. a feeling of covetousness with regard to another's advantages, success, possessions, etc.
I think many would agree envy is not healthy.
Well, the same way envy is not healthy for a spirit, lust is also not healthy.
It is not healthy to be very jelous of other's accomplishments, ranks, possessions and it is even more unhealthy to indulge the envy and allow it to occupy a room in your mind. It will corrupt your motives and desires, which will in turn affect your actions.
Same thing with lust. To indulge the lust is to give place to perverted thinking, fantasies that will never happen, and allow your mind to imagine adulterous thoughts.
It is very detrimental. It is a sin that will only give power to evil(satan).
I am not sure if you think that adultery is wrong, but i know that it is definetly wrong.
Jesus said that if a person operates in hate towards another person in their heart, then that person is as guilty as a murderer.
He also said that it is the same thing with lusting. If a person will lust in his heart with another, then it is just as bad as committing adultery.
If you give in to perverted, adulterous, sick thoughts, and ACT on those lusts by fulfilling the desires of your flesh, it is feeding your spirit garbage.
"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
I have personally had a struggle accepting this myself because i was decieved by the lie that kept on saying "its not wrong...it feels so good. How can it be wrong?"
However, since i have found the truth and have acted upon it, there are huge benefits from controlling your thoughts and body, instead of them controlling you.
i hope you take this to heart
well the thread says
do you think its unhealthy
and thats my take on it so why complain?
:] dont be so closed minded. the thread is open to everyone
do you think its unhealthy
and thats my take on it so why complain?
:] dont be so closed minded. the thread is open to everyone
So ?
What's the matter with " sexual fantasies " and " lust " ?
Masturbation is a natural & normal aspect of human sexuality ( i.e self-exploration and sexual expression )
Really ? Too funny ! :yelrotflmao:
According to who exactly ?
C'mon...you HAVE to be kidding. Give me a break.
They're only " thoughts " and " fantasies " for crying out loud ! So long as they stay that way and don't manifest themselves into actions, they are of no harm to anyone.
So, within that context, you can have any sexual " thoughts " and " fantasies " you want.
Now I get get ...you're a bible thumper.
Where does the Bible expressly say somewhere that masturbating is a sin ?
Masturbation is not perverted, adulterous, or sick.
Catholic priests out there who lust after young boys - you listening ?
Earth to Proteinboy.........earth to Proteinboy.
It isn't wrong.
Masturbation is a natural & normal aspect of human sexuality
I find it amazing the continuing arrogance of some Christians who claim to have some monopoly on " the truth ".
Unbelievable.
O.K...tell me Proteinboy........the curiosity is killing me.
As a devout Christian....... at what age did you stop masturbating ?