Very well actually! He waited another 4 days until he called to try and organise something else though
Men and calling
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Very well actually! He waited another 4 days until he called to try and organise something else though
He waited 4 days before calling you in the first place just to let you know how unimpressed he was with you and it worked. Then he waits another 4 days just to let you know how unimportant you are to him.
Let him get away with this and he'll never treat you any different
Sorry to everyone who thought I have no sensitive side but men who wait that long show a lack of respect and deserve their life of unfulfilling short term relationships
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The only bit of advice they need - Grow a pair!
Calling someone the next day is sensible, at least they're still gonna remember what you look like
Games are played by both sides because they think they are supposed to. Truth is, they'd have a lot less stress and relationship experience if they just said what they have to say.
One thread on another forum was this same thing asked by a guy though. Thing was the guy was about 40 years old. Hes too damn old to be playing this kid ****.
One thread on another forum was this same thing asked by a guy though. Thing was the guy was about 40 years old. Hes too damn old to be playing this kid ****.
If I'm straightforward they just assume I'm playing some sort of "straight-forward game." I can't win!
lol then they are **** tards...games are anything but being straightforward.
I know. A couple years ago after a break up from a long term relationship a guy I've been friends with for a few years asked me out. I was kind of caught off-guard, but I told him (nicely) that I wasn't interested in that manner, and didn't want to lead him to think so by saying yes to a date with him. (because we go places together often, it was kinda weird) Anyway he wanted to know what 'game' I was trying to play. I didn't get it, I thought telling him I wasn't interested was the best route because even though it sucks to get turned down, it sucks worse to get involved and then get burned because someone lied to you. Luckily we have our friendship back now.
I will normally just call when i get a chance. I tend to not really think about it that much so i just call when it pops into my head. I have called the next day and called a week later. Ladies normally associate a longer period with less interest, but sometimes i just get busy. Even if someone waited two weeks I'm not sure what the big deal is. By giving out a phone number you are only saying that you enjoyed whatever time was spent together and would possibly like to do it again. I'll give my number out if someone seems cool enough to hang out with again. If you call...that's cool. If you don't....meh...oh well. I personally don't care when/if you call. Life is too short. Dating is all about sales anyway. How well can you sell your product (you). A sale is a sale....whether it is tomorrow or next month.