Looking at your other thread, you're full of excuses.
You came here and asked people to give you an eating plan, which should be around 1800 calories, requires no cooking or any other effort, tastes good, and that you can stick to for the rest of your life. You didn't want information, you wanted to be spoon-fed exactly what to do.
People answered, and nearly every single suggestion that was being made, you had an excuse for.
You can't eat healthy because you have nowhere to cook. You can't get any cooking equipment because you don't want your room mates to know that you're cooking. You can't cook food because you don't want it to smell. You can't eat salad and veggies because they might not have 'all you need'. You can't eat tuna because of mercury. You don't want anything that needs to be cooked or otherwise prepared, or that requires any effort from you whatsoever. You also don't want to do any of your own research, or get better informed.
Then you make this thread, asking about motivation, but in your first two posts already basically saying that you can't really do it anyway.
People go ahead and make suggestions. And what do you do? You shoot them down: 'that won't work anyway', 'I prefer to try things that actually work'. So, you don't know what to do, but you know what doesn't work?
All of that is accompanied by your general negative and borderline rude attitude, which, once again, showed in your last post. You accuse me of enjoying a feeling of 'moral superiority' by telling you not to make excuses. Apart from the fact that it's totally besides the point, it is also rude. And you did notice that I am not the only one who noticed your behaviour, even called you up on it?
And I am not trying to paint you as anything. You are doing it yourself. You lost 14 pounds? Great, well done. Honestly, you've done well and made a good start. Keep doing it - do your research, there is a massive amount of information on this board alone, and tons more on the internet. But you will not find anybody who spoon-feeds you the information you want, at least not on this board, so you will have to find it yourself.
And lose the attitude. People around here are trying to help. You ask them something, and they are trying to their best abilities to help. If you don't like what they suggest then that's unfortunate, but no reason to get passive-aggressive. They are not suggesting stuff to piss you off, you know? They are taking time out of their day to sit down and read your questions, and come up with answers. Even if those answers aren't what you expected, or what you wanted, it's still nice of them to bother at all, and they don't deserve to have that thrown back into their faces.
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