Christine,
I know exactly where you are coming from on your post, and it's in my opinion that most of these other posters have no idea what they are talking about.
I am with you though! I can help or give some advice. I need to know though if you have been professionally measured to know your current BF% or if you are relying on a measuring device that you use yourself. To get the look you are describing you are going to need to cut fat, however to be sure, I need to know what we are working with, I need to know your lean body mass from a professional measurement.
I know exactly where you are coming from on your post, and it's in my opinion that most of these other posters have no idea what they are talking about.
I am with you though! I can help or give some advice. I need to know though if you have been professionally measured to know your current BF% or if you are relying on a measuring device that you use yourself. To get the look you are describing you are going to need to cut fat, however to be sure, I need to know what we are working with, I need to know your lean body mass from a professional measurement.