I have accepted.............................

jelly belly88

jelly belly88

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I saw this thread on 3fatchicks.com and I think it would be neat to do with everyone here:D

I have Accepted..........................

The fact that I have big calves

I need to learn to love myself in order to love others

I can't always dwell on the past

If I want something done I need to do it myself

Not everyone is out to get me

I will never have a super models body type

It really does matter what's on the inside

My hubby does love me as much as he says he does

I am a role model to my childern
 
That's a good idea. I will think of some and then come back and post them:)
 
I Have Accepted ...


I HAVE ACCEPTED...
- that if I want change, I have to do it myself
- myself, my flaws and everything
- life and the way it works
- that my boyfriend loves me anyway I am
- that I'm not alone, not picked on all the time
- that I can't change my mistakes only learn from them
- how rude people really are (you just have to ignore it)
- not to expect anything, I only get let down.
- that only I can make myself happy/sad

I WONT ACCEPT
- being overweight I will work to be healthy again
- being pushed around I will stand up for myself and my beliefs
- failure I will try again

That totally felt good. Haha.. I had to add the second part - *phew*
 
I have accepted...

That only I am responsible for my own happiness.
That NO ONE is perfect and even though there are judgemental people they too have made mistakes.
That I can't change my past mistakes just move forward they've made me who I am today.
That family will always be there for me, no matter what.
That my kids look up to me.
That I have a warped sense of humour. LOL!
That my husband has/does/always will have respect for me.
That I don't put up with crap!
That sometimes things aren't as they seem.
That sometimes you just need to walk away, and not look back.
That we should always be thankful for what we have, we never know when they will be taken from us.
That life is a gift, embrace it, be kind to others.
 
I have accepted that:

I will probably always be podgy in one form or another.

Some people will hate me for no good reason! - and i dont give a shit!

That my boyfriend means it when he says im pretty.

Losing weight takes effort and time!
 
I Have Accepted:
That Weightloss Is Not Easy And It Takes Time And Dedication!
That I Am The Only One Who Can Change The Way I Look And Feel!
That I Have To Do It For Me And Nobody Else!
That I Love Helping Others And Inspiring Them!
That I Am Going To Be 40 This Year And I Need To Rock This Weight Off And Keep It Off!
 
I have accepted....
that I will never be "skinny"
that I am the only one that can lose weight for me
that hard work is rewarded in many ways
that losing weight is the hardest work I will ever do
that money won't grow on trees no matter how many you plant
that my children and husband love me no matter what
that my house won't clean itself
that I like my little life the way it is and can change anything I am not happy with
that once I get the weight off its stayin' off for good!!!!
 
I have accepted......

that I am a moody person at times
that nothing comes free and if I want a change I have to make that change
that rude people are rude cause of there issues, nothing I did
that you can't make people be who you want them to be
that my hubby is right sometimes
that I will never look llike a model:rolleyes:
that I will be in the itty bitty club for the rest of my life
that my stretch marks are from a beautiful thing and so is the kanga pouch
that my kids look up to me and I have to be the person I want them to look up to
that we really do have it good(own a house, 2 cars, 2 dogs, 2 kids, some small pets, food on the table, clothes on our back, and a warm bed to sleep in)

I won't except......

the judgements I get for being a young mother
the comments and stares that I get when I go out with my husband (heavily tattooed but dropped dead gorgeous!)
people thinking I am lazy and on welfare cause I am young with kids
people thinking I am a kid:mad:
a messy house!
my kids being rude or others being rude to my children
 
I have accepted:
-Pasta is not a diet food
-Neither is pizza
-Sweating means I'm doing it right, even if it feels so gross
-I will always have to watch what I eat - as soon as I let my guard down, the weight will come back!
-I will never be the same size as my sister (unless she magically gains 30lbs)

I will not accept:
-endangering my health by giving in to food weaknesses
-being the same size as my mother
-never ever having pizza or pasta again (Just on rare/special occasions)
 
I have accepted:
- that getting fit takes more than 2 months of work.
- that the "beach bodies" you see on TV takes *years* of work.
- even if I had no fat and a perfect body, I'd still be the same person.
- that I am getting in shape for me -- not just my wife.
- that some people were made to be thin, and I'm not one of them.
- that I'm turning grey at 25.
- that Taco Bell is bad for me...really bad.

I will NOT accept:
- having a gut for the rest of my life.
- having "man boobs" for the rest of my life.
- falling back into my terrible eating habits
 

You guys are awesome - it's nice to write that out hey? I like to check back on this page when I'm feeling like cheating because it's such a great motivation to read mine and others oover again.
 

I have accepted:
- that it's OK to be hungry
- that when exercise gets tough I have to keep going
- that fast food is NOT healthy
- that I'm not allowed to keep eating til I'm stuffed
- that trying my best is the greatest feeling
 
These are fantastic!!!!

I have accepted:
- that I don't have to be perfect to please my parents
- that you can't lose weight through a diet, only a lifestyle change
- that i really do feel better after I run/job... even though i hate to start
- that losing weight doesn't automatically mean beauty (stretch marks remain but they are testimonies to what I have accomplished)
- that a lifestyle change takes a community of support, you can't do it yourself
- that three big meals a day just won't cut it
- that now i get to snack more often! (but wisely!)
- that alcohol, while fun, is the worst enemy of fitness
- that not everyone at the gym is beautiful and fit... i can fit in there too.
- that my fiancee means it when he says i'm beautiful
 
Beagle said:
I have accepted:

-Sweating means I'm doing it right, even if it feels so gross
-I will always have to watch what I eat - as soon as I let my guard down, the weight will come back!
-I will never be the same size as my sister (unless she magically gains 30lbs)
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Love all these...but these three...yeah!!!

Esp the sister one!! LOL
 
I have accepted:

- I am built like a short tank, and no matter how much weight I loose, I will be built like a slightly thinner tank.
- sexy is all about attitude, not how you look
- I cant do everything myself, I am not an island.. i need others.
- I will never be tall, skinny with big breasts and a great tan :(

I will not accept:

- that food dictates how I feel.
- that I can't enjoy the food I eat while loosing weight.
- that I'm not attractive just because I am fat.
- that I will never be called hot or sexy.
 
This sounds like a great exercise and is a good reality check. We can't all be Kate Moss (I couldn't take the party lifestyle anyway:D ) and this just reminds us to be more accepting of ourselves.

I have accepted that:

- I cannot have 'a little' of certain foods, and it is best to stay clear
- I am a pear, and no amount of weight loss will change that
- My figure is not that bad, my husband likes curves (as do a lot of men!!)
- This is not meant to be easy, it takes hard work and sacrifice
- The real sacrifice is my happiness, rather than not being able to have that tub of Haagen Daaz!
- Other people do not think about my weight and appearance as often as I do!:rolleyes:

I will not accept that:

- Because I have failed before, I will automatically fail this time
- Because nearly every member of my family is overweight, I am destined to be overweight
- When I have children, the legacy I have to pass on to them is an unhealthy relationship with food, poor self esteem and a weight problem
 
I have Accept..........................

that there are stupid and ignorant people in the world
that it's time for me to start a healthy diet
that my family loves me and is supportive of me


I won't Except......

another clueless republican for president (lol!)
 
ROFL Mal!!! :D
 
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