ok i just found an email reply from her, right after we stopped seeing each other and she told me that her old boyfriend (the guy she is marrying) had asked her out and she was going to accept.
my response to her was i had no right to tell her not to see anyone else, but i really wasn't happy she was going out with him. i had heard way too many negatives about him when we were together.
anyways this was her word for word email reply when i told her she shouldnt go out with him:
i am glad to know that u do care and worry about me but i will be fine at least i hope so and ur a great friend to me you have been more of a friend to me than anyone else has, i don't want to mess that up, i mean if there ever was something between me and you i know that you would be the "perfect" one, but thats not what ur looking for and thats fine and i know that you dont want me to go out with **** but i need to see if anything is there.
that was her exact reply.
i am not sure if i left out that we had a phone conversation a couple weeks later when she said he hadnt changed and she had broke it off with him for good. I think this caused him to want what he couldnt have and he proposed. you know the rest of the story.
my response to her was i had no right to tell her not to see anyone else, but i really wasn't happy she was going out with him. i had heard way too many negatives about him when we were together.
anyways this was her word for word email reply when i told her she shouldnt go out with him:
i am glad to know that u do care and worry about me but i will be fine at least i hope so and ur a great friend to me you have been more of a friend to me than anyone else has, i don't want to mess that up, i mean if there ever was something between me and you i know that you would be the "perfect" one, but thats not what ur looking for and thats fine and i know that you dont want me to go out with **** but i need to see if anything is there.
that was her exact reply.
i am not sure if i left out that we had a phone conversation a couple weeks later when she said he hadnt changed and she had broke it off with him for good. I think this caused him to want what he couldnt have and he proposed. you know the rest of the story.