davisgirl’s journal

Haha! Oh is fanny pack more of a verb in AUS? Love it! Not sure how many water bottles it will hold. It was hard to tell. My needs are for the pepper spray (just for peace of mind really), a bottle of water, and my phone. The collapsible bowl I can clip to the outside or just tuck I think. I attached a pic of the one I got.

The “snack” is a 300 calorie smorgasbord of ingredients that directly satisfy my sweet tooth while filling in an extra bit of protein and filling in my macros. Cate, I am a snacker and binger. I started a hundred pounds overweight, and probably half that was from snack binging completely, and the rest I attribute to my no exercise lifestyle. My problem isn’t one of these snacks, it’s eating 3 of them. My cravings for these sweets are all day almost every day and especially at night. My hope was that by allowing my sweet tooth to be wholly satisfied once a day, I could learn to let myself enjoy a bit of sweetness without going overboard. The trouble has been self control. Because within a half hour of that snack, and many more times throughout the day, I badly want another one. Badly.

Yesterday I had my one snack portion and was able to leave it at that. Just barely though, at one point in the evening I had it justified in my head how I could eat a bit of ice cream. But I didn’t. There have been a few days recently when I had a second snack and had to cut back on my dinner — the nutrient rich foods — to make up for the extra calories. I just need to make saying NO to myself a habit like everything else. I’m telling myself that I know I can do this — I’m ripe to learn new habits right now. A long walk every day is now a habit. Eating kale is now a habit. Saying NO to unreasonable cravings must also be one of my new habits. But it’s hard!

I have an 11 year old son, also overweight like his mom and dad. He has been on vacation with his Dad the past 10 days, but he’ll come along on our walk this morning. This lifestyle change will be good for him too.

Oh about the ice cream. I have a lovely neighbor who brings me 8 pints of halo top about once a month. I can’t eat them obviously, but I used to. And my son can, although whether he should is another story. His diet is obviously affected by my diet, so he is eating a lot of protein and vegetables, I am blessed that he likes spinach and broccoli so much. But I need to do some serious research on his protein requirements and the best way to “diet” an 11 year old, because keto is a lot of fat. I am hoping that between the emphasis on protein and veggies, and the daily exercise, will turn things around for him. And, he spends half his time with his Dad, so any changes we make together are a bit blunted. But that’s ok.

I wasn’t trying to put him on a keto diet, there are bananas and yogurt for snacks available to him. But other than breakfast, he likes cereal and fruit and I don’t eat, his meals and core nutrition are now keto. I’m going to have to do some research on what that means for him. 11 is an important age, he is quite tall, and developing in important ways. I think I will discuss all this with his doctor. Maybe I’ll start plugging everything he eats into a calculator for a few days, so I understand where he may be getting too many nutrients, or not enough. The changes I make have to be appropriate for him too. My existing knowledge of keto tells me that this is healthy and sustainable for him too, but as I’ve seen areas of nutrition that keto leaves open, I’m sure those same deficiencies exist for him as well, and maybe more. But he does get cereal and lots of fruit. And the occasional pint of ice cream. And whatever he eats with his Dad which I believe is protein rich but heavy on pasta rice sauces, light on veggies and fruit.

Ok, just did a bit of research, turns out the keto diet I am consuming is perfect for him. Sadly he won’t get the full benefit of being on it all the time, but that’s OK. And I see no reason to restrict the extra bit of carbs he gets here and there.

He is also excited about our recent changes. He will not be allowed in the fitness room or weight room until 7th grade, but he wishes he could go. I’m hoping to make enough progress in the next year that he is still excited and I can give him a proper introduction to weight training. We are headed off on our walk with the dogs shortly, the first extended walk for him. Fingers crossed.

Ordered the “intermediate obese fat burning program” from Michelle McDaniels. Does anyone know her? Boy, she is one hot shit. She does a lot of weight training and personal training. Her workouts will be perfect when I’m ready to move into the real weight room. She has the “my thoughts will offend you” channel on YouTube and although a bit brash, she is currently my fitness hero.

So I met my goals yesterday! 7%!
 

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Nathan did awesome! We ended up going 1.8 miles at a great pace, and we’re going to go out a little earlier tomorrow and try for 2.5 miles. It got a little warmer than we would have liked, 78 degrees was a bit uncomfortable for everyone, but we’ve resolved to get back out there tomorrow at 7ish and try for the longer walk. I officially have a walking buddy!
 
Hey Davis, I assume Nathan is your son. Glad you were able to take him on a walk, I suspect your commitment to exercise will go better with a walking buddy. You say he is also overweight, are you going to try and get him to join you on you diet and trips to the gym? Any chance you could coordinate with his dad on things? Having once been an overweight 11 year old boy I wish someone had helped me manage my eating better back then, hope you can do that for him
it just lends to an overall discomfort with the experience, and I guess as a heavier woman I’m a bit over sensitive. I’ll get over myself!
As a heavier man (I like that better than being a fat man) I can relate more than you know. There are way too many things I have held back on doing in life because of feelings of self consciousness, don't let this be one for you.
 
Ahh. How do I say this......It makes me laugh whenever I see a fanny pack mentioned as in Australia a fanny is a cheeky word for a vagina & a bum is a cheeky word for a bottom. It's just one of our cultural differences that make me smile. I found Americans to be so polite & careful on my visits to the US, but "fanny pack" had me smiling every time. Yours btw looks very snappy & fashionable, mine looks more like this, but is a Tatonka one. I usually have a small drink bottle in one side & gloves or a hat in the other, but 2 water bottles would be a better balance.
I love that you now have a walking buddy. That is killing 2 birds with one stone :)
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Early morning walks are the best walks! When the day is so fresh, and the sky clear and beautiful. :)

Cheers for Nathan being along with you - I hope you both manage the two and a half miles.
 
Hey Davis, I assume Nathan is your son. Glad you were able to take him on a walk, I suspect your commitment to exercise will go better with a walking buddy. You say he is also overweight, are you going to try and get him to join you on you diet and trips to the gym? Any chance you could coordinate with his dad on things? Having once been an overweight 11 year old boy I wish someone had helped me manage my eating better back then, hope you can do that for him
As a heavier man (I like that better than being a fat man) I can relate more than you know. There are way too many things I have held back on doing in life because of feelings of self consciousness, don't let this be one for you.
Yes! I want to do whatever I can to help him. He is not into sports, so I’ve been trying to slowly increase his activity levels. He goes to the gym with me often, but hangs out in the pool area while I work out. He’s not allowed in the actual gym until 7th grade unfortunately, but he is interested in improving his fitness. Today he mentioned he’d like to improve the strength in his arms. Mama is shopping for some dumbbells. <wink>

His Dad also recently started a diet so he is making progress in both homes. We actually go to his Dads house out in the country, park the car at his place and set off from there. So he can walk with me even when he is at his Dads, because his father is on board with the plan.

We headed out today early with our 2.5 mile goal. And we made it! We got about a mile out and everyone was tired and he wanted to go back, but I was able to talk him through it, and man it felt great! When we got back we checked the step counter and it said 3.2 miles which is incorrect, we actually went 2.4 or 2.5 miles, so technology fail. We have a pact to do the same tomorrow. He was exhausted but excited. He is onboard to do this every day. Starting out early was a win, it was 5 degrees cooler.

We love our pool visits to the Y, unfortunately it’s closed for 2 more weeks. So yesterday afternoon we went to the outdoor city pool and got in a relaxing water fix. It really helps your muscles recover so much. So this afternoon after lunch we’ll visit again.

Yesterday I had my one snack. So, all the goals were met and that feels good. I can get on top of these cravings and still enjoy a bit of daily guilty pleasure. MyFitnessPal said I would be 208 in 5 weeks when I closed the day. I’m 220 now—that would be a dream, seriously.

I weighed myself today. Still 220. I’m grateful at least that it didn’t take back the pound. :rotflmao:You know how it does that sometimes?

7%!
 
I think it's great that you & your ex are working together to improve your son's health outcomes. Well done on meeting all your goals yesterday xo
 
Great, about the walk achievement!

Yes, I know about the now-you-see-it-now-you-don't weight loss. :mad: But 208 in five weeks... that sounds like a very achievable dream! Cheering you on!
 
Hey Davis, that is great news, working with your son and cooperating with the Ex, it should help all of you.
MyFitnessPal said I would be 208 in 5 weeks when I closed the day. I’m 220 now—that would be a dream, seriously.
Why not, its possible and a good goal. Even if you don't make it you'll be better off trying than not.
I confess you are a bit of my dieting hero. Your restraint is inspiring to me. I’ve been on the cusp of indulging on that second snack and thinking, WWRD?
Hard to think of myself as a dieting hero, I may have had a few good weeks, but it comes after years of failure. I admire your tenacity and planning. We are in this together, I guess we are all each other's heroes.
 
Hey Davis, that is great news, working with your son and cooperating with the Ex, it should help all of you.
Why not, its possible and a good goal. Even if you don't make it you'll be better off trying than not.
Hard to think of myself as a dieting hero, I may have had a few good weeks, but it comes after years of failure. I admire your tenacity and planning. We are in this together, I guess we are all each other's heroes.
Yay!!!! The am actually feeling like a bit of a hero today.

Hero here walked 2.5 miles yesterday morning, then went to the gym yesterday and between cardio and weights, banged out another hour. And — one snack! Just enjoying my morning coffee now before heading out on another walk. Stepped onto the scale and BAM! The voodoo pound is back. 221. 6%. Can a girl catch a break? :smilielol5:

Anyway, feeling amazing and strong, psyched to take pics tomorrow whatever the damn scale says. It’s my 30 day mark!

So I got that Michelle McDaniel Obese Intermediate Fat Burning program. Can’t wait to start her free weights training plans. Have to do a lot of free weights room research before confidently going in there. It’s gonna be a couple weeks. But one thing she’s strict about (she’s strict about everything ok haha!) but I messed up with starting pics and measurements. My problem midsection is almost entirely obscured by that bulky dark colored top. Tomorrow’s photo will feature shorts and a sports bra (the ugliest one I’ve ever seen! - long story). And I’ll run new measurements too. Something has to tell my weight loss progress because I don’t think 6 lbs is a fair representation of all I’ve accomplished this month. It would have been nice to really compare pics and measurements at day 1 and day 30, but I didn’t do them properly.

Hey Rob, remember the girly man muscle convo? I’ve changed my goals a bit courtesy of Miss McDaniels, here she is:
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Wishing everyone a beautiful day!
 
Ps Here’s the nitty gritty on my day yesterday.

Breakfast (not shown) was 3 tbsp of half and half for 52 calories.

Lunch:

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Dinner:

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Snack:
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Exercise
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Summaries:
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In retrospect, it looks like I did bump up that snack a bit yesterday, but anyways no eating outside of the set macros. Net carbs at 30 are a little high for keto, but it’s all broccoli so fuck it.
 
Ok we banged out the walk. I’d been worried I might be overdoing it with Nathan. I half expected to pull up and have his Dad explain he was going to skip the walk today. But no! Then coming up on the halfway mark, he asked to cut it short and turn it into 2 miles instead of 2.5. But when we got to new half way point and it was time to turn around, I said “are you sure” and pointed out the original turning point just up ahead, and he had a burst of energy and ran for a bit. So we did the whole 2.5 miles. He’s another new hero. :)

We’re headed to the pool for a soak. I think we’re both pretty beat. :rotflmao:
 
Hey Davis, it sounds like you'll be the one having trouble keeping up with Nathan, doing this together will be a good thing for you both.

At your calorie level and your exercising you are losing fat, no doubt, it may just take a little time to show up in weight loss. I think you have the right attitude about it.

I looked over you food and had a few thoughts:

  • 8 ounces is a lot of ground beef, and if you didn't cook and drain off a lot of the fat it is a lot of calories. I am always careful to find the leanest ground beef and then cook it down and drain any hint of fat before eating. I probably over cook it, but it still tastes good to me. I also don't eat more than 4 ounces in a serving.
  • You snack sounds great, I'd love a bite right now. But I am sure you know that's a lot of calories. A suggestion Cate made to me was to get jerky and eat it when I needed a snack. I did try it and it worked well until the grandkids discovered my jerky stash, I've ordered more. A little jerky goes a long ways, it does not have a whole lot of calories, and it should fit well with your low carb diet.
  • Lastly any diet rule that limits your broccoli intake should probably be ignored, just my opinion.
You are doing well, and probably don't need my advice, so you are welcome to ignore as much of it as you like.

Hang in there girl, its nice to have you here.
 
Hey Davis,

I’ve just caught up on your diary. That photo of the country track is making me jealous! My dog is extremely reactive towards other dogs (she has some pretty severe special needs) so I’ve got to be very careful where I take her; we plan every outing and every walk VERY carefully and have military style escape plans should we run into any other dog (within 100m is “running into” so I’d love somewhere quiet and open like that to take here where she can be free. We’ve got our spots but I have to keep her on a long line (a 30m lead) just in case another dog turns up. She has fantastic recall until she’s gets over threshold by another dog (she’s been attacked a few times and god knows what happened to her before I adopted her).

Anyway just wanted to let you know how jealous I am (and talk about my little girl).
 
Good morning everyone, back with pics after the gym, today is my 30 day point and my scale finally gave me a win! 219! Yup! That’s 8%!!!
Good for you! I am sure this is still just the beginning for you.
 
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