I don't know why I'm talking to a forum about this but....

[calcium]

It's human nature to want when it is not wanted. There are many times in your life where you will want something so badly, and once you get it, you will ignore it and let it go until it goes away again and the want comes back.

It's a game. She's playing you a fool. Now you want her, and she knows it and she's going to keep acting like this while you sit on your butt all day long thinking about her. How do you resolve it? Forget about it. Pretend like she doesn't exist. Play the tough guy. Don't be her friend and don't be her support. Instead, act like she doesn't even exist. Bring other girls with you when you visit and sooner or later, she's going to want you so badly like you do now. She already gave you a hint. She said she loves you but not the same as before. What it translate to is, "You stupid ***hole, you dumped me, you ignored me, now it's payback *****."

She's not playing a game. This has gone too far and for too long for me to think that anyone would start with some kind of mind game. We are talking YEARS. She wanted him back for over a year and he refused and now he wants her back. Believe me, if she felt the same way still she would take him back. People that don't have too much pride to ask for someone back for over a year don't turn the person away to play a game. Geez Dallen.

And the others are right when they say that even if you do magically get back together with her it won't be the same. She will most likely resent you for what you did. It will be in the back of her mind for a long time.

I say learn from your mistake. You messed up but you are not evil or anything. It happens to a lot of people. I've hurt a guy before and felt terrible for it. He wasn't the love of my life and we wouldn't have made it but I still feel bad for it. In a way though I am a better person from it. Now in my next relationship I know what NOT to do.

 

[calcium]

that's an epic sad story. Women seem to have the ability to move on very quickly.

I've heard this before and haven't known enough people to know if it's true. My aunt told me men freak out over women and become stalkers, etc because they have less options than us. Less of a chance of finding a mate and also of having sex with anyone. When they lose a girlfriend they sometimes freak out and think "Oh my god I might never have sex again!"

 

[Kraken]

I've heard this before and haven't known enough people to know if it's true. My aunt told me men freak out over women and become stalkers, etc because they have less options than us. Less of a chance of finding a mate and also of having sex with anyone. When they lose a girlfriend they sometimes freak out and think "Oh my god I might never have sex again!"

Only the weak and the ones lacking self confidence.

I think its pretty even. Some women freak and some dudes freak. Just depends on the individuals mental state.

 

[Dallen]

This has come to being close to pretty ridiculous. You don't have to become a stalker or a dish thrower to try and get your girl back. No one even knows this person and no one even knows this girl who he's after. She could really want him back, but she's just angry and sad at the fact that he broke her heart as he did.

Yes, he broke her heart. Yes, it's going to be hard to get her back. Yes, it's going to take a very long time to get over her. But then again what is easy? If things are easy, then why do it?

I say go and try. I think it's a game really. Just don't take on the advices of this forum: namely don't become a stalker, don't hit her in the back with your car, don't carry drugs, and finally, don't throw dishes at her.

Simply play your cards right. Don't screw it up. Just be careful, and after seeing that you can't get her back, then try something else. Basically, just take it easy.

And finally, guys are more one-track-minded. We don't typically see the other side of things. Simply put, most guys would attempt to put a square into a circle until it fits either by force or continued attempts. But I think most guys give up way too easily. They say there are many fishes in the sea, but in reality the sea is very big, and the fishes are far and wide apart. Finding that one fish can take a lifetime; like the stars in the sky, you see many of them, but actually reaching one will never be accomplished in this life.

 

[realworksuks]

The absolute best is when you can get someone to stalk you.

I broke up with this chick once and she got so mad at me she threw dishes and what not at me. I managed to avoid getting hit as I ran out the door. Then she kept showing up at my work, driving by my apartment I had etc.

In a classic finale she rammed the ass end of my truck at a light and tried pushing me into the intersection. LOL
Imagine a VW Jetta trying to push a 1/2 ton Chevy truck. Anyway the police came and asked if I wanted to press charges for vehicular assault. I said no.

She got arrested anyway because she had drugs in the car. LMAO

Moral of the story. Never, ever date a stripper.

Now THAT is an epic love story :jump1:

 

[Chillen]

This has come to being close to pretty ridiculous. You don't have to become a stalker or a dish thrower to try and get your girl back. No one even knows this person and no one even knows this girl who he's after. She could really want him back, but she's just angry and sad at the fact that he broke her heart as he did.

Yes, he broke her heart. Yes, it's going to be hard to get her back. Yes, it's going to take a very long time to get over her. But then again what is easy? If things are easy, then why do it?

I say go and try. I think it's a game really. Just don't take on the advices of this forum: namely don't become a stalker, don't hit her in the back with your car, don't carry drugs, and finally, don't throw dishes at her.

Simply play your cards right. Don't screw it up. Just be careful, and after seeing that you can't get her back, then try something else. Basically, just take it easy.

And finally, guys are more one-track-minded. We don't typically see the other side of things. Simply put, most guys would attempt to put a square into a circle until it fits either by force or continued attempts. But I think most guys give up way too easily. They say there are many fishes in the sea, but in reality the sea is very big, and the fishes are far and wide apart. Finding that one fish can take a lifetime; like the stars in the sky, you see many of them, but actually reaching one will never be accomplished in this life.

Speak for yourself on that one, Dallen.

The absolute best is when you can get someone to stalk you.

I broke up with this chick once and she got so mad at me she threw dishes and what not at me. I managed to avoid getting hit as I ran out the door. Then she kept showing up at my work, driving by my apartment I had etc.

In a classic finale she rammed the ass end of my truck at a light and tried pushing me into the intersection. LOL
Imagine a VW Jetta trying to push a 1/2 ton Chevy truck. Anyway the police came and asked if I wanted to press charges for vehicular assault. I said no.

She got arrested anyway because she had drugs in the car. LMAO

Moral of the story. Never, ever date a stripper.

The stripper proved more powerful than almighty Kraken!

Never, ever, underestimate the power of a woman. (I mean well!!! )

I was in wal-mart the other day, and this big african-american woman was just tongue lashing this poor (LOL) little african-american male, up and down the aisle. One could hear her many aisles over, slang talking, cussing, pointing the finger, nose to nose, wide eyeballs, the entire shabang! All the while he was saying, yes dear, yes dear......Then she would say, dont yes dear me, you...blah, blah......then,...don't you even give me that eye look, blah, blah......dont you roll your eyes at me! Blah, blah......

I looked at my wife, and said.......don't you even think about that.....

she says......Don't even give me that eye look, mister.

And, we walked on laughing. What a poor B@stard. LOL.

Any hoot, I found it funny......

Best wishes


Chillen

 

[Shinra]

Jesus H Christ. I left this thread with one page i come back to 3 more lol. Thanks for all the analyzing guys. I ****ed up, and I have to live with it. But let it be known that even though I did **** around and hurt her the last 2 years, I always loved her and I always wanted to end up with her. Alas, too little too late, and there's no one to blame or get angry at except myself.

 

[Kraken]

The stripper proved more powerful than almighty Kraken!




Chillen

She was more powerful but The Mighty Kraken was far more elusive.

:jump1:

 

[evolution]

I've heard this before and haven't known enough people to know if it's true. My aunt told me men freak out over women and become stalkers, etc because they have less options than us. Less of a chance of finding a mate and also of having sex with anyone. When they lose a girlfriend they sometimes freak out and think "Oh my god I might never have sex again!"

I think the exceptions to this are the guys that have worked hard to keep themselves in shape and have successful careers in the mid-to-late 30s and above in age. I say this because teh quality of men walking around in the 30s plus gets to be pretty ugly.

 

[Danger_Dave]

And finally, guys are more one-track-minded. We don't typically see the other side of things. Simply put, most guys would attempt to put a square into a circle until it fits either by force or continued attempts.

wow. This is an amusingly accurate example.
Kind of like when you come to a door that swings open and shut for stores. I feel compelled to push no matter what. It could say Pull, and I'd push first, and push hard to see if it goes the other way (because one time i did push when it said pull and it worked) and so now I always push on doors, only after i fail miserably do i pull.

 

[SkianS40]

I've heard this before and haven't known enough people to know if it's true. My aunt told me men freak out over women and become stalkers, etc because they have less options than us. Less of a chance of finding a mate and also of having sex with anyone. When they lose a girlfriend they sometimes freak out and think "Oh my god I might never have sex again!"

apparently it's true that every family has a crazy aunt...