Advice needed... :(

Don't you think she's being a little controlling? I would think she would be interested in a guy who doesn't abandon his friends.
 
But there's a balance.... He cant hang out with her for 2 weeks, then ditch her for 2 weeks for friends... and things like that, it doesn't seem right...

I see my boyfriend every other day... that way I guess we get time to ourselves. to our own friends... things like that..

I'm the first girl he's ever said he loved. He also sends me TXT's every morning saying " good Morning Beautiful " Or something. Oh god! PLEASE DONT LET THOSE STOP! Lol.

I think a lot of the times guys also dont notice how little things mean so much to girls.

they dont think the same... A lot of the time, guys do things without realising they're hurting the girl.

And then again, if you've talked about these issues, and it seems he listens, and then the next day it seems he never heard you speak...
I'd start thinkin where the relationship is going?

Where's the respect?
 
cocacola144 said:
But there's a balance.... He cant hang out with her for 2 weeks, then ditch her for 2 weeks for friends... and things like that, it doesn't seem right...

I see my boyfriend every other day... that way I guess we get time to ourselves. to our own friends... things like that..

I'm the first girl he's ever said he loved. He also sends me TXT's every morning saying " good Morning Beautiful " Or something. Oh god! PLEASE DONT LET THOSE STOP! Lol.

I think a lot of the times guys also dont notice how little things mean so much to girls.

they dont think the same... A lot of the time, guys do things without realising they're hurting the girl.

And then again, if you've talked about these issues, and it seems he listens, and then the next day it seems he never heard you speak...
I'd start thinkin where the relationship is going?

Where's the respect?
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Well said chicka!
 
Wanting to spend more time with friends doesn't mean you need to be a dick your girl, if anything, a smart guy would do the exact opposite. Have his cake and eat it too ;). Something is up.
 
I think that you both need to make some time and meet up somewhere or at one of your houses. Throw everything on the table, be honest at how he is making you feel and ask questions. Communication is the key! Hopefully you can work through this and come to a compramise.

-N-
 
Carthonn said:
Don't you think she's being a little controlling? I would think she would be interested in a guy who doesn't abandon his friends.
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I do not want him to abandon his friends at all, just come to some sort of balance?
 
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