Derrick's ongoing journey

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Hey Derrick,

I remember you! Read back a few pages and shit man, you've been through the fricking wars! Sorry to read about about the continuing issues you are facing--I hope things improve soon. I work with 5-11 year olds with ASD, Aspergers, ADHD etc and I know how challenging they are--Especially when you are going through other things in your life that demand attention and work.

You've done this before, you can do it again. I'm back after loosing 50lbs and putting it all back on (sigh) so know how you feel.

Keep on keeping on, Derrick.

Hana xx
 
Hey man

It's been over a year since I have posted in my diary so I guess I'm overdue. I'm fluctuating between 221 and 228.5 so let's call it 225 I guess.

I have been getting physical therapy almost every week for the past year. I have arthritis in my left shoulder which causes me pain and decreases my range of motion, especially when lifting over my head. One of my new doctors finally figured out what has been causing my leg pain over the past 4 years. It's from my sacroiliac joint, which is tilted because of my scoliosis. That causes my muscles to spasm and irritate the sciatic nerve. In addition to that I still have spinal stenosis at L2/L3 and L4/L5. I take anywhere from 8 to 12 Advil a day for the inflammation and I also have a Zynex e-stem machine which I put on my right butt cheek basically. It helps me fall asleep because after 15 or 20 minutes the pain goes away.

I got a cortisone shot in my left shoulder and I had an allergic reaction to either the numbing medicine or the cortisone. I started to have symptoms similar to those when I had meningitis and encephalitis. The right side of my face and my finger tips were going numb and I was having trouble with speech. I sat in the ER parking lot for an hour debating wether to go in. After the symptoms subsided I chose not to. I really didn't want to be admitted to a hospital again and undergo MRI's and such. The next two days I was in agony from the shot in my shoulder. I couldn't move my arm four inches upward. I was even making make shift slings. Ten days later total pain relief finally came. However, just two months later the pain is coming back. I can't keep getting cortisone shots all over my body and physical therapy hasn't helped as much as I hoped.

I am getting surgery in May to clean out a deviated septum and remove my uvula. I've been choking at night and in the mornings because my uvula is blocking my airway.

My basement was recently finished and I have a nice exercise room. One of the reasons I came here was to check my diary posts to see what I was eating when I was successfully losing weight. My wife and I are doing well and my kids are 7 and almost 3.

My wife has a lot of joint pain (wrist, forearm, leg, foot) and is often low on energy and tired. She had her primary doctor run some tests and one of them came back positive. It can indicate Lupus but we are not jumping to conclusions because she also said there are many other reasons it could be positive, including a false positive. So she now has to go to a Rheumatologist for further testing.

My daughter is a challenge because she has ADHD and possibly a mild version of Asperger's. It's taken a toll on the whole family, especially my wife who works endlessly with our daughter's doctors, her school, researching, etc. etc. It's emotionally frustrating.

My son still has a very strict and limited diet due to food allergies and he often gets sinus infections because of low immunity.

Financially we are fine so at least that is good. We aren't dying and we are enjoying life despite all the challenges that continue to come our way. So I can still say I am doing well, all things considered. Hopefully I can come back here at least once a month with some positive news to log. Weight wise I'm going to shoot for 219, then 209, then 199. From there I'd still like to get to the mid 180's but man has that proven to be nearly unattainable. I just need to stay healthy. I know I have the brain power and the will.

Derrick



Why are you so hard to find man? I just wanted to say hi.

Your old friend/neighbor

Sean H.
 
Hey man





Why are you so hard to find man? I just wanted to say hi.

Your old friend/neighbor

Sean H.

First time on this forum in many years. Sorry it has taken me so long to see this. I got your private message and sent you an email this afternoon. I hope you still have the same email address. Thanks for reaching out. Hard to believe it’s been almost 30 years since we were running around the subdivision playing manhunt!

Here’s an update for anyone interested. I imagine everyone who used to follow my thread is long gone by now (from the forum) but I’ll post it anyway.

Some family members did a sprint triathlon on Sunday and it brought back old memories. I came here to look up my triathlon time because I remembered I posted it here.

All of my fitness pursuits got put on the back burner. I’ve been a stay at home dad part time since 2016 and full time for the past 13 months. Both of my kids have high functioning autism and significant mood disorders. It has required nearly all my wife and I have in us to give them a chance to live a self sufficient life someday.

I’m still 225 but my heart and lungs are out of shape. I still got it in me though. Just a few weeks ago I was going off diving boards with my son. For the first time in almost 20 years I was trying one and a half’s and eventually got it right. I gained some confidence so I tried a double and nailed it for the first time in my life. I joked that the extra weight helped me spin faster. I wasn’t a diver. I was a swimmer that enjoyed having fun diving. Later I was showing my son how to do a swimming start. One of the 16 year old lifeguards, who is currently a competitive swimmer, asked if I was a swimmer because my start was “textbook.” I don’t need compliments to make me feel good but I appreciated that one.
I can still swim like a fish for a couple laps. Would love to get back into it but that would require dropping at least 20 pounds and getting my heart and lungs fit again. That would take a lot of hours out of my week when there already aren’t enough. Maybe someday.
 
Hi, Derrick & welcome back to the forum. I have just read back over some pages of your diary. You continue to overcome obstacles that would floor most of us. I'm glad you are able to get some swimming in & I hope you get the chance to do that more often. Good for you, being a stay-at-home Dad. Our younger son has BP 2 & is now on meds & doing well. I have nothing but admiration for him, but also for you. I know you have had so many ups & downs, but you sound as though life is a bit better for you now. I know our son felt better knowing what had troubled him all his life.
 
There are a few of us oldies still around, with 3 Autistic sons of my own, I know how hard it can be.
 
Derrick is that you?? Holy crap-lol. How are you man? It has been a long time. Funny I just posted here today after a year and a half. I see you have been having some challenges. Life can be hard sometimes but it sounds like you have not been letting it get to your waistline. As hard as things can be there is always the love and support of your family. Makes it all worth while. If I remember correctly you always did love to swim. Cool that you can pass that down to your son. It is nice to touch base with you again.
 
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