What Women Look For In Men?

I'm not looking anymore, bc I'm married to a wonderful man, but here's what I like:

physically: nice eyes; in good, but not perfect, shape; taller than me, which doesn't take much. LOL

personality: kind, caring, empathetic, honest

Habits: no smoking, no drugs, little to no drinking.

And that's what I have. :)
 
Woodt said:
Why hasnt anyone posted in response "What women look for in a man is me"
I'm still waiting for it.
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If the women you know want you to be into a man, they're all yours.
 
Asked out this girl a couple weeks ago. Told me no; but then I find later that she only likes black guys....

I try not to be shallow but looks are so important
 
jmanjman47 said:
I try not to be shallow but looks are so important
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As i expected this has turned into the what you look for in the opposite sex thread.

OF course looks are important, i guarantee that most people that say that they are just lying. When someone asks me about looks i reply - they're not everything but they're still important!
 
Streamline said:
As i expected this has turned into the what you look for in the opposite sex thread.

OF course looks are important, i guarantee that most people that say that they are just lying. When someone asks me about looks i reply - they're not everything but they're still important!
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That being said, it's important to remember that most people find different looks attractive. Take someone like George Clooney, loads of women think he's really hot but my girlfriend hates his appearance as it's too 'girly', she's more of a Jack Bauer type girl.

In my experience women like a tough guy who has the scars to prove it but have just a tiny vulnerability that gives them the opportunity to be a part of their lives.

I personally can't understand why people think Kate Moss is attractive, I like a flaw or two in both appearance and personality.
I think you change as you get older and develop you own unique tastes, the big boobed, blonde haired bimbo look is mainly for teenage boys and mentally stunted men
 
A friend of mine married a high maintenance, big-boobed (that he paid for), blonde haired barbie doll.

He is now divorced, with messed up credit, and drinking a lot more than he used to.

Lesson for the day boys & girls - Use caution when playing with barbie. Never leave barbie unattended within reach of your credit card as serious injury can result. :p
 
The women who came here touting all their husbands' traits are pretty funny...

I mean obviously you should like your husband, but you don't know if you liked those traits (ruggedness, handyman-ness) or if you convinced yourself you like those traits. Which came first, the chicken or the egg, in a sense.

You would still probably like your husband or another man had he not come to the table with those particular traits...
 
Well, I would hope I like my husband. :)

I already knew what I did and didn't like in a man before I met my husband. It's a big combination of my own experiences dating, the experiences of my friends, and the example set by my dad.

Would I have liked my dh anyway? Well, I have no way of knowing that. Did I fall in love with him and then mold "what I like" to fit that? No.

I dated others before my husband. I liked them all, and loved a few of them. At the end of the day though, I knew they were not what I wanted/needed in a lifelong spouse. I didn't just go around with a list in hand making sure a guy fit the mold before going out with him, but I knew what was important to me (and yes, general manliness was always on that list:p ).
 
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