Do you think it's unhealthy...

I think I'll take a dirty spirit over anxiety and prostatitis:eek::p
 
So basically you're just complaining without any serious intent to take the actions I or others might deem necessary to arriving at a resolution.

Ah, right. My girlfriend explained this one to me recently. I believe I'm supposed to say, "Everything will be okay." And then do this: :D.

It was either my girlfriend or Chris Rock. To be honest I'm not entirely sure.
 
Wrangell said:
“ Masturbation, don’t knock it. It’s sex with someone you love.” -- Woody ( excuse the pun ;)) Allen​
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Exactly, it's an interaction with yourself that you can enjoy with yourself. Plus, no risk of pregnancy or STDs.

But I get what you're saying. Sometimes it's good to have an actual companion...
 
[Focus] said:
So basically you're just complaining without any serious intent to take the actions I or others might deem necessary to arriving at a resolution.

Ah, right. My girlfriend explained this one to me recently. I believe I'm supposed to say, "Everything will be okay." And then do this: :D.

It was either my girlfriend or Chris Rock. To be honest I'm not entirely sure.
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You asked a question and I answered. Don't jump to conclusions.
 
spicypumpkin said:
I think FF was talking about refraining from release. In some cultures/schools of thought it is supposed to be spiritually cleansing. The idea is, you use that energy towards other things in life. It's the classic belief that restriction and dicipline is good for the soul.

I, on the other hand, believe that spiritual cleansing can be gained through release (in whatever form you choose). It can help you satisfy physical needs, and bring you closer to yourself.

Make sense?
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that's true but not what I meant.

With a couple tantric practice is the unselfish giving of pleasure to your mate, and denying your own climax as satisfaction. For- once you can forget yourself, you can truly tune into your mate and show them ecstasy that two people (jonesing for a climax) totally selfish with never know. Just Google Tatra, tantric technique, tibetin philosophy on love etc. WhiteLotus- keep it clean.

in your case Calcium- what i meant was, if you can use your own "pent up" sexual energy to focus on the well being, betterment, and nurturing of others. thru that purposeful denial of self, i believe you will actually find a greater satisfaction.

Masterbation is empty and for the youth.. it is tiptoeing in waters of beauty, with your eyes closed, wearing ear plugs, and it makes me feel yucky! my personal opinion on it is this- the more you exercise the fantasy function of your brain sexually, the less satisfaction you will find with another REAL person. you truly screw yourself.

ie: Let me make this personal for the macho men.... Me being able to deny myself, thru total focus on my wife, and practiced edging- I can totally focus on her rythm, and recognize climbing the hill, and groove, and she can experience multiples, and full ejaculation!

:azzangel: My pastor taught me. :luxlove:
 
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Me being able to deny myself, thru total focus on my wife, and practiced edging- I can totally focus on her rythm, and recognize climbing the hill, and groove, and she can experience multiples, and full ejaculation!
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Teach me oh wise one...
 
hahahaha
yes grasshopper- the lady will follow you to the end of the earth. THE POWER ANJD SPIRITUAL STRENGTH YOU EXPERIENCE FROM FULLY PLEASING A WOMAN is much greater than busting a nut! And you aint gunna do it, while pretending she is somebody else.

get out of yourself.

good grief-- I have got to get away from here now.
 
you can ding dong.... just not now. There is a whole other side to the story.... another time. Actually you please your lady right, and she will go hunting for how to take real good care of ya..out of gratitude. and there we have another chapter to write.


the point was trying to help calcium use her horniness productively verses staying up all night jonesing for a man.
 
flyinfree said:
Masterbation is empty and for the youth.. it is tiptoeing in waters of beauty, with your eyes closed, wearing ear plugs, and it makes me feel yucky! my personal opinion on it is this- the more you exercise the fantasy function of your brain sexually, the less satisfaction you will find with another REAL person. you truly screw yourself.
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I'm sorry, but I have to respectfully disagree with you on this.

Have you ever considered the fact that some women simply cannot learn how to become sexually responsive and in touch with their own feelings without it? Hmm, maybe you don't know this because you're not a woman and because it comes easy for you.

And I completely disagree with the sentence in bold. Truly knowing yourself and what turns you on is absolutely necessary for any relationship to work. If you don't know yourself, how can you tell anyone else how to please you? Again, you probably wouldn't understand this because it comes easy for you...

So yeah, I think this assumption that you've made is wrong.

Great spiritual satisfaction and cleansing can be achieved through it. It is in no way dirty or unclean. It is a beautiful thing...

Okay, this ends my rant. I in no way intend to disrespect you or your opinions. It is obvious that you know what works for you. But really, there are other perspectives out there. I just thought I would give one of them.
 
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