What motivated me were several things:
1) A friend who is also having trouble losing weight telling me a doctor had told her, after she'd been trying the "reasonable 1200 calorie watch what you eat and exercise approach" and seeing no results, that she should try going down to 1000 calories. And since I'd been getting no results with 1200 calories, and at the back of my mind I had the rotation diet in mind, I decided to take the plunge
2) I have all these clothes that I'd love to wear! I try them on and imagine how I'll look when I lose weight
3) I've been steadily gaining weight, and something has to change, I can't keep going up like this. Also I'd lost some weight in the past and I am angry with myself for having allowed that advantage to slip away. I really hope not to celebrate myself back to fatness in future whenever I've achieved some goal.
4) I'm 31 years old, and though I've been overweight all of my life, I at least used to exercise consistently, and I thought I was probably more fit than lots of my thinner friends who didn't work out. All of a sudden lately, since I haven't been exercising, I'm starting to notice that I have these body aches and pains, and I realized that even if I don't get results, I HAVE to get back in shape as far as exercising, otherwise I am aging myself and turning into a person who can't energetically move around. And therefore I can learn to be happy with any fitness goals I achieve, even if the scale doesn't budge, and this is a lot more attainable
5) I have a wedding overseas in March and my family is there and I want them to see that I've lost weight!
As for a tip that has helped me in the past:
- The concept of "Later". Sure you'd love that chocolate, or pizza, or whatever. But it will be there when you're done with your diet (when you will be able to have it occastionally in reasonable amounts of course). So just tell yourself you can have it, just "Later".
Another tip I've thought of now:
- Sometimes when I was half-heartedly on a diet and lets say I would go out with a friend and we'd say, "What the heck, let's order a brownie", I guess we were imagining that we were simply postponing the diet a little without much thought to consequences. So now I think it'll be useful especially after I hopefully lose the weight and am trying to maintain, to acknowledge the fact that this brownie does have calories, and that 1) either I can eat less that day or the next day to compensate, 2) I can burn it off through exercise, or 3) the calories WILL get added as pounds on to my body....the calories won't simply disappear as I guess I sometimes tricked myself into thinking!
Also, it's good to find out what is likely to ruin your efforts and have a plan for it. For example, I know I can crave chocolate. In the past I used to sometimes get some dark chocolate (which I don't like very much) and decide to have that if I had a craving, but I could sometimes overeat even that, and on this diet you can't really afford those calories. I recently found something called Tissano cocoa tea, which is just cocoa shells that you brew like tea. It is NOT hot cocoa, no one should expect it to be sweet and lots of people may be disappointed, but it DOES smell like wonderful chocolate, and I find that it can take the edge off a craving with ZERO calories!
Finally, you should know that the first three 600 calorie days are absolutely the toughest, once those have passed it is pretty easy, you learn to find the extra calories you get in other days an indulgence, and become eager for the next 600 calorie days!
I'll weigh myself January 24th (last day of rotation), I hope I'll be happy with the results!