Uglyism Worse than Racism

i_love_muscle said:
But isn't it fun when the discussion finally degenerates and degrades down to the nitty gritty :D

When you're talking about ugly, pretty always comes into play. Therefore, sex will come into play. It doesn't take much ... we're all slaves to beautiful flesh.

I always thought most of my friends were better looking than me. But I seemed to always have more guys hanging around me when I went out, probably because I'm more fun and more approachable. And I'm always laughing ... but I'm a total goofball so maybe guys hang around me because I laugh at their jokes (I really do think they're funny!) :D

Which proves you don't have to be beautiful to get dates. Just a goofball ;)
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props ILM. I always say its best to laugh their pants off. :action10:
 
theGOOCH said:
I'd rather have a hot, mediocre waitress than a hideous, but excellent waitress.

It sounds ridiculous, but I'm just being honest
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Not me. I'll stare at your hot waitresses ass for 45 minutes while she screws up your order time and time again, while my fugly one gets the job done right the first time.

My time is invaluable. Wasting it at a restaurant with a poor waitress is something I cannot tolerate.

When I go to best buy, I don't want a cute sales clerk. I want the geek who doesn't wash his hair every day. He is the one that can tell me the real info on HDMI, 1080i vs 1080p, etc.

When I want 'cute', I'll google soem porn.
 
malkore said:
Not me. I'll stare at your hot waitresses ass for 45 minutes while she screws up your order time and time again, while my fugly one gets the job done right the first time.

My time is invaluable. Wasting it at a restaurant with a poor waitress is something I cannot tolerate.

When I go to best buy, I don't want a cute sales clerk. I want the geek who doesn't wash his hair every day. He is the one that can tell me the real info on HDMI, 1080i vs 1080p, etc.

When I want 'cute', I'll google soem porn.
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LOL, I said "mediocre" not terrible.

I know what I'm saying is asinine, but it's true nevertheless. It's my own weakness
 
Eric L said:
We are attracted to beautiful things/people only because of the way we promote and encourage these looks via TV and such methods. We are raised with the idea that being beautiful is awesome/required or needed to be successful human beings so others can make money off people who beleive in this. We are all like this, we want to look better just to please others and to feel like we have some sort of place in the world or to have recognition. As long as everyone keeps going forward with such an attitude, we will never change and prejudice, stereotypes and uglysim will always exist. Sad to say that this day is most likely, IMO, non existent or in the very far future...and I'm not talking about decades here.

Young kids have it pretty ****ing hard IMO, and they are not taught the things they should know. Things like personality and attitude is what makes you beautiful, I, personally, think good looking people with bitchy and stupid attitudes are the ugliest people on the planet. I am seriously repulsed by people like this.

Money - if the economy would not exist and we had some other way to encourage people to work for things like improvement, achievements and contribution...things would change, the human race would actually evolve for the better.

Sometimes, I question my faith in the human race. :sad2:
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Well said, Eric!

Hugs and kisses to you :love3:
 
Thanks ILM, flattery always works on me :sport: ya ain't so bad yourself :canadaf:

to clarify...I wouldn't not be friends with someone because they're ugly. I'm just saying sometimes it's cool to be around attractive people. If you get a hot waitress or say you're in school and your professor is hot don't you think to yourself "sweet!"

P.S. kinda cute + great personality beats gorgeous +****ty personality any day
 
malkore said:
Not me. I'll stare at your hot waitresses ass for 45 minutes while she screws up your order time and time again, while my fugly one gets the job done right the first time.

My time is invaluable. Wasting it at a restaurant with a poor waitress is something I cannot tolerate.

When I go to best buy, I don't want a cute sales clerk. I want the geek who doesn't wash his hair every day. He is the one that can tell me the real info on HDMI, 1080i vs 1080p, etc.
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Exactly my sentiments. I've had service like that and it's nothing less than irritating. I have huge difficulty tolerating crappy service and usually end up complaining in the hopes I get a different waitress or at least one with a functioning brain.

Cute only cuts it with me when the other things are going on ... like brains, sense of humor, etc.
 
theGOOCH said:
Thanks ILM, flattery always works on me :sport: ya ain't so bad yourself :canadaf:

to clarify...I wouldn't not be friends with someone because they're ugly. I'm just saying sometimes it's cool to be around attractive people. If you get a hot waitress or say you're in school and your professor is hot don't you think to yourself "sweet!"

P.S. kinda cute + great personality beats gorgeous +****ty personality any day
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Hey thanks, Gooch! :luxlove:

I think we all know what you're saying. It's easier to like pretty people than unattractive people -- initially anyway.
 
I would argue that we're genetically predisposed to being attracted to attractive people. Attractiveness is a sign of health. If someone looks like good breeding stock, then we become attracted to them. It's human nature.
 
But not everybody finds the same thing to be attractive.

I think Brad Pitt is ugly. In fact, I'd be hard-pressed to tell you that I find any Hollywood actor remotely attractive. There are two actors that I find attractive, but they aren't Hollywood actors: Adrian Paul and Christophe Lambert. There is a certain "je ne sais quoi" that exudes from inside them.

I am attracted to men that have something unusual or different -- even a flaw -- that makes them stand out. It's irresistable to me because there is a lot more that goes into good breeding stock than just having nice teeth and a great body.

I think it's far more important for a guy to have fortitude, intelligence, physical stamina, sensitivity, integrity, sense of humor, the ability to provide. That's what turns me on. Not just a pretty face. Besides, pretty faces age -- or they can be taken away quickly in an accident. Hearts, like a fine wine, just get better with time ;)
 

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I agree, different people find different things attractive. There's a genetic advantage to this as well. It ensures that we have variation in the species. If we were all attracted to the same type or the same features, our species would lack the diversity it needs.

Here's an example:

Lets say that every woman is attracted to guys that look like Brad Pitt and choose to breed only with them.

Let's also say that the genes that make those men look like Brad also make them and their offspring highly susceptible to a deadly virus that is developing. The only men that are chosen for breeding look like Brad. A few years down the road (after lots of breeding), all of humankind shares the Brad lookalikes as ancestors, then the virus hits. In this situation, humankind would been in grave danger of extinction due to a lack of genetic diversity.

But thankfully that's not how it works. Thank goodness we all value different traits in a partner.
 
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spicypumpkin said:
Lets say that every woman is attracted to guys that look like Brad Pitt and choose to breed only with them.
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Hmm, you ask my girlfriend, being attracted to guys like Brad Pitt and getting laid by them are two very different things. That's why she ended up with me :D


Most people end up with people of similar levels of attractiveness to themselves (unless they're rich or famous)
 
Typhon said:
Hmm, you ask my girlfriend, being attracted to guys like Brad Pitt and getting laid by them are two very different things. That's why she ended up with me :D

Most people end up with people of similar levels of attractiveness to themselves (unless they're rich or famous)
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Actually, that's not true. I see lots of beautiful people with ugly people.

For example, I think my boyfriend is 10 times better looking than I am. He's drop-dead gorgeous. I'm sure as hell not drop-dead gorgeous by any stretch of the imagination. I'm just creative :D
 
My girlfriend is hot, but then again, so am I.

I don't know where I'm going with this, I guess I just want everyone on the forum to know that I'm hot.

seriously though, I see a lot of hot people with not so hot people. Specially hot girls with not so hot guys. I think a lot of men don't know what women find attractive. I know a lot of women who say they don't really like 6 packs, but like a belly with a bit of fat, etc.
 
Karky said:
My girlfriend is hot, but then again, so am I.

I don't know where I'm going with this, I guess I just want everyone on the forum to know that I'm hot.

seriously though, I see a lot of hot people with not so hot people. Specially hot girls with not so hot guys. I think a lot of men don't know what women find attractive. I know a lot of women who say they don't really like 6 packs, but like a belly with a bit of fat, etc.
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Was there ever any doubt? :D

Believe it or not, most women I know prefer their men to have a bit of fat as well. All the men I find attractive, they don't find attractive, so that suits me just fine :)

I do like the six-pack.
 
I think you're dead sexy Karky. I'd do ya.

I see a lot of women who are in shape with fat dudes and vice versa. Seems like 1 or the other in the couple is in really good shape and the other lets themselves go.
 
I like how my big, hairy, fat-infused belly protrudes in front of me.

Sorry, I had to say it.
 
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