1985's Weight Loss Diary

1985

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Hi!

I’m a 20 year old, third-year university student. I live in a dorm, thus I’m subjected to a mandatory meal plan, which means I buy every meal at various cafes or convenience stores around campus. I don’t have access to a kitchen here, either, so making healthy choices is a bit of challenge sometimes (BUT completely doable - I just need to be smarter about what I eat).

I’ve been overweight since I was about 7 years old. It’s due to a combination of things:

1) I need to exercise regularly.
2) I need to pay more attention to portion control.
3) I need to stop eating when I’m full, rather than when the plate is empty.
4) I need to stop snacking at night.
5) I need to drink more water.

I’m 5’4 and weigh 220 lbs. That number still shocks me, to be honest. I struggled with my weight all through middle and high school, but this is by far an all-time high.

I don’t gain weight constantly; when I’m watching, I’m able to more or less maintain my current weight. It’s when I slip up and stop paying attention for a few weeks or months that I put on weight. So the "throw the scale out" approach doesn't really work for me.

I gained a fair bit of weight in the months after my dad died, when I was 14, and I gained some weight in my last year of high school, because I was so busy that it was easy to neglect my health. I gained weight the following year, too, mostly due to a work schedule that had me eating supper at 10 p.m. some nights. Recently, I’ve put on another 10 lbs, partly due to overconsumption of rich foods during the Christmas season, and partly due to a stressful situation with a close friend.

So, I guess I overeat when I’m under stress, upset, or bored. And that’s when I tend to make unhealthy choices. I’ve tried to lose weight countless times before, but my problem is that my motivation quickly fades, so I rarely stick with any plan for longer than a few days at a time.

I want to get serious about it this time though, because for the first time ever, I’m starting to worry about my health. Despite being overweight, I’ve always been very healthy. After gaining the last 25 lbs or so, though, I’ve started to feel sluggish, moody, and more self-conscious than I used to be. I find that I get tired (both physically and mentally drained) more quickly than I used to, and that’s been a real wake up call for me.

All of the other times I’ve wanted to lose weight, it’s been for concern over how I look, and over how others perceive me. While I won’t lie and say that I don’t care about that anymore - because to some extent, I do, that’s no longer my sole motivation. I want to do everything in my power to continue to enjoy the good health I’ve been lucky enough to have for the past 20 years. Translation: I need this "life change" to work.

So, I guess that’s me in a nutshell. I hope I haven’t rambled on too much! I look forward to getting to know you all and achieving our goals together.
 
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How much weight do you want to lose?

I’d like to lose 60+ lbs, though I don’t have a specific ultimate goal. For the time being, I’d be happy to just get below the dreaded 200 lb mark. When (I don’t want to say “if” anymore) I reach that first goal, I’ll set a new goal.

What is the timeframe for reaching your target weight?

As long as it takes. Of course, the sooner the better. I want to have lost at least 25 lbs by May 1.

How do you want to accomplish your goal (what methods do you want to use)?

Exercise and healthy food choices. I’m not anxious to latch onto some fad, nor do I want to jeopardize my health. I think that the best answer for me is to watch portion size, drink more water, and make a commitment to lead a more active lifestyle.

Who or what can support you in reaching your goal?

Myself. I’m the one who needs to change; I’ve brought this on myself via the choices I’ve made over the past few years. So, I’m the one who needs to fix this.

How realistic is your goal?

I want to lose at least 5 lbs every month (hopefully more). Since “the experts” recommend losing no more than 2-3 lbs per week, I’d say my goal is VERY realistic and achievable.

When will you start?

Now.
 
You'll love it here!! Everyone is awesome about helping out with food and exercise and just great words of encouragement...
I'm 23, 5'10'' and am at 267 right now- I agree- while I shouldn't care about what everyone thinks of me, I do... but for the most part it has switched to health aspects. My mom died of a heart attack two years ago because of high blood pressure, which I would like to avoid.. You'll do great- and we'll all be here to help :) !!
 
Hi Jess, thanks for the reply! I'm very sorry to hear about your mom - I know what losing a parent unexpectedly is like. Good luck with your goals, and nice to "meet" you. :)
 
A quick question before I go to bed:

Does anyone know much about multivitamins? I received a bottle of One a Day "Weight Smart" multivitamins with green tea extract not too long ago. I'm wondering if it's alright to take them sporadically, like on days when I KNOW I haven't eaten enough dairy/meat/etc? Or are they more effective if taken regularly? I'm usually pretty good about eating from the four food groups, but sometimes go a day or two without eating meat. So, I'm thinking they might be a good idea for me, but just want to double check. Thanks.
 
hey- I work at gnc(healthy store ironic huh?? :) ) and you should definately take a multi EVERY DAY!!! they give you more energy, fight off free radicals that cause you to get sick, and actually, a great multi will help speed up your metabolism just because if your body is getting everything it needs, it won't store as much fat for usage. make sure you get a good one- most only have like 7-14 % absorption rates- the one i take has 97% absorption- and with three jobs, I notice a huuuugggggeee difference!
 
Thanks for the encouragement, redwillow!

Jess393 said:
hey- I work at gnc(healthy store ironic huh?? :) ) and you should definately take a multi EVERY DAY!!! they give you more energy, fight off free radicals that cause you to get sick, and actually, a great multi will help speed up your metabolism just because if your body is getting everything it needs, it won't store as much fat for usage. make sure you get a good one- most only have like 7-14 % absorption rates- the one i take has 97% absorption- and with three jobs, I notice a huuuugggggeee difference!

I looked on the label and on the product website, but I didn't see any info about absorption rates? Anyway, thanks for the reply - I think I'll start tomorrow. One last though: am I right to assume that it's okay to stop taking the multi at any time?
 
Day 1

I had a good first day, though that's the way it usually goes. In the past, I've been onboard 110% for the first few days, but then my enthusiasm dwindles. I'm going to do my best to keep that from happening this time, though!

Food

Breakfast
- an orange.


Lunch
- homemade veggie and brown rice soup.

[Made on the weekend and eaten cold, as I don't have a kitchen but DO have a mini fridge here.]

Supper
- a chicken BLT salad I bought at the place downstairs.
- a crunchy peanut butter granola bar


Tonight, not snacking was pretty easy, as I had a 3-hour-long night class. I did get hungry about halfway through, though, and was still a bit hungry when I got back. I distracted myself by reading this site (seeing people's before and after pictures is pretty inspirational!), drank a bunch of water, and watched a show I like. Now the temptation to snack has passed.

Water
- 7 glasses

Exercise
- 40 minutes of walking

[I've made a deal with myself that I'm only allowed to watch television/movies at home if I exercise while doing so, so that's what I did while watching my show tonight.]

- I also probably walked about 15 minutes total going to and from classes today.
 
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Yeah, you can quit whenever ya want, but ya get more benefits if ya take em forever :)
I've actually found that I'm a bit addicted to this sight :p and the more I read on it the more I'm able to avoid the temptation of snacking all the time yay~ and when I go to the gym I'm able to do more cardio cuz of tv.. lol... how sad that its such a motivator :rolleyes:
 
Haha, yeah..I've set this site as my homepage to make sure there's no way I can forget about it!

I just asked about the multis because I think it's great if they can help speed up a person's metabolism - I just worry that after quitting taking them, a person's metabolism might slow right down again? (I'm really clueless about this stuff, so might be asking silly questions..I just want to be sure before I start!)
 
Hi there! It sounds lik eyou and I have similar goals ... I'm looking to lose 50 or more pounds and am also in my third year of college. Living alone makes it easier to make healthier food choices but also it's difficult because of money situations and temptation ALL over! haha*
But I am here to support you and I know what the struggle is like ... believe me! Whwnever you are having days that your motivation is a little off or lower than usual, come on here and just read or take a walk outside and you will just feel so much better that you did! :)
Good luck ! Glad you joined us here !!
 
Hi Emma, thanks for the encouragement. It's nice to know someone else is out there with pretty much the same goals as me! Good luck to you, too!
 
Day 2

Food

Lunch
- a bowl of Special K with Berries with 1% milk (probably 2 servings, as a serving size is only 3/4 of a cup)

Snack
- a few more handfuls of Special K with Berries

Supper
- homemade soup (I didn't keep track of how much, but it's very healthy, so I'm not too concerned)
- a veggie salad with a bit of feta cheese and light dressing

Snack
- I slipped up and snacked after class tonight. I feel like I'm catching what's been going around campus, and when I'm sick, I usually tend to want to eat more. I had a big orange and 4 Turtles (90 calories each - ack!) I'll have to try to be extra-good tomorrow.

Water
- 6 glasses

Exercise
- 40 minutes during my TV show, plus about 10 minutes walking to/from classes today
 
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Day 3

Food

At about 5 a.m. I woke up and made a cup of some Cadbury instant coffee mix, because I had a sore throat.

Breakfast
- a glass of orange juice

Lunch
- a bowl of Special K with Berries (2 servings), with 1% milk (probably 2 cups?)

Supper
- a small French vanilla cappuccino (still a pretty big cup though!)
- a chicken Caesar salad with low fat dressing (I purposefully chose something with meat in it, but ended up picking most of the meat off anyway, as it wasn't very good. Oh well, I tried!)

Snack
- a grapefruit

Water
- 7 glasses

Exercise
- jogged (slowly!) 20 minutes
- walked 40 minutes


I also started with the multivitamins today, so will be interested to see if I notice any change over the next few days/weeks.
 
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Oh, and rather than set a goal weight, I've decided to focus on taking off 20 lbs at a time. Maybe it's a silly, minor detail, but for me, it seems less overwhelming and much more achievable that way.

...I'll be interested to see what the scale has to say next weekend when I go home. I'm really hoping that, as long as I manage to stay on track until then, I'll have lost at least a couple of pounds. I don't want to obsess too much over just one week, but on the other hand, it will probably give me a good indication of what to expect in coming weeks in terms of weight loss.
 
Its much less overwhelming to do 20 at a time :) nothing weird about it.
The vitamins will be great, but just make sure ya give a little time, I think its somethin like 2 weeks for your body to absorb everything.... hmm, or someithng :)
 
Your doing better then me hun I try to stick to 5 or 10 pounds at a time, it’s an easer goal to reach and it feels better for me. Why don’t you join the 10 pound club with us?
 
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