Your ideal mate?

Aphrodite1

Aphrodite1

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I figured this would be a fun thread, to get myself on a more positive kick-start back on the forum.


Its a time to dream- if you could create your ideal mate, what would they look like? what type of personality? Also any other added factors you could think of.


Me personally, I noticed I tend to always be more drawn to Leos. I love guys that are not muscular, but an average weight, however athletic is a plus. I have a thing for hockey players.

Confidence and loyalty are needed, although unfortunately thats not always easy to find as a combination. Prefer dark hair, and pale skin,dark brown/brown eyes.

Also like them a bit nerdy. I'm a nerd at heart so I wouldn't be able to be with a guy who couldn't share my hobbies (i.e gaming, internet culture)

I love a dominant personality as it shows a guy who refuses to be a pushover. Also, a guy that is not secretive, a guy that is straightforward and honest- regardless of how much the truth hurts. The truth exists whether it is brought to the light or not.


I want a guy who understands that things do not always have to be black and white. For example, it is not mine or his fault.. it just 'is', and understands that a relationship will never be 100% perfect, that the honeymoon phase does not last forever. This is a key to a long-term relationship, because beyond the feel-good times, is when commitment is truly tested.



I feel part of me is drawn to this type is because it is something I strive to see in myself. I feel, deep inside, I am a leader. My submissive side is not the real me, the side that I choose to show out of fear of risk.



Sorry for the wall of text, just thought it would be an interesting discussion.
 
nice idea. i don't just wanna talk about my success and failure in my weight loss goal.


my ideal mate would have some of the same interests as me, but not all of them, as i still like to be alone sometimes, and wouldn't want to do everything together. she would respect that my friends are my friends, they don't need to be her friends too and wouldn't try to keep me away from them. she would be smart but not arrogant. she would be open minded and like to hear other's point of view with out being judgmental. she would be funny but not in a desperate for attention kind of way. she would be into the same fetishes as me. she would be supportive of me trying to better myself and not tempt me into falling back into my bad habits. she would love all kinds of music and want to going dancing and to concerts with me on a regular basis.


now since we are talking ideal: she would have long curly red hair, long muscular legs and big hips, A or B cup breasts, green eyes with a larger then average nose, high check bones and full lips with-out that just-got-botox look. at least a few if not a lot of tattoo's and several piercing but not too many.


but this is just a dream...if she is out their i will either never met her or if i do, she would never be into a dude like me.


DH
 
Physically, I like a guy who is tall, neat, and with a nice set of teeth.


But most importantly, I want a guy who is responsible, loves his family, loves action movies (so we'll watch it together), and is supportive of my goals, passions, and my dreams.
 
Nice idea for a thread! I like it... :biggrin:


first, shes GOT to have a sense of humor, thats crucial. Next, at least SOME brains. Throw in a cute smile, and i'll fawn over her all day, haha. Oh, and mega bonus points if she likes, or at least tolerates sports
 
nice thread... especially for the amateurs like me! my ideal mate is not just a man or a bodybuilder. but my ideal mate is in my mind all the time trying to motivate me when i am at gym kicking some weight. it is just imaginary. well i am a huge admirer or Randy Orton wrestler as i think he is an ideal man with ideal shape and weight.
 
i prefer sometimes not to do exercise in gym instead try to control my diet and build myself up in gym. but it is not possible. it is important that you eat a proper diet which is free of fats and sugars, along with exercise. This how you will easily burn fat in your muscles. Not only you will lose fats in your stomach and tummy, but other parts of your body will also loose fats, hence your body will become smart and it will help you to achieve a perfect and ideal body figure and body shape. and u will become ideal in other people's mind
 
Your idea is very nice Aphro.I like this thread.The message given is also good.I like a guy who is smart looking,smile in his face,positive thinking and every problem he has to face bravely.Being happy he has to share happiness to all.Fortunately I got my ideal mate as my husband.:hurray:
 
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