For Kicks

Hello.
Pull up a chair; sit down; relax and welcome to Women’s Sexuality 101 V. -Jove.

Note: When I refer to Women in this passage, it is a generalization of my own experience accompanied by the experience of close women in my life, (friends) and countless others within the gender of my demographic.

I have come to realize that Men still tend to unite Women’s Sexuality with the stigma of behaving one’s self in a licentious manner.
As disconcerting as stigmas are, I assume it’s due to our unrevealed method of approach.
I will not let you in on all of the secrets of our stealth, but in this diminutive lesson you might learn something that might benefit you in the future.
I would like to state that all women are gems, naturally carved and colored by design with flawlessness, so to state one woman’s belief system is not to exhaust them all.
That being understood…
It would be wise to never confuse our inhibited nature with the conclusion that it is a lack of sexual control or that our desire is not as commanding when in comparison with that of the Male gender.
In opposition of standard belief, there are not two categories when ranking the Woman populace.

The Prude and the Whore.


These two stereotypes are actually extreme personas that exist in every Woman.

The role we choose to play is our choice.

Every woman decides the character that suits them for the particular situation or moment dependent on the party involved.

Women nurture by instinct. The genus that is Woman, evaluates all situations, relate and seduce by natural impulse.

The word “seduce” is not limited to sexual reference here.

The truth that I have concluded is that there is no true difference in the physiological make-up between Jenna Jameson…and Hilary Clinton.

Both are Women, both have sexual desires that if truly displayed would shock even the most liberal democrat!

The Women mentioned above have simply used there sexual dominance for achieving the goals that they prefer.
There shouldn’t be any shame or judgment on either party.
Every woman out there has the ability to go “toe to toe” in ambition of sex and ecstasy when it comes to the Male gender.
We are more similar to you than you may suppose.
So next time you see a woman and think to yourself “I’d do her.”
Know that we have probably thought the same about you… "twice".
 
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The dirtiest minds I've ever known were all female. So long as they trust you to keep your mouth shut about it afterwards the things some women want to do would shock some of the young guys on here :)
 
Great, I love this kind of stuff. I took a "Psychology of Women" class and a Human Sexuality class and we started to discuss some of this stuff.

Unfortunately, I think men are probably affected more by these stereotypes at least from my experience with men. A woman doesn't have to be a whore to enjoy sex and she isn't automatically a prude if she respects her body. Some guys just don't plain get this.

I think in order for a woman to fully enjoy and value sex, she must love and value herself as a sexual being. That means she is responsible for her own emotional, physical and spiritual health. It means thinking before sleeping with someone so she doesn't subject herself to disease. It also means allowing her deepest sexual fantasies to survive inside of her no matter how kinky they may be. It means she must practice healthy communication skills with her partner so her needs and her partner's needs can be met without the growth of resentment. And most of all, it means she mush love and respect herself, every part of herself so she can experience and give pleasure to the highest degree possible.

Whore and Prude are both negative terms. The Whore gives up all of herself for someone else's pleasure. The Prude punishes and denies herself of the pleasure that belongs to her. Neither one respects herself, neither one wins. I think we have been trained to carry both of these traits inside of us. We are whores when we bend over backwards to please others and forget about ourselves. We are prudes when we look at our bodies in disgust and try to eliminate our natural fantasies. We can, however, work to lessen the impact of both traits in our lives and possibly eliminate their influence in our lives. It's not about striking a balance between the two negative poles, it's about finding a different positive path. That path is education about oneself, love for oneself, and acceptance of oneself. We owe ourselves the respect we deserve.

JoveGirl, this is some pretty interesting stuff and I'm happy to see someone starting an intelligent discussion about it. If you're interested I'd recommend some books by Nancy Friday. She talks about this topic a lot.
 
My belief is...

The dirtiest minds I've ever known were all female. So long as they trust you to keep your mouth shut about it afterwards the things some women want to do would shock some of the young guys on here :)

..that we are worse in regards to sexual desire...and the stealth behind it, is genius! :beerchug:
 
:)

Great, I love this kind of stuff. I took a "Psychology of Women" class and a Human Sexuality class and we started to discuss some of this stuff.

Unfortunately, I think men are probably affected more by these stereotypes at least from my experience with men. A woman doesn't have to be a whore to enjoy sex and she isn't automatically a prude if she respects her body. Some guys just don't plain get this.

I think in order for a woman to fully enjoy and value sex, she must love and value herself as a sexual being. That means she is responsible for her own emotional, physical and spiritual health. It means thinking before sleeping with someone so she doesn't subject herself to disease. It also means allowing her deepest sexual fantasies to survive inside of her no matter how kinky they may be. It means she must practice healthy communication skills with her partner so her needs and her partner's needs can be met without the growth of resentment. And most of all, it means she mush love and respect herself, every part of herself so she can experience and give pleasure to the highest degree possible.

Whore and Prude are both negative terms. The Whore gives up all of herself for someone else's pleasure. The Prude punishes and denies herself of the pleasure that belongs to her. Neither one respects herself, neither one wins. I think we have been trained to carry both of these traits inside of us. We are whores when we bend over backwards to please others and forget about ourselves. We are prudes when we look at our bodies in disgust and try to eliminate our natural fantasies. We can, however, work to lessen the impact of both traits in our lives and possibly eliminate their influence in our lives. It's not about striking a balance between the two negative poles, it's about finding a different positive path. That path is education about oneself, love for oneself, and acceptance of oneself. We owe ourselves the respect we deserve.

JoveGirl, this is some pretty interesting stuff and I'm happy to see someone starting an intelligent discussion about it. If you're interested I'd recommend some books by Nancy Friday. She talks about this topic a lot.


I will put Ms. Nancy Friday on my book list. Also; I agree with the positive path. Women in our society are finding paths that are shifting these streotypes. Once in awhile I prefer playing one of the extremes though :)
 
I know female's are just as dirty as males, only difference i see is that for some reason (in general) its more acceptable for a male to brag, talk, and have sex ALLLL the time.

Whereas a woman could get called a slut etc. I think women should be as open as men and it not be any different.

I love sex talk :D I know quiet a few girls who are proper 'sluts' and they dont care, they just f**k, f**k, and f**k. Nothing wrong with it if you ask me.
 
I would like to state that all women are gems, naturally carved and colored by design with flawlessness.

I couldn't help but notice this bit...:rolleyes:

Anyhow, another interesting thread by JoveGirl...I'll stay tuned for sure, lol.

:)
 
I'm taking a human sexuality course now. For the gpa, may I add. I find this pseudo science diluted with crap. The text is the most biased text I've ever had. Maybe it's cause I haven't taken one of these humanities classes for a while, but this crap posturing as real science pisses me off.
 
I'm taking a human sexuality course now. For the gpa, may I add. I find this pseudo science diluted with crap. The text is the most biased text I've ever had. Maybe it's cause I haven't taken one of these humanities classes for a while, but this crap posturing as real science pisses me off.

I don't know why this is...all humans hate the fact that lust and love is a science, why do we want to beleive that these are some sort of unexplainable forces?

The answer: We don't care, we just want it. ;)
 
I agree with only the second part. If no one liked it, then Spicy and Jove wouldn't be talking :)

I know what I like. I don't need an explanation and I couldn't care less of what other people are into. And I don't need to read over and over that I need to accept these lifestyles. There's this section in my book that's a guide on how to deal with trannys when you converse with them or whatever.

I don't expect to hold long conversations with trannys.
 
Nothing "kicks" better than two people who understand one another's sexual beliefs, feelings, and desires, and having them in sync.

Unselfish and mutually "communicated" harmony commitment---ROCKS!


Best wishes


Chillen
 
Haha...

I agree with only the second part. If no one liked it, then Spicy and Jove wouldn't be talking :)

I know what I like. I don't need an explanation and I couldn't care less of what other people are into. And I don't need to read over and over that I need to accept these lifestyles. There's this section in my book that's a guide on how to deal with trannys when you converse with them or whatever.

I don't expect to hold long conversations with trannys.

Any subject that a person can deem a method to is labeled a science.
That's funny about conversing with Trannys....hey, tranny's are people too :rofl:....This was more of a ramble than anything else.

Boredom will do that.

The truth is...I am who I am because I like what I do.
The same is true for everyone.
 
I wouldn't really call sexuality a science. It's much more complicated than that. I have to admit, the human sexuality class itself was pretty lame. If I had just gone along, read the textbook and done the bare minimum, I wouldn't have gotten much out of it.

It was the outside reading and exploration that it inspired me to do that really changed my life. Literally, I was completely in the dark about a lot of this stuff until I took the time to read and explore. I feel so much more whole and confident now. Yay for reading!

Now I'm discovering more of the spiritual perspectives on sexuality. It's different, but it's fun to look into concepts that are thousands of years old and compare them to the new "scientific" concepts.
 
Meaning, it's more of a socio-cultural/spiritual topic that strict physiology and psychology can't fully explain. Most human sexuality classes are taught as a health science or psychology class. What I'm saying is there's a completely different layer to it that those classes leave out.
 
Spicy, you make sex sound like some supernatural and divine experience. You make it sound so complicated.

It's really very simple.
Boy finds girl attractive. Boy sends note to girl to check yes or no if she likes him. She checks yes. They become bf/gf and start holding hands. Eventually boy and girl break up or they develop strong feelings for each other and progress into intimacy.

Oh! And when you guys send that note to the girl, make sure you put hearts around her name. Gotfit said that's what did it for her when I sent her a note.
 
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See there is a method!

Spicy, you make sex sound like some supernatural and divine experience. You make it sound so complicated.

It's really very simple.
Boy finds girl attractive. Boy sends note to girl to check yes or no if she likes him. She checks yes. They become bf/gf and start holding hands. Eventually boy and girl break up or they develop strong feelings for each other and progress into intimacy.

Oh! And when you guys send that note to the girl, make sure you put hearts around her name. Gotfit said that's what did it for her when I sent her a note.

That alllways works :yelrotflmao:
All girls love the hearts around her name!!!
 
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