This has been really helpful already. Thanks, Steve.
You are welcome.
Yes, definition is my goal, and I would like to get stronger as well. I assume they happen simultaneously.
Yes.
I'm going to start with 3 days, and I think I'll do cardio on alternating days, instead of the same day as strength.
This is a fine idea. I'll discuss more of what to do below.
You're right, I was beating my body into submission, and I lost weight at first, but because I couldn't do it anymore, I stopped, lost a lot of endurance and strength, and now I'm having to start over again. There is no way I will ever do that to myself again. It was torture. I hope I can learn from my mistakes too. I think I've stepped away from it enough that I can look at it objectively, and realize how stupid I was.
Glad to hear. Not only is it not maintainable... but it also does screwy things with your body in terms of hormones that lead to plateaus. Over-stressing the body is something you have to be very cognizant of. The less weight you have to lose and the more extreme a diet... the finer of a line you walk.
I'm still going to try not tracking calories at first, and see how it goes.
I think this is a good idea in your case.
Getting enough protein has been and is something I've struggled with. But I make a conscious effort to include at least one protein source with each meal. I eat a lot of yogurt (recently I switched to Greek yogurt because it has more protein). I love tuna sandwiches, or I put chicken on salad or in soup. For dinner I make sure I have either fish, chicken, tofu, or occasionally beef, but I don't like it that much. I prefer ground turkey. I think I've been doing better about it lately. I've been having fun coming up with recipes.
Protein is certainly an important nutrient in the context of preserving muscle. If you don't believe you are getting enough, supplementing your diet with some whey protein powder certainly wouldn't hurt.
No, not really. I've done more body weight exercises than anything else. Here's what I did today at the gym. I chose 5 machines that were open. I don't know the names of any of the moves. One for Pecs and back depending on which way you're facing. One with a bar that you pull down to your chest. One for Triceps that you push down on to lift the weight. And one that used a rowing motion. I set each one to level 3, after some fiddling, and did 12 reps on each one, 3 times. After doing that I have a couple questions.
Before getting to them, I'd like to make a few comments on the above:
1. You're just starting out so it really doesn't matter all that much what you do. Just getting a feel for resistance training is a good start.
2. If you're not going to start with free weights, it is something you should strive for in the future. Free weights are better than machines in almost all cases.
3. When you're working your entire body, once you get the 'feel' of this stuff, you shouldn't be using the same level of resistance for each exercise. You'll be able to use much more resistance on exercises that call on more muscles to execute (e.g., ) than you could on an isolation movement such as a .
Both work the muscles of the leg but the squat calls on much more of the body to execute and therefore leads to more strength.
4. Related to above, you want to focus primarily on compound exercises vs. isolation exercises. Stuff for your biceps and triceps might feel great but they aren't real beneficial given your stats and goals, for instance. You could throw a handful of stuff in at at the end for isolation movements, but don't go crazy.
5. Since you're training 3 times per week, you have two choices. One, you could do a full body routine 3 times per week or two, you could do an ABA split where A = upper body and B = lower body.
With the full body routine, you'd focus on doing 1-2 compound movements for each major muscle group per day. (quads, hamstrings, chest, back, core, shoulders). Not every day needs to be identical but there shoudl be some rhyme to your reason. Simply going in and doing anything that's 'open' won't cut it.
I like the idea, personally, of making two different full body workouts and alternating between them each week.
Workout A might look something like this:
Quad exercise - 2 sets of 12-15 reps
Hamstring/Glute exercise - 3 sets of 6-8 reps
Rowing exercise for back - 2 sets of 12-15 reps
Chest exercise - 3 sets of 6-8
Isolation stuff throw in at end for arms and core
Workout B might look something like this:
Hamstring/Glute exercise - 2 sets of 12-15
Quad exercise - 3 sets of 6-8 reps
Chest exercise - 2 sets of 12-15 reps
Vertical Pulling exercise - 3 sets of 6-8 reps
Space these workouts out as best you can over each week. MWF would be ideal.
Week one would be ABA
Week two would be BAB
In the beginning, picking exercises you are comfortable with would be most important and a very, very strong emphasis on learning proper form should be made. Once you're comfortable enough after a number of weeks, you can start focusing on increasing the intensity based on how you 'feel'. If an exercise feels easy and you feel you could complete many more reps than what is prescribed, you know it's time too add resistance.
This is all examples, of course. Nothing is written in stone and there really isn't a right/wrong.
6. You want at least one day each week where you have nothing but rest.
7. A very important concept is what you eat fuels what you do. So many people get this wrong. They bump activity way the hell up and cut caloric intake way the hell down. Our bodies don't like this very much and it's quite often how people end up plateaued.
I was watching other people, and they did it differently. They would do one set, rest, do another set, rest, etc. whereas I did one set on one machine, moved to the next machine and did one set there, then the next one, making a circuit. Is there a reason to do it one way over another? Is one way better? I don't like to waste my time just sitting around. It seems to me to make more sense to do something else before going back to one you already did, but maybe I'm wrong.
One is not right and the other wrong. They each serve different purposes and I'd be willing to bet that most anyone doesn't know why they do what they do in the gym, lol. They just move based on preconceived notions that they never think about or question.
Be that as it may, and mind you I'm responding as I read along, when I typed that hypothetical workout above, I had in mind that you'd be resting between each set. That's how I like to train and for the most part, given clients with similar stats and goals as you, it's how I train them too.
Remember, the goal isn't to break a sweat or get out of breath. That's what cardio is for. Weight training serves a very different purpose. This doesn't mean you won't break a sweat or you won't get out of breath. It simply means that rest can be a good thing between sets. For instance, it allows you to use more intensity and weight each set b/c you're going into it with rest. More weight = stronger stimulus to trigger your body to preserve muscle while dieting.
Circuit training certainly serves a purpose... and I use it with a bunch of my clients. But it's predominantly those who don't have a real concern for muscle loss or are training for a particular, low-rest sport.
Also, how do I go about picking which machines to use? Today I just went to the first 5, but that means that I didn't work my legs at all. I loved the way I felt when I left the gym. I wasn't shaky but I could tell that my muscles had been worked. I also did 10 minutes on the bike and the arc trainer. My next day won't be until Sunday unfortunately, but I'm looking forward to it. Then I'll probably go next Tuesday.
See above.
If you still have questions after reading what I wrote above, feel free to ask.