Hey man, here is my approach to bench pressing atm from body and mind aspect.
First, I tried out a weight that I KNEW I can do about 4 weeks ago at 295 and repped it 2-3 times. It did not feel that heavy, that was the start of my mass gain program. That was like on a monday. Did the usual M, Tu, Th, F workout routine. So on Friday, I'd figure to focus on my chest and felt decent enough to try 315. I focused my mind, visualized and told myself that I have been training HARD since september and there is NO reason why my bench press should have remained the same; especially with all the size that I amassed on my arms and chest and shoulder. My arms were shaking and I held the bar for about 2-3 seconds until I did my usual deep breathe + small grunt and then went down 3/4 of way and press back up. The weight felt decent and I tried again but cannot do 2 reps but did get an assist for it. The 315 lbs barrier was broken.
From the mental aspect, once I broke 315 and I KNEW I spent a crap ton of energy doing that first rep that IF I did it again fully rested, I can do 2 reps. After the weekend's (2 days rest) I benched 315 twice on Monday without much help. Additionally, to get my mind / energy level right, I started drinking coffee again before my workout. I don't think I was using any stimulate for the past 2-3 weeks prior to maxxing out again. That extra juice helped a lot, mentally at least. After the 315 wall broke, nowadays that weight does not seemed as heavy as before or imtimidating man.
Oh, I have been doing military press focus on my other days and THAT helped out a lot. So my workout have looked like this with the First listing as the primary focus (would spend most mental and energy on that bodypart) and the second was done kinda going through the motion (don't get me wrong, it's still intense but not pushing any limits there):
Here is the past 4 weeks roughly:
M: Chest / tricep
Tu: Leg
W: rest
Th: shoulder / traps / (maybe back)
F: Bicep / back or tricep or both.
Next week:
M: shoulder / trap / back
Tu: leg
w: rest
Th : chest / tricep
F: Bicep / back / maybe some shoulder
Then, I would just flip / flop between the two weeks. I saw your progress picture man; honestly, you are lean; very lean. In order to press more, I think you will have to go on bulking diet which is really hard for you since you are wrestling and soo active. After 4 weeks and going on 5 weeks, I feel weird to be honest with you. The extra 5-8 lbs makes me feel bulky and I am ready to trim down for next two weeks. Maybe you need to eat a lot to add some more muscle in order to press more but then you will lose that nice lean-look that you have. I hope this help you out man. Whenever you do decide to go on bulking diet, just keep on adding the weight each week; be it 2.5 lbs or 5 lbs or what-not and push that limit. If you have to progress slowly by doing extra rep each week for every set; once that is done, add more weight.
What I do like is wearing loose clothes and lifting heavy to screw with all the meat-head in gym.
yes, I am evil.