I think BPs are always the toughest to make gains on ... you're not using the most powerful muscles on your bod. Are your triceps giving out, or is it your delts or pecs? Once you figure that out, you can remedy the problem.
Deadlights and squats are using huge muscle groups, so it's easier to make good progress on those.
Just my opinion, though
Thank you, that is really helpful
I had not thought about it like that before.
I think that my support muscles are giving out, I have been advised to do dumbbell press (however I love benching and I am seeing how far I can get before I have to switch). Also, as I workout at home I get my gf to spot me (I only get her to help with when I fail, I don't try push out another. She is getting really good at it!). She told me yesterday in second set my left hand was wider than my right, stupid mistake. Infact now I think about it, I am not happy with my form at this weight, perhaps I should drop it back? My form was a bit wobbly.
Also the reason I think it is my support muscles giving out is because my personal trainer said he thought it may be, and my Pecs and delts are not getting burnt enough.
I would like to note here my personal trainer is an old work colleague who was studying, and has now left to work full time. I have paid him $30 so far for **** loads of training, support and advice. He has only been over once.
Interestingly, I was benching with a closer grip for ages, it was not until my personal trainer came around that he suggested I widen grip (and that’s when I felt it more in my pecs, previous to this I was working tri's more).
When he came around, I did one set of 12, then one set of 10, with this same weight, since then I have not been able to reach the same (or sometimes near it, like 12/7, or 10/8).
I will post some new photo’s, I keep finding new muscle groups.
Short story is I think my grip, form and support muscles are all having a play in this.
I was thinking about doing push-ups to strengthen the support muscles, not sure how effective it will be.
diet is driving me crazy, I have no idea when to take my supplements, (but I am not up to reading the pre and post workout info Chillin posted).
I am really confused and overwhelmed by it all, but once I figure it out, it will be better. One thing is for sure, it is making me eat better! I spend a lot of time reading, re-reading and filling the information Chillin posted.