Dude,
I don't know if summer123 made you even more confused or what? I thought I knew what metabolism was and how it affected weight loss, but that has just confused me totally.
Example:"The more you weigh, the more your body requires to keep it alive, you could see this as a higher metabolsim"... actually its the exact opposite as I understand it. the more you weigh the slower your metabolism is, because your body is not burning the fuel it is being fed or already has??? Or is it just me?
I think it's just you.
Let me see if I can help clarify a bit.
Metabolism can be thought of as the total calories you need in a given day. In reality it's the net of all the catabolic and anabolic processes that are occurring in the body, but that's muddying the waters.
The total calories you need in a given day can be considered your maintenance level, where calories in = calories out.
There are various processes at play that comprise your maintenance (metabolism). This include basal metabolic rate (BMR), the thermic effect of activity (TEA) and the thermic effect of feeding (TEF). Depending on what literature you're looking at, you might also see non-exercise activity thermogenesis or spontaneous physical activity. But again, let's not muddy the waters.
So...
Metabolism = Maintenance = Total caloric requirements of the body on a given day or the total energy expended by the body (TEE) on a given day.
TEE = BMR + TEA + TEF
BMR, by far, is the largest component of TEE... even for those folks who are elite athletes who have very high TEA from all the practice and competition they partake in. BMR is the calories expended maintaining the basal functions of your body such as tissue maintenance, respiration, etc.
And yes, the larger you are, the higher your BMR will be as there are more tissues and larger bodies to support. Given that BMR is the largest component of TEE, it can be said that metabolism is higher for the obese.
TEF is also higher, as this is the energy expended breaking down and utilizing foods eaten. Since obese folks, by definition, eat more food, they have a higher TEF generally speaking.
TEA is the wild card. Yes, logically it would appear that obese folks are generally more sedentary so they'd expend less energy. But on the flip side, they also have to expend a lot more energy just to move their greater masses around. It probably nets out to be a slightly lower TEA but again, what matters is that the total energy expended and therefore metabolism (BMR + TEA + TEF) is higher the larger you get.
I'm sorry summer123, but what you've written just seems the exact opposite of the what is mostly been documented all over the world.
What are you referring to, specifically?
Example: "you cut calories to match with the new body weight"...my experience and everything I've read tells me that you stick to how much an individual man/woman should take in calories a day. I cant remember exactly but i think its something like 1200 calories a day for men and 1000 for women, i'm not sure again, but something like that.
No, that's completely wrong. There are no standard calorie intakes that any man or any woman should take, regardless of weight, activity, etc. Caloric requirements are predicated primarily by body weight, than body composition, than activity levels.
A skinny person with a super active career, physically speaking, will have a much higher caloric need than a skinny person who works at a desk all day and loves playing video games.
Or consider a two people. Person A is skinny. Person B is obese. They both lead exactly similar lifestyles. Person B will require much more calories given the larger size.