So short and sweet i am in love with a girl, she used to me head over heels for me when she saw me st school and love me but now she dosnt. She lead me on and now barely talks to me. Im so sad and nothing helps. And suggestions?
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She's a douche bag for leading you on. You're better off without her.
Lesson learned: don't fall for women who do mind fooks on you.
Moral of the story: You were in lust
You can't fall in love with somebody you don't spend copious quantities of time with because you're only falling in love with what you think that other person is, not what they really are. She showed you her true colors.
Focus on a person worthy of what you have to offer.
Lesson learned: don't fall for women who do mind fooks on you.
Moral of the story: You were in lust
You can't fall in love with somebody you don't spend copious quantities of time with because you're only falling in love with what you think that other person is, not what they really are. She showed you her true colors.Focus on a person worthy of what you have to offer.
thanks guys that does help
I agree with what ILM said,but i`d stalk her for a little while,you know make her a little nervous, maybe phone her at odd times of the day and spread a couple of rumours around(nothing too nasty).
I guarantee in a couple of days you`ll feel alot better and you can move on to the next victim er i mean relationship:biggrinsanta:
I guarantee in a couple of days you`ll feel alot better and you can move on to the next victim er i mean relationship:biggrinsanta:
Moral of the story: You were in lust
QFT. :sport:
He's got a good point...I like where his head's at on this call.
Dude...let me assure you of something. Long ago I'd hunt deals on used stuff...maybe it was a boat, car, radial arm saw...whatever. Every now and then I'd find some deal and (before the time of digital pics & email) I'd run out there to see it and find that someone beat me to it. Time and again I'd thought I'd lost-out on a killer deal and I wouldn't find better....but guess what: I'd find an even better deal!! The thing is, you don't see that better deal because it's not on your visual horizon just YET.
You know what you say? You say THANK YOU.....thank you psycho-b!tch for showing me who you are NOW rather then wasting my time for years.
The thing that often hurts the most is the feeling of rejection...and that's because it feeds a little voice in our heads that we all have; it's the voice of insecurity...you either have it OR your in denial that you don't. Doesn't mean your weak or immature, it just means your human. Rejection hurts because it's someone telling you that you're not good enough in some manner.
So let me tell you what happened. This girl wanted you because she didn't have you....but, from the sound of it (she was head over heels for me), once she "had" you she felt validated, took you for granted...and moved on. Lots of people are like that. I've seen many "hot" girls/guys pursue another hottie for the sake of trophy/accomplishment...once they hook-up, exchange bodily fliuds and feel they've conquered...it's on to the next victim, I mean challenge.
Don't let HER issues become yours, be thankful she revealed her true colors today AND let this serve to give you a better idea of what kind of qualities you are looking for in a relationship. From what I gather, you now have something more to appreciate in a good girlfriend given that you've experienced the proverbial grass on the other side of the fence. You've gained perspective, say thank-you and move along....there are better woman out there for ya and you'll appreciate them all the more!
Ya see what I did? Now get out there and score yourself some fresh 'tang :action11:
Learn a trick from American Pie; get a female friend to spread a rumour that you're set to inherit a **** load of money and that you're hung like a horse (it does work).
Watch and wait for this girl you like to change her opinion of you overnight and start making a move on you again. Then you'll have the satisfaction of sending her packing and making her feel like crap
Revenge may not be big or clever but it is satisfying
Watch and wait for this girl you like to change her opinion of you overnight and start making a move on you again. Then you'll have the satisfaction of sending her packing and making her feel like crap
Revenge may not be big or clever but it is satisfying
Learn a trick from American Pie; get a female friend to spread a rumour that you're set to inherit a **** load of money and that you're hung like a horse (it does work).
Watch and wait for this girl you like to change her opinion of you overnight and start making a move on you again. Then you'll have the satisfaction of sending her packing and making her feel like crap
Revenge may not be big or clever but it is satisfying
I think I agree with you, Typhon. Let's do the math here:
one mind fook + one mind fook = infinite satisfaction.
Yep. It works out pretty sweet
Wait. Did she lead him on or is it one of those teenage things on her part where Girl likes Boy one day and then the next day decides she likes another guy?
I see it happen on a daily occurance. Sometimes you start going out with someone, think you really like them, and then start to realize that you don't like them like you initially did. You then break up. I think it's kinda' that simple.
I see it happen on a daily occurance. Sometimes you start going out with someone, think you really like them, and then start to realize that you don't like them like you initially did. You then break up. I think it's kinda' that simple.
Maybe the older members are showing their heads but why call us cynical? And, what do you mean by "older"?
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–adjective 1. like or characteristic of a cynic; distrusting or disparaging the motives of others.
2. showing contempt for accepted standards of honesty or morality by one's actions, esp. by actions that exploit the scruples of others.
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–adjective 1. like or characteristic of a cynic; distrusting or disparaging the motives of others.
2. showing contempt for accepted standards of honesty or morality by one's actions, esp. by actions that exploit the scruples of others.
3. bitterly or sneeringly distrustful, contemptuous, or pessimistic.
You should have pulled out the whip....:violent: LOL
Girls who are so easily swayed aren't worth the effort....
and as ILM said, real love comes with real understanding of each other and that doesn't happen over night.....
You should have pulled out the whip....:violent: LOL
Girls who are so easily swayed aren't worth the effort....
and as ILM said, real love comes with real understanding of each other and that doesn't happen over night.....
or even in a years time :sad2:
I'm thinking you should know long before a year whether you are compatible and in love, firefreak
If the person you're with right now doesn't enhance your life and make you feel good most of the time, you're with the wrong person.
IMHO, if 80% of the equation isn't there right from the get go, it's not worth struggling to make the relationship work. Eventually, it'll suck you dry. Don't underestimate the power of raw chemistry, either. It's amazing what two people can work through when they've got that going on ...
You should have pulled out the whip....:violent: LOL
Girls who are so easily swayed aren't worth the effort....
and as ILM said, real love comes with real understanding of each other and that doesn't happen over night.....
So when you told me you loved me the other night, you didn't mean it?