I had this whole post all written up and since it took too long, I had to log back in and it went away..
Bottom line was that after a good pap, the doc was only going to prescribe mirena. My wife pushed him a bit, her referred her to another doc (who was much better, IMO), who then proceeded to run her through a total of about 3 different procedures, that in the end, finally resulted in a hysterectomy, because she had early stage cancerous cell s growing behind a polyp that hadh been removed hysteroscopically. She is fine now, no further issues, and she kept her ovaries, so no hormone replacement necessary.
I happened to see the iron suppliment and heavy period statements in the same conversation here in your diary, and a light went off. I don't mean to sound scary, I just want to make sure you are covering your options is all.
I sat with my wife through every appt and procedure that I was allowed to, and would/will do it again if it ever becomes necessary. It was not a lot of fun, even if in the end it all turned out fine.
Oh yeah, and for the record? since it's gone now, neither one of us misses TOM...