txsqlchick
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OK, trying to bring this thread back to reality...
My brother and I both lift weights, but we have very different fitness goals.
His goal is to "bulk up" and get "bigger". He doesn't want big muscles, but he wants his muscles to be bigger. He is tall and pretty lean naturally.
My goal is to preserve or increase lean muscle mass and create "definition" but not "bulk" and also to be stronger overall.
He goes to the gym and lifts weights; I don't know the specifics of his routine and diet but so far, it is not working for him. We do not live or work close to each other so we don't go to the gym together.
I go to the gym and use both free weights and machines, focusing on one or two specific areas at a time (one day I focus on chest & shoulders, another day I focus on arms & back, another day I focus on legs & butt, etc). Once a week I take a 50-minute "lift" class where we do a lot of reps but we cycle through them, lifting the weight for 3 counts and lowering it in 1, then lifting it for 2 counts and lowering it in 2, then lifting it in 1 count and lowering it for 3, etc. I find this class very challenging but I can usually keep up in reps, though I have to use lighter weights than I normally use at the gym if I'm lifting by myself. The class works arms, shoulders, chest, back, thighs, butt, etc. I couldn't name each lift that we do, I don't know the names for them. I'm also usually sore for 2-3 days after I do this class.
Basically my questions are this...is my routine going to help me achieve my goals, and if not, what can I do differently? Also, what advice can I give my brother? He sees my success with weight loss and assumes that I know more about fitness than I actually do; I don't want to give him advice myself because I honestly don't know the answers to his questions.
Thanks.
My brother and I both lift weights, but we have very different fitness goals.
His goal is to "bulk up" and get "bigger". He doesn't want big muscles, but he wants his muscles to be bigger. He is tall and pretty lean naturally.
My goal is to preserve or increase lean muscle mass and create "definition" but not "bulk" and also to be stronger overall.
He goes to the gym and lifts weights; I don't know the specifics of his routine and diet but so far, it is not working for him. We do not live or work close to each other so we don't go to the gym together.
I go to the gym and use both free weights and machines, focusing on one or two specific areas at a time (one day I focus on chest & shoulders, another day I focus on arms & back, another day I focus on legs & butt, etc). Once a week I take a 50-minute "lift" class where we do a lot of reps but we cycle through them, lifting the weight for 3 counts and lowering it in 1, then lifting it for 2 counts and lowering it in 2, then lifting it in 1 count and lowering it for 3, etc. I find this class very challenging but I can usually keep up in reps, though I have to use lighter weights than I normally use at the gym if I'm lifting by myself. The class works arms, shoulders, chest, back, thighs, butt, etc. I couldn't name each lift that we do, I don't know the names for them. I'm also usually sore for 2-3 days after I do this class.
Basically my questions are this...is my routine going to help me achieve my goals, and if not, what can I do differently? Also, what advice can I give my brother? He sees my success with weight loss and assumes that I know more about fitness than I actually do; I don't want to give him advice myself because I honestly don't know the answers to his questions.
Thanks.