I am looking hard for motivation, but I am struggling now!
I think that the belief that all your weight loss dreams are achievable can be quite motivating... It can be very easy to fall into the trap of thinking along the lines that it is too hard or wouldn't work for you...
You mention being 4.5 stone over your aspiration - but haven't mentioned much about yourself... How long you have been overweight, why you want to be thinner, how overweight you actually are...
Some people aspire to be simply overweight after years of being very morbidly obese...
Some people aspire to being "fashion model thin"...
For some people - they look to improve their figure, look good on the beach, feel good about themselves... I suspect that their motivation comes from fashion magazines... I have always thought that slimming clubs had a good track record for people with one or two stones to lose. I never had much faith in their ability with larger amounts...
Some people simply want things like back pain to ease and hope that some weight loss will help.
All are achievable...
My husband and I were shocked into motivation... He had a major health incident in February which has affected his eyesight and has stopped him from being allowed to drive. We were scared into taking action - as to what the outcome of the next incident would be... He has lost 6 stone since then and I have lost 3 stone... All through lockdown when we were only allowed to leave the house once a day - we were getting up at 6am and going out for walks... He was walking as far as he could and then I was popping in to reset the toilet clock and continuing my walk to walk as far as I could. We were avoiding shops as we are sole carers for my mother who is nearly 98... We only got healthy food delivered - so that is what we ate...
That's where mine currently comes from...