I think you're making a really big fool of yourself by not letting this go.
Look, I'm gonna be very straight with you here ... not playing games, trying to bait you, or anything. What do you think you're accomplishing here except making yourself look petty and kinda silly? No one is paying attention to any of this except as a trainwreck for amusement. I certainly didn't read through your whole post ... I just noticed that you were back and making a fuss again and it amused me.
Seriously. If you want to post and give advice, then do it. If you want to disagree with Steve, then do so. Steve and I have disagreed before - somewhat loudly.
But we do it with respect for each other instead of trying to score points or discredit the other.
You came into someone's house and broke a rule. It doesn't matter whether you think its a reasonable rule or not - it's not your house. And complaining about it and attacking the owners and moderators of the board is as rude as walking into someone's home, having the owners ask you not to display certain behavior, and then bitching them out because you don't like the rule.
The rule here is no links to your commercial sites. The OWNER of the board has given Steve permission to link his site. Whether you like it or not, the owner of the board gets to set whatever rule he wants and none of us really have much say about it. We either choose to abide by his rules or we go play someplace else. If you think an exception should be made for you, then talk to the owner don't go pitching tantrums about it and then expect people to feel sympathy for you.
Ok? This isn't a flame or a bitch or anything other than some friendly advice. Right now no one takes you seriously or really cares. If you really want to participate here, then do so. Otherwise ... well ... *shrug* if you want to look silly and childish, you're doing a really good job of it.