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Thanks :D.

It would be nice though to get this weight off by the time I turn 18 next year. Whole new me!

Woohoo...I'm excited. I'm losing weight kind of easily right now...I think it's just all the winter blubber that built up. I know I'm going to hav to try much harder to get most of the rest off...but eh. Oh well.
 
Losing that weight in about a year's time is extremely attainable! You'll be lookin' extra fab for your 18th!
 
dangit!!!

So I have been like super depressed cause this idiot tried to scam me and this other really personal situation... and 2 nights ago.. I just went off. >.<

Deep fried cheese sticks.. deep fried wings.. deep fried onion rings.. and french fries... and several shots of tequlla and a kaluha and milk >.<

I gained like a whole 4 lbs!!! *cries*

The worst thing now is my meals are totally under control.. I have under 400 cal for breakfast... around 300-500 cal for lunch.. and around 300-400 cal for dinner... but I am getting these major cravings and depression and I just.. binge.. most awefully. :( And I dont feel like exercising...

*is not happy* kinda ruins my birthday goal...
 
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girl...calm down..... maybe try a detox...like the rice diet detox day for a couple days....

I'm an emotional eater.... BAD.....
 
I generally deal with stress well... but... I am scared I am pregnant. Now you can say.. what about a condom.. birthpill... etc etc etc. I wasen't on birth pills because I wasen't active. I didn't have a condom for the same reason.. and I said no. And ment no. And he didn't listen.. so we fought but he won.

It was during my last period..

and my period is suppost to be due tomorrow..

and I am bloody hoping it comes... I am so scared right now.. and so depressed... so I am eating and not exercising.. bad me :(

:(
 
breathe

Take a deep breath and try to be calm, Avi2kat. Here are some things to think about...

First, most women ovulate somewhere between day 10 and day 18 of their menstrual cycle. You begin counting day one as the first day of your period. So, unless your periods are more than a week and a half long, you were most likely not within your ovulatory period. You know when you started your last period, and when the incident occurred, so you can do the math.

Second, you can take a home pregnancy test tomorrow morning and find out for sure. Buy a two pack, and then you can even double check. Having tried for a LONG time to get pregnant, I took so many pregnancy tests I lost count. That "second opinion" is always a good thing to have, regardless of the outcome you are hoping for.

Finally, whether you are or are not pregnant, worrying is not going to change it one bit. From how you described things, you probably are not, but please be on the safe side next time. There are more dangerous things to protect yourself from than an unplanned pregnancy.

My prayers are with you.
 
Totally.

Feeling better this morning even though no . yet.

Breakfast

Cream of wheat - 200 cal
apple sause - 50 cal

:) *is going to behave now* :) Thanks so much all!
 
avi, i'm so sorry to hear that you are dealing with a lot of stress. i eat and eat and eat too, when i get really stressed out. i hate that i do that, but it just happens. i know your birthday goal is really important to you, but you need to focus more on relaxing and becoming a bit more stress free, first. that will make you feel a lot better. i hope everything works out for ya girlie, and you can always PM me if you need to vent/talk.:)
 
YAY! got my .!

Ok.. so everything is better now :) and I am moving out of my parents house next weekend.. and starting my new job Wednesday so life is getting alot less stressful very soon!

I figure I am not going to weigh myself till next Saturday,... gives me some time to work off what I put on... and apply myself to healthier eating :)

Thanks for your support all!! Sorry for the meltdown.. o.o
 
Glad to hear everything is going better for you Avi! I can imagine your stress level is way down now. Good luck with everything coming up for you! Sounds like a busy, exciting week!
 
no need to apologize sweetie, that's what we are here for! we are here to support one another! i think it's a good idea that you don't weigh yourself until next weekend too! i think i might do the same thing actually. i'm becoming too reliant on the scale, which frustrates me!

glad to hear everything is looking up for ya! :)
 
oh I plan to :)

So much work to do though!

Went to a birthday party... did a hell of alot of playing catch with a football and running around to justify the drinks I had.

I had to weigh myself.. just did.. and even after upping my water intake and the coolers and exercising... I am back down to 175.2 :) Ah.. got to love exercise. :) I been exercising a ton the last 2 days and exercising alot :) There is prob no chance I can get to 170 for my birthday... but thats ok. if I can get to 170 by Canada Day I will reward myself (July 1st) :)
 
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Accsually 169 by Canada Day... I wanna be under 170 for the first time in 6 years.
 
I felt so good yesterday... a young guy drooling over me blattently!
I aint seen him for about a year... and from the second he saw me he like.. stayed by my side the entire evening. Even turned down paintballing with the boys again. He is 17 though, too young.

He told me I looked good :D

Feels sooooo good :D

*dances for joy*
 
i'm so mad at myself, yall. i ate sooo bad this weekend and im pretty sure i gained my 5 or so pounds back. i haven't gotten on the scale cause i'm scared. i'm also on my period so i feel so gross and HUGE! if i don't lose 15 lbs by my birthday, i'm gonna be really really sad. i need some motivation :mad:
 
luxurious-I am in the same boat as you. I haven't stepped on my scale but I fear I gained it all back. :( Boo. I was so bad. We can do it though. Just a minor setback.

(I am also at my TOM too!...Weird!)
 
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