Well, you think like most men. You like your women soft and squishy.
I'm the type of female that doesn't like to look soft and squishy because it revolts me. I like the fact I can climb a rope, chop wood, and do gymnastics and acrobatics because I like having a strong body. My BF loves the fact that when I flex, he sees muscularity. It turns him on.
Needless to say, it doesn't turn most men on, but I could care less. I've lived long enough to realize what men think is irrelevant. I don't define my self worth through the male gender. I define my self worth by what I can do. If a guy happens to like that, then that's great. If he doesn't, no skin off my teeth.
I have nothing against a girl who is well toned or even has a little definition from lifting but that woman is just wayyyy to far on the masculine side for me. it shows she has sense enough to keep herself in good condition and probably makes for some good fun in the bedroom (think strong abs).. i also have nothing against a little squish. boney is def not my thing though. please don't take offense to my statement about the body builder, everyone has their own tastes.
and for the record jess biel is not a soft body...