Gift Ideas

I'm just gonna pretend Focus isn't here :rolleyes:

Now I'm thinking of a group of things put together;
A spa day with a friend followed by a night in a hotel, then the next day an appointment with a hair stylist followed by a personal shopping experience in one of the shops on Oxford Street where she has money to spend with a stylist

It comes in at about the same price as a diamond necklace so it isn't too bad, I can't really afford it though :yelrotflmao:
 
You can't ignore me! I'm like a force of nature. :D

Singing is a good ab workout. Get her a couple of outfits to go with the machine, and some of that snazzy costume jewelery. Tell her she's your little pop princess and you want to molest her. Then throw a party. You can get her the haircut thing if you must. But I'd give her time to practice. Chicks get angry when you surprise them.

Also who knows maybe she does a Coal Miner's Daughter and you're set for life.

I don't understand why you insist on this spa nonsense. How does that benefit you? Other than the libidinous rewards, I mean. I'm thinking long-term.
 
Typhon said:
I'm just gonna pretend Focus isn't here :rolleyes:

Now I'm thinking of a group of things put together;
A spa day with a friend followed by a night in a hotel, then the next day an appointment with a hair stylist followed by a personal shopping experience in one of the shops on Oxford Street where she has money to spend with a stylist

It comes in at about the same price as a diamond necklace so it isn't too bad, I can't really afford it though :yelrotflmao:
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Let me see if I understand. She just had a baby. You want to do something special for her since she's pretty much around the house all the time and taking care of the kiddo? I don't mean to sound like a jerk, but that is the role women/men play when they have children.

I can't imagine that she wouldn't feel appreciated if you didn't spend a fortune. Get her a card, flowers, and a note about how much you love her and how you're looking optimistic towards the future as a family. Toss in a gift certificate to a day spa and you're golden. If you want to push it, toss in a gift certificate for a hundred or so to a clothing store. The breast pump will ensure that you or a sitter can feed the baby while she's gone for a bit getting pampered.
 
You could get her a mothers ring with hers and the kids birth stones in it.
they are rather inexpensive.

I think the clothing store gift card or the spa is an excellent idea as well. Chicks dig that stuff man.
 
[Focus] said:
Evo says, "Womens, know your role." :luxlove:
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lol...that's not what I meant.
I just meant that as husbands/wives/mothers/father/etc we have expectations of things we have to do. We typically don't get special rewards for working every day. We typically don't get special rewards for taking care of our children. It's just what we have to do.

However, it's nice to be thoughtful for our loved ones. I just don't think (again, that's me) he should go out and spend a fortune when he can get the same message of thinking of her for cheaper.
 
women love shopping for themselves more than they love getting gifts, women love talking about what they bought more than what somene bought them
 
She already feels fat and sending her to a fitness spa or something where exercise will be the activity will reinforce her assumption that she's fat which will cause her to become more depressed.

Since she's materialistic as you stated, perhaps taking her out someplace would be a grand idea. Perhaps a mall in a neighbor city would do and just go there, have fun, buy some stuff, come home.
 
Just take her to one of those beauty spas where they spend the day massaging them and all that other women relaxation/beauty crap.
 
Typhon said:
Lol, she'd kill me, she really would

The kind of thing I'm looking for is a gift so good that as soon as you open it you'd be dropping to your knees.
(but not so good that you'd invite your friend to join you as I don't have that kind of cash ;))
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Man, I'd kill you too! ewww, elastic skirt...*shiver*.....LOL :D

The day at a spa sounds fantastic! (mudd bath, massage, facials...who could resist? :D ) I think Evo has it with the flowers, the spa and the sincere note. I bet she would LOVE that.

And I think he is right, It is never about the money so much as it is about showing you care. Thoughtful gets you a lot farther than cash....at least in my book....
 
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OK, I'm newish around here, but where are you?

Other than the "realm of Hades", I mean! :SaiyanSmilie_anim: I don't even know what continent you're on, so it's hard to give you suggestions!

:cool:
 
Dallen said:
She already feels fat and sending her to a fitness spa or something where exercise will be the activity will reinforce her assumption that she's fat which will cause her to become more depressed.

Since she's materialistic as you stated, perhaps taking her out someplace would be a grand idea. Perhaps a mall in a neighbor city would do and just go there, have fun, buy some stuff, come home.
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I said nothing about a fitness spa. I don't even know what a fitness spa is. A day spa is something along the lines of a massage, facial, aromatherapy, soak in spa, etc
 
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