A question about Taylor Swift and her fans

Dallen said:
Hahha, I think I have a lot to work on before I actually meet someone, but I have a lot of speculation about it.

But honestly, I have yet heard about girls wanting a "normal" guy before. I quote normal because I don't think there's any such thing. Like I could be viewed as a "normal" guy, but deep inside, I just want to go ape crap and it takes a lot of strength to suppress it.

However, I have been looking to a lot of "women" magazines and stuff.... again don't ask... and it appears from my view that what women desire is this crazy man, but she wants to be the one who can control this, break this. I guess to make yourself desirable, you have to make yourself seem wild, uncontrollable, and "open." Then a woman is suppose to come in and control all that and they get all the credit for this. If you're already in this tame state, women don't desire it, because who would want to hang around a boring old person? I guess by being with another women, typically other women view this as a plus because it shows that you're willing to be "open" but perhaps she views herself as a person who rescues you from that broken relationship - even if it really isn't or going through a tough period.

A lot of women say they want a man who is stable, hard working, honest, and cares for her. A lot of men fit this bill, but yet it appears women want the opposite, and then attempt to do a 180 and reverse it to fit what they want.
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Dude!!

Step away from the computer.

Go outside and play :D
 
Awwwww :(
 
Dallen said:
A lot of women say they want a man who is stable, hard working, honest, and cares for her. A lot of men fit this bill, but yet it appears women want the opposite, and then attempt to do a 180 and reverse it to fit what they want.
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I think women want the stable, hard working guy to settle down with but the rough and tough to have "fun" with while they are still single. I know there are younglings on this site, so we will call it "fun."
 
Avraham said:
I think women want the stable, hard working guy to settle down with but the rough and tough to have "fun" with while they are still single. I know there are younglings on this site, so we will call it "fun."
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lol, I like the Star Wars insurt

Guys like wholesome girls, that like dirty fun
 
women like a man who CAN be in a relationship (rather than casual, they want exclusivity) because this is desireable in a mate if you want to be successful in reproducing.

in other words, yeah its pre-programmed into our genes to prefer exclusivity so the species can survive.
 
malkore said:
women like a man who CAN be in a relationship (rather than casual, they want exclusivity) because this is desireable in a mate if you want to be successful in reproducing.

in other words, yeah its pre-programmed into our genes to prefer exclusivity so the species can survive.
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The exclusive part i agree with.

But i know lotsa solid guys that probably can reproduce that have a hard time catchin a date. I hate to say it but as sad as it is, looks play a bigger part than we want to think.
 
Haha, listen to you guys :rofl:

I'm sure women will start posting in here and say what they're looking for...when they figure that out themselves!
Why do men always asume women know what they're looking for? They're just like us and have a rough idea of what they're looking for in their head but then see some guy that's the complete opposite and fall for him instead.

As for the reason behind the songs having a generic theme, these songs are writen by some old guys in a studio somewhere and record studios give them to singers to perform, that's probably why they all sound the same, it's just generic **** farmed out to appeal to teenage girls who want to date the hottest guy in school who happens to be dating the hottest girl in school.

And why are the most attractive guys taken? Because they're attractive, isn't that bloody obvious?

Oh yeah, and things that you can't have are always more appealing. It's forbidden fruit, you didn't think it was an apple that Eve tempted Adam with do you :love2:.
The other thing is that men in relationships are more confident about themselves and lose that stink of desperation that women get turned off by, their testosterone levels also drop which makes them act less like jerks

Basically there are thousands of reasons :)
 
johnny83 said:
The exclusive part i agree with.

But i know lotsa solid guys that probably can reproduce that have a hard time catchin a date. I hate to say it but as sad as it is, looks play a bigger part than we want to think.
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I think Malkore was talking about more than just the conception part, they need someone to raise the kids too and play the hunter gatherer role.

Ever wondered why fit women often settle down with short, ugly, fat guys with stable incomes? Well that's why, they're providers and are less likely to have the chance to do better than her.

My wife has a stunning friend who married an ugly bloke, but he has a job that has companies from all over the world fighting over him. This woman is the kind of stunning that gives a guy wood the second she walks into a room. That's largely because her chest enters the room a minute before she does. She said she only dated bad boys before she met her husband, but of course once she was with him she had kids almost immediately and moved into a massive house.
I don't think she was cynical and calculating in picking the ugly guy to raise her kids, I just think it's a natural change in women when they get broody, their idea of attractive changes too.
 
Typhon said:
I think Malkore was talking about more than just the conception part, they need someone to raise the kids too and play the hunter gatherer role.

Ever wondered why fit women often settle down with short, ugly, fat guys with stable incomes? Well that's why, they're providers and are less likely to have the chance to do better than her.

My wife has a stunning friend who married an ugly bloke, but he has a job that has companies from all over the world fighting over him. This woman is the kind of stunning that gives a guy wood the second she walks into a room. That's largely because her chest enters the room a minute before she does. She said she only dated bad boys before she met her husband, but of course once she was with him she had kids almost immediately and moved into a massive house.
I don't think she was cynical and calculating in picking the ugly guy to raise her kids, I just think it's a natural change in women when they get broody, their idea of attractive changes too.
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That being said, sorry but women like that in my book are called gold diggers. For richer or for poorer is the way it should be. I get what malk was sayin, but i still think looks have a way bigger impact then guys like to admit.
Look at your avitar for examle, that phrase is a perfact example ! :)
 
johnny83 said:
That being said, sorry but women like that in my book are called gold diggers. For richer or for poorer is the way it should be. I get what malk was sayin, but i still think looks have a way bigger impact then guys like to admit.
Look at your avitar for examle, that phrase is a perfact example ! :)
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A gold digger goes looking for it, I don't think she did, it's just a natural change in the way your brain is wired as you get older. She used to look for wild and dangerous but now she's looking for safe, kind and dependable

Just like how when I was a teenager I looked for girls with long blonde hair, big tits, great legs and tiny waist, but now I've got older I've matured a lot and all I look for now is a woman with big tits, low standards and a hot sister, oh, and beer.

We live and learn is all I'm saying ;)
 
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JohnnySolo said:
This thread reminds me of the vid of Drew Bledsoe being an office perv and getting away with it. Anyone else= arrested. I’ll look for it on Utube tonight.

Most women say they want one thing (aggressive and romantic guys) BUT if you’re just a regular guy, they don’t want it from you. lol

I’ve noticed that women on this sight don’t speak up at these threads, must be too bust laughing at us.

note: neon already has
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Tom Brady
 
So, my goal should be the following:

1. Find someone I like
2. Find out where she hangs out
3. Purchase a two dollar hooker, and a ring from a cracker jack box and put it on my wedding ring finger
4. Bring said hooker to hang out place
5. Ignore girl I really like and pretend I'm deeply, madly in love with this hooker, but make her get mad at me, then cause her to storm off.
6. ??????????????????
7. Profit!!!!!!!
 
Dallen said:
So, my goal should be the following:

1. Find someone I like
2. Find out where she hangs out
3. Purchase a two dollar hooker, and a ring from a cracker jack box and put it on my wedding ring finger
4. Bring said hooker to hang out place
5. Ignore girl I really like and pretend I'm deeply, madly in love with this hooker, but make her get mad at me, then cause her to storm off.
6. ??????????????????
7. Profit!!!!!!!
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Not a bad plan, you could do better than a $2 hooker couldn't you? You need a fit one to show the girl you like that you're a catch that fit women would be proud of
 
Not according to Taylor Swift. It appears all I need to do is have the "wrong" girl and she'll know that she's the "right" girl for me. So this plan of mine is flawlessly perfect.
 
A lot of guys assume because I workout so much and am into that kind of lifestyle that I date big muscle guys, but I have almost exclusively ended up with geeky/nerdy guys who don't have a lot of friends.
 
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Western Sky said:
A lot of guys assume because I workout so much and am into that kind of lifestyle that I date big muscle guys, but I have almost exclusively ended up with geeky/nerdy guys who don't have a lot of friends.
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See one lady who likes the nerdy/geeky types. :love3:
 
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