Boob Job?

Well, they didnt even mention a parent's permission. they just bluntly said they cant help me..

I dont think i can get a parent's permission?

but If i could, I know my dad would SO sign for me.

He knows how messed up i am because of this.
 
I would call and ask about it -- I'm almost positive it will work. Tell them your parents want you to have this done or something. See if you can talk to a nurse -- usually the receptionists are not medical professionals. Keep me posted and good luck!
 
I'm really sorry your feeling the way you are about your body, but I can honestly say, if, when your boyfriend sees you naked, decides he doesn't want to be with you, he isn't worth being together with. He would oficially be scum of the earth. Buy yourself some bras and panties that make you feel good, get some camisole tops that will cover more of the breasts. It's amazing how good you look when you carry yourself with more confidence.

THat being said, I've been on the waiting list for a breast reduction for the past 2 1/2 years. It's completely 100% covered by medical here in BC Canada, so that's why the wait list is so long. If I could have got one done when I was 16, I would have, but no doctor would even look at me. Looking back, I"m glad I waited, because I was able to breastfeed both of my children without a single drop of formula, which I probably wouldn't have been able to do had I got the reduction.
 
Coming from a male perspective.. and also loving female breasts and bums :)

All I can say is that personally Ilike female boobs that are natural and unmodified. I can sympathise with ladies that have had breast cancer, or they are just to big and heavy and putting stress on the back. And also females that are too small and may have a complex about them.

But all in all Natural is Best !!
 
This is JMO but I say, once you've reached your goal weight, do whatever makes YOU happy! You are only 17 and I know exactly what you are talking about... without clothes on you probably look like one of those women on National Geographic with the saggy, skinny, empty "sacs" hanging to their belly buttons lol! (Not being rude, just know from personal experience what you're going through.) I don't blame you one bit for wanting to fix that. In most cases, breastfeeding will still be an option IF it's something you want to do. I also know how you feel about your boyfriend. I'm sure, if he really loves you, he will think you are beautiful regardless... BUT if YOU don't feel beautiful, it can affect a lot of different areas in your life... DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY GIRL! :hurray:
 
Pancake/crepe boobies, got those, gonna get a boob job but have to wait until money is sorted.
I want to get rid of the excess skin first, the boobs are secondary.

But I know what you're talking about regarding the bra things. ii tried a push up bra and there just lierally isnt any fat there to push up, it just pushes the boobs out the side ... not the top but both sides!
Ive not yet found many decent bras that can hold it in.

To Mal and the others, imagine a plastic bag with water in it, it flops all over the show, so make it sit in a nice boob like shape it just flops on the side unless you get some sort of granny bra that goes right up under the armpit and round the entire front.
Shaped sports bras are the only thing that seem to work for me and look vaguely decent. Pushup just look horrible and rolls hang out the side or the boobs just fall out when i move.
 
trustme when I say my boobs aren't the greatest... but push up bras aren't what I'm talking about... push up bras tend to only look decent on A or AA cups... there are shaper bras out there for all cup sizes that do a good job of shaping and supporting and making you look ok with your clothes on...

I wouldn't call my bras granny bras -but maybe they are -they do cover the entire boob -cleavage isn't appropriate in the workplace anyhow :D
 
plastic bags of water *giggle*

I have no boobs to shape, just skin flaps :D

Agreed about the cleavage in the workplace, but will somebody tell that fat chick in customer support who insists on displaying hers for all to see! :O
 
the office manager in my office is a rather busty gal - and not exactly a waifish thing she's a size 20 who dresses like she's a size 2 - that 0 really matters.. tube top dresses, low cut v-neck shirts, tank tops - she doesn't own a proper bra...and well - she really should -the boob should sit between your shoulder and your elbow -not by the belly button.. (

and I'mnot sure who she's showing off for - 90 percent of the male population round here isn't into girls...
 
I have breast implants. I got them done in 2005 [before baby weight attacked me haha]. I must say it was the best thing I did for myself next to losing 50lbs when I was 17. My problem was I didn't have any boobs... I literally had the chest of a 10yr old. I was a grown woman but felt like I was trapped in the body of a young child. I hated it. I couldn't find any tops that fit right or any bras... nothing. I finally decided I wanted the surgery and I went from a 36A/AA to a 36D I was so happy. I felt complete. I don't care what people think about me as far as getting breast implants either. Its my body and my life... Some people will say "You should be happy with what God gave you".. well 1. I don't believe in God and 2. Im the one that has to look at myself naked everyday and if im not happy than I should do something about it... My Boyfriend gave the ol' "I like natural boobs"... blah blah blah... well I told him flat out it wasn't about him, it wasn't his body or anyones but mine. I thought it was great and all that he liked natural boobs [besides the fact I didnt have any lol] but happiness started with myself not anyone else.
 
I understand all of this... except mine are left ravaged in a different way...
Mine were NEVER "big". My highest was a C cup. I lost seventy some pounds, and now theyre almost coney.... its embarrassing. Plus I've always had an imbalance between the two, almost a cup size...so breast IMPLANTS are what I'm looking into..I know a lot of people are against it (including my boyfriend) but I feel like a chubby boy up top. It kills my self esteem. I ALWAYS have to wear padded bras or it looks like I have nothing with a bra on..

bleh!!! :leaving:
 
Lraebennett, if it will make you feel better, THEN DO IT!!! :party:

As for myself, the only (and I do mean only) good thing about my extra flab was that I did have some boobs. I cannot believe how they have shrunken since losing my weight! It is a total rip off. However, it doesn't upset me enough to pursue surgery; if I could afford such a thing, I would TOTALLY get lipo to get rid of my *&^% cottage cheese thighs! :banghead: Grrr.

JM2C,
ABBA
 
i'm glad i'm not the only one having boob issues. when i was at my highest weight, i was a 38D and now i'm a 36C, which is what i was in high school, even when i weighed 110 lbs (talk about top heavy). the issue is that after gaining weight and losing, i have horrible stretch marks and extra skin and my one boob, since it is bigger than the other (about a cup size), sags so badly. my one is probably a large C and the other would be a B. it's ridiculous. there's really no way to hide it. and a swimsuit is embarassing.

i always wondered if they could get rid of my real boobs and just give me fake ones that at least match. i didn't have the money to get it done, so i didn't really look into it, but if it can be done and i get the money...i'd do it in a heartbeat.

it irritates me when others say 'oh they're fine' or 'the guy won't even notice.' well it's not about anyone else...it's about me and how ridiculous i feel and look!!

damn boobs.
 
I know this thread is ultimately a little old, but can I throw out some male perspective on this?

Are men pigs? Yes.
Are men shallow? Yes.
Are men fascinated with breasts? Yes.
But...not all men are like that.

Who cares if you don't have a pair of so-called "perfect" breasts? Does it really matter? No, it doesn't. The only men who care about finding a woman with perfect breasts are the exact men that you (as women) shouldn't want to be attracting in the first place. You should want to attract a guy who loves you for who you are, not what's in your bra. Any guy who will judge you for the size and shape of your chest is a guy that isn't worth your time.

I know that it can be a little embarassing in a sense to not have a perfect body, but nobody has a perfect body. We all have our flaws and, believe it or not, it's our flaws that make us who we are. Our flaws are actually the most beautiful parts about us.

So, you have saggy, uneven, low-hanging, small or stretch-mark-covered breasts? SO WHAT?!?!?! That doesn't change anything about you as a person and it most certainly doesn't make you any less beautiful than you already are.

I know that girls have it rough, having to deal with the pressure of looking perfect all of the time, but give yourselves some credit every once in a while. It sucks seeing all of these women (of all ages) getting so down on themselves just because they don't look like the plastic Barbie Doll that they saw on the cover of the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. There are so many great women out there that reduce themselves to nothing just because they don't have a perfectly molded body.

From a guy's perspective: that's upsetting.

Look, I have a small weiner. It's sad and pathetic looking, like a dehydrated link of sausage. The mere sight of my penis alone induces immediate vomitting in members of the opposite sex (and, quite possibly, members of the same sex). Seriously, it's an unnaturally small looking piece of meat that I have dangling down there, but...it doesn't change a thing about me as a person.

Does it suck not having a big 'ole ween in my pants? Yuuuuup. But, I'm ok with it. I'm still me and, even though I talk some serious shit about myself, I like me. You should like you too, no matter what your breasts look like.

FYI - I'll take a smart, well-educated, honest, genuine, down to earth, trustworthy, committed, appreciative, funny and comforting woman with saggy boobs over a bimbo with perky breasts any day of the week. And, I'm not the only guy who feels that way - keep that in mind the next time you don't feel so beautiful.

:beating:
 
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Not knockin you down. ( and the thread is SO old.) But then you have the men who say that, and the next second one of those "bimbos" walk near you and their eyes wonder off in that direction.

If It's my situation. my boyfriend says he LOVES my breasts. They're "me" Theyre perfect and he wouldn't want it any other way. ( only a yr and 3 mo relationship) And the next day we go to the store and I get "jealous" when those type of girls who walk around having the perky body and perfect skin.. So I turn to my boyfriend for comfort and I noticed his eyes werent on me! But if I bring it up to his attention, I'M the one thats wrong. She just happened to be in HIS eye view. Lol. It's probably just jealousy.

the guy worships me, and Loves every inch of my wrinkly droopy body.

Weirdo, huh?
 
After our first intimate relationship, I asked him what he thought of my breasts. And the only response he says is " They're you. And I love you. "
 
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